The older a person gets, the more they understand society and life. The more you know about the world. In this world, it is not easy for a woman to live, and she needs to be brave and wise.
Observe the women around you, most of them have three unprinciples, and everyone appreciates them.
One, no.
When you are young, you want to find a partner to rely on, and when you get married, you will find that you can't give the partner you want at all. Therefore, the old people will say that relying on the mountains and mountains, relying on the flow of water, only by themselves can they have a good life.
I have a colleague who got married after graduating from college, and her husband's family is a very good family. She thought she would have everything after getting married. But when she was pregnant, she had to take care of a guy to eat, and when she gave birth, she had to reach out and ask for milk powder money. She suddenly came to her senses. What you get from others comes at a price, and you need to exchange it for humiliation. She began to change.
She studied accounting in college, went to work in her classmate's accounting firm, and began to become independent. After working for five years, he obtained the accountant certificate. Then he jumped to our company. The increase in income has given me the courage to defend my dignity.
Therefore, in this life, if a woman wants to have a good life, the most important thing she should lose is to rely on her mentality. Buy what you need, and you will have a free life.
Second, don't read it.
Have you ever heard Zhang Liangying's song (don't read it)? The lyrics are very beautiful, the flowing moon on the horizon, watching the rise and fall with cold eyes, the three thousand ways in the world, each going to its own karma, seeing the blazing burning to ashes, seeing the color as bright as a butterfly, trekking thousands of mountains and rivers, going to an illusion.
Listening to songs can give you an idea of life. Women are the most affectionate, but if they don't miss the old love, they will usher in a new life, and cling to the past can only be a boundless sea of suffering. Life will get worse and worse, how can there be a good life?
A few days ago, I swiped a video of a little girl falling out of love, so she ran to the bridge and jumped off the bridge. How immature this is. There are more precious things in the world than love, responsibility to society and parents, respect for one's own life, which one is not more important than love. When a woman is in a relationship, she is doomed to a failed life.
Some time ago, a female student at Peking University was PUA by her boyfriend and finally committed suicide. These are all flowers trapped in love. A woman's life will only be smooth if she is spiritually independent.
Three, not glamorous.
The most important thing in this life is self-confidence. Neither humble nor arrogant, remove the filter of unfamiliarity. Starting from the heart and born to the sun, life will bloom brilliant and colorful flowers.
Disenchantment is understood from the literal meaning of the meaning of dispelling spells and demons. Therefore, disenchantment will reduce a lot of suffering.
When a woman is disenchanted, others are good to her, and the idea is that she is not bad, and there will be no inferiority. When a sense of high worthiness appears, your life will be sunny.
When I wasn't retiring, I had a filter on power and money. But after retirement, this job has made me mature a lot, and after seeing a lot, I realized that everything is caused by the times and opportunities. As long as I understand the pace of the times and find the opportunity, I will also achieve something. All men are created equal. As long as you work hard, everyone has a chance. Therefore, only by disenchanting can we make ourselves better and better.
After the age of fifty, I had an epiphany, I was born with myself, and I still belonged to myself when I returned, and I needed to support myself on the road of life, and everything else was a foil. In this life, a woman should be independent, brave and wise to live a beautiful life. Encourage everyone.
I am Sister Mi Li, a post-70s generation who loves to share, I like to share, remember to like and support to show encouragement. Thank you!
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