Andy Lau is worth tens of billions, but he is "a dime a dozen" to his sister? The elder sister has lived in the slums of Hong Kong for 20 years, and Andy Lau said: "Absolutely will not help her." My sister told reporters: "Don't mention Andy Lau to me, just when he is gone." "Hua Tsai, who has always been a good person, is indifferent to his own big sister, but why is this?
Andy Lau, who is nearly a flower armour, is still the most popular superstar in the entertainment industry, and most of the stars who debuted with him have retired, only he has been active in the front line of the show business circle for decades, and the fans span three generations of old, middle and young, and seem to have a long-term trend. Andy Lau has been debuting for 40 years, Andy Lau's acting skills and personality are speechless, and he has always been thriving in the entertainment industry.
In 1981, the 20-year-old Andy Lau had grown into a big handsome guy, everywhere he went was a scenery, many people praised him as more handsome than a star, plus he loved to sing, and the eldest sister suggested that he apply for the Hong Kong TVB Artist Training Class.
In 1982, Andy Lau signed a contract with TVB with his superior looks, and in this way, Andy Lau began a brilliant road to acting. Andy Lau is very diligent, and the ability to bear hardships cultivated from an early age makes Andy Lau always the most positive one. Later, under the guidance of Du Guowei, Andy Lau starred in "Divine Eagle Hero" which became popular all over the country, and later turned to the music scene to release countless popular songs such as "Forgetting Love Water" and "Wishing you prosperity". Andy Lau, who ushered in the peak moment of his career, of course, also made a lot of money, and the first thing he did after he became famous was to repay his family.
Many people feel that once the star is famous, the entire family will be labeled with Phnom Penh, indeed, Andy Lau regards family affection as very important, after becoming famous, he has not forgotten his eldest sister, has not forgotten his other brothers and sisters.
After having money, Andy Lau began to help his sister and parents, among them, especially taking care of his eldest sister. As the saying goes: "the eldest sister is like a mother", Andy Lau and the eldest sister are more than 10 years apart, it is difficult to have a younger brother, and the eldest sister is also extremely happy.
In the days when her mother was busy with food stalls, the eldest sister took care of Andy Lau like a mother, dressed and fed Andy Lau, took him out to play, and slept with him at night. Once, Andy Lau suddenly had a high fever in the middle of the night, a high fever of 39.5 did not retreat, took medicine or did not retreat, and the fever of Andy Lau was confused, which frightened the eldest sister, and the eldest sister took care of Andy Lau for two days and two nights without closing his eyes. In the end, Andy Lau was well, and the eldest sister finally couldn't stay up and fainted, so the relationship between the two sisters and brothers was very good.
So that After Andy Lau was red, he also bought a luxury car for his sister, and he would also agree to his sister's various requests, which can be described as responsive, niece married, and Also andy Lau asked for money to dowry, these Andy Lau gave, but the sister gambled indiscriminately, even if the sister owed gambling debts, Andy Lau also helped his sister pay off the debt.
However, the sister has not changed her teaching, sold a luxury car and a house to continue gambling, and even smeared Andy Lau outside, and her sister has not repented
All of Andy Lau's kindness to the eldest sister seems to be regarded as a habit by the eldest sister. She got used to Andy Lau's kindness to her and enjoyed it all. Andy Lau's help was taken for granted, and her sister also told the media: "Dehua was raised by me since I was a child, and now it is his turn to raise me."
The eldest sister treats Andy Lau as a cash cow, like a vampire, the appetite is getting bigger and bigger, the desire for money is becoming more and more greedy, the whole day is idle, no job, no money to find Andy Lau. Even deceived The money of Andy Lau's fans, in desperation, in the face of his sister's blind demand, Andy Lau no longer indulged, he cut off all help to his sister, and did not pull a dime to her, hoping that her sister would repent and embark on the right path. Andy Lau chose to completely break off the connection, which is not stinginess, but to avoid his sister's more unscrupulous demand.
Later, the eldest sister's family had no source of livelihood, no brother's cash machine, and the family had to live in a rental house and live a poor life, so this is also the reason why Andy Lau did not help his sister later.
In the face of the media, the eldest sister did not recognize her mistake, but resented Andy Lau and said: "I haven't seen him for decades, just when he dies." ”
Andy Lau has already done his best for his obsessive sister, and his decision to his sister may be helpless. From the point of view of any ordinary person, there is no indulgence in having such relatives, and it can only be said that her sister is insatiable and morally corrupt.
Perhaps in the eyes of many people, they feel that Andy Lau has done too much, but they do not know that sometimes the four words of "grace and righteousness" are precisely the secrets of successful people.
As the saying goes, "emergency does not save the poor", it is good to solve the temporary crisis, but no one can take family affection as a cover, unlimited dependence on others, only self-reliance is the best state of life.
Every family has a difficult scripture to read, everyone has a difficult song to sing, this is really a beautiful person, there are cold and bitter behind them, and even happier people have helplessness and difficulties in their hearts.
Whether it is a sister or a mother, you can not give in indefinitely because of this layer of blood relations, everyone has the word "principle" in the dictionary, people without principles, can not be successful people, to adhere to the principle, is to resolutely say no to some behaviors, do a good person to be a good person, but do not be a bad good person.
Lu Xun once said: The poor must be hateful. Gratitude is a great virtue, and some people take the kindness of others for granted.
Dong Qing once said such a sentence in the program: May your kindness, with a little sharpness, kindness is very precious, but if kindness does not grow teeth, it is weakness. Kindness is the best quality in a person, but everything must be measured, if there is no bottom line of kindness, sometimes it will become a weakness.
It is estimated that when the sister can regard family affection as more important than money, the relationship between their sister and brother may be as good as ever. Do you think Andy Lau did it right? #Emotion#Gossip Manual# #情感 #
