Previous Xiaohe wrote that Li Xueqin was annoying, and the message in the comment area was not friendly.
In fact, no matter how the commenters hugged Li Xueqin, they could not change the results presented in the show: in peach blossom wood, few people liked Li Xueqin, but young and old liked Spicy Yoko.
In the reunion chapter of the pilot film of "Peach Blossom Wood", director Chi Yuan said that the show focuses on social observation, reflecting the core of healing and social living.
Chi Yuan's words can be seen that the goal of the program group is very clear: to observe the process of a group of people living together, to see how they establish social relationships with others, and how to draw healing power from this group.
Since it is a group, it is to work together to help each other, in order for the group to have a good result, run into each other, work together to complete some things, so that everyone has gains in the process.
Judging from the programs presented now, Li Xueqin neither reflects the cooperation of group living, nor does she give others the warmth to heal.
Instead, it is Yoko Spicy, which has both a small sacrifice and a warm healing of the spring breeze.
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In the first episode, the old dock people know each other well, there is no obstacle to interaction, and the new dock people are very uncomfortable.
On the way to this point by car, Song Yanfei's performance was the most obvious.
Dong Xuan drove, carrying Spicy Yoko and Song Yanfei to pick up Song Dandan on the way, Dong Xuan said that this show is very good, there is no competition ranking elimination or the like, it is more relaxed, Song Yanfei's mouth echoed, and the nervous little hands did not stop rubbing each other for a moment.
Spicy Yoko asked Dong Xuan and Song Yanfei if they knew each other before? Song Yanfei immediately straightened her back, leaned forward, and looked intently at the hot eyes, the panic and helplessness of the first meeting, Song Yanfei was too much to overflow the screen.
In reality, there are many people like Song Yanfei, facing this occasion, their hearts are sincerely afraid, do not know what to say, and are afraid of what they say wrong, and worry about whether they will not be liked by their peers, whether they can integrate into the collective, all kinds of worries and concerns in the heart.
After everyone gathered at peach blossom wood, Dong Xuan also said that he had always been free from the state and could not find the fulcrum to melt into.
When the new dockers spent time in embarrassment and trepidation, all the old dockers were catching up on sleep.
In order to alleviate the embarrassment, one wave of newcomers rushed to prepare meals, while another wave of people who could not cook could only sit at the table with wide eyes and small eyes.
Fortunately, Spicy Eye and Wang Sutaki are more considerate, spicy Yoko not only prepares meals with everyone, but also cooperates with Wang Sutaki to enliven the atmosphere, so as not to make everyone look too embarrassed.
Wang Sutaki watched a group of Xinwu people sitting at the table, no one spoke dry eyes, a little social fear, he was anxious in his heart, wanted to enliven the atmosphere with everyone, and did not know how to start.
Just when Spicy Yoko came with a cup of water, she sat down next to Wang Sutaki, and Wang Sutaki took the opportunity to pull Spicy Yoko to enliven the atmosphere.
Spicy Yoko just said on his lips that he enjoyed the embarrassment of everyone not talking, embarrassed and embarrassed, and immediately understood Wang Sutaki's painstaking heart, turned his head and asked What is the constellation of Wu Dajing, and instantly changed his face, making everyone smile and smile.
During the cooking process, Yin Haoyu, who is of mixed Decathi race, Chinese unskilled, and Yoko Spicy said that the noodles were not delicious when boiled and melted, and Yin Haoyu could not understand.
Spicy mu patiently tried to explain and help Yin Haoyu understand "melting".
In the second episode, Wang Hedi wanted to play water yoga, and he invited Wang Chuanjun, Wu Muye, Wang Sutaki, and Guo Qilin, all of whom were rejected.
When asked publicly if they wanted to play water yoga, no one answered the phone.
Finally, Wang Hedi invited Yoko Spicy to play, and Spicy soon agreed.
Spicy Yoko said that she was seduced by Wang Hedi's beauty, in fact, if you pay attention, you will find that Spicy Eye not only praised Wang Hedi as handsome, Wu Dajing, Fei Qiming, etc., who came to chat with her, she lamented that she was fascinated by the other party's appearance.
The real reason is more of a spicy eye.
Since participating in the show, Wang Hedi has been very fond of finding hardmode problems, fitness, selling vegetables, living on desert islands, etc., he likes to challenge difficult problems, and it can be seen that he should be very eager to experience doing yoga at sea.
Unfortunately, no one wants to accompany this crazy person, and Spicy Eye feels his reluctance, so he will be willing to be perfect, which is a healing power.
Most people who have had a collective life experience have such an experience, at some point, they either want to find someone to go out to play games, or they want to find someone to go out and string, or find someone to accompany themselves to where to play.
In short, I was thinking about doing something, but the invitation I sent out was always rejected.
At that moment, someone is willing to accompany themselves, and we can't help but be grateful in our hearts, maybe our ideas are crazy, but there are still people who are willing to support themselves.
There is a saying on the Internet: What is the best friendship? You have been mentally retarded for many years, and I will not abandon you.
Being able to be forgiven, seeing and treating one's own needs, is the most healing, whether it is to understand one's own difficult situation or to understand one's own mind and mind.
Isn't the warmth that a group can give people when someone is not satisfied, and someone is willing to help?
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In the previous article, Xiaohe wrote that Yin Haoyu said: "Hot sister will give you a sense of security, and when I am with her, I am particularly comfortable." ”
The scene where Yin Haoyu said this sentence is that the program team will arrange four people to shoot a local propaganda video, Yin Haoyu, Fei Qiming, and Mengziyi have already signed up to participate, and there is still a quota.
The production of promotional short stories is difficult, Li Xueqin and Spicy Yoko have experience, Song Dandan's first reaction is to let Li Xueqin go, she feels that Li Xueqin has a brain.
In the face of Song Dandan's praise and arrangement, Li Xueqin did not buy, she denied that she had a brain, bluntly said that the video should be self-directed and self-cut, she was unwilling.
At this time, Yin Haoyu and Fei Qiming turned their heads to ask for Yoko.
According to the logic of ordinary people, the first candidate you think of is not me, I think that someone is more talented than me, first go to others to cooperate, people do not agree to come to me, retreat to the second choice, why should I agree?
Besides, this work is bitter and tired, and it is not gratifying to contribute, why should I go to be this big wronged species?
Even if they were not their first choice, when they could not complete it, Spicy Yoko was still willing to help, which was what Xiaohe particularly admired.
In fact, even in practical work, we often encounter such problems, especially newcomers in the workplace.
A project teaches newcomers to complete, they have no experience in dealing with it, do not understand which links will go wrong, and do not know how to plan in advance to avoid, at that time the newcomers hope that a senior can take them.
However, in the workplace, we see a lot of predecessors who stand by and watch.
Bringing new people is bitter and tired and may not produce results, those exquisite and self-interested old people, who will be stupid enough to pick up such a hot potato?
They would rather sit idly in the office drinking tea and chatting than showing mercy and pointing out.
What's more, watching you bleed your bald hair is still a great pleasure for them.
Only those predecessors with compassion, seeing that it is difficult for new people to do things, who can't bear to step on the pit step by step, and who are willing to point out and help, have become a light in our lives and illuminate our way forward.
Therefore, although Xiaohe understands that Li Xueqin is disgusted by Song Dandan's arrogance and is unwilling to listen to her arrangement to shoot a short film, emotionally speaking, Xiaohe admires Yoko Hot.
Because she saw the difficulties of Yin Haoyu, Fei Qiming, and Mengziyi, she also understood their difficulties.
There is a sentence in "Mr. Deca's Mailbox": "Politeness and upbringing are not only dry and thin politeness, but also thoughtfulness and consideration for oneself and others." It's not just emotional intelligence that's testing, it's also your kindness. ”
Put yourself in the shoes of yoko, if you meet people like Li Xueqin and Spicy Yoko in life, who are you willing to become friends with?
Thinking further, would you rather meet someone like Li Xueqin or someone like Yoko Spicy?
There is no doubt that it is Spicy Yoko, and even in the variety show, from Song Dandan to Yin Haoyu, people of all ages prefer to contact Spicy Yoko.
After all, there are so many cold things in this world that we need warmth to heal.
Some people say that today's variety shows all have scripts, real people are not like this, Xiaohe hopes so.
I hope that the real Li Xueqin is not so selfish, and I hope that the real hot eye is still so gentle.
Author: Xiaohe, born in the gravel, the heart to the warm sun, write the words of the heart, live an interesting life.