Speaking of the representative of the "poisonous tongue" of the entertainment industry,
The first thing that comes to mind is Venus.
She speaks sharply and boldly, bluntly, and says whatever she wants,
But there is a star whose poisonous tongue is "more than that of Venus",
Even Venus herself is willing to bow down to her,
She is the singer Yang Erche Nam.
Yang Erche Nam is a well-known "poisonous tongue" in the entertainment industry,
That year, with the sharp and harsh comments of the judges of "Happy Male Voice", she became a hit,
And because she has been wearing a big red flower in the show, she has the title of "Red Flower Sect Leader".
In addition, she also exposed the privacy of celebrities, wrote letters to the French president to confess, and so on.
She is bold, dares to love and dare to hate,
Some people like her directness, but some people hate her style,
With the passage of time, Yang Erche Nam has gradually disappeared from the public eye,
What has she experienced during this time, and what kind of life is she living now?
Yang Erche Nam, born in 1970 in Liangshan Prefecture, Sichuan Province,
She is a Mosuo of the Naxi tribe, a branch of the ethnic minority Naxi.
The Mosuo people are a nation with the name of "daughter country" on the mainland.
The system of matriarchal society is still preserved here, and everything in the clan is dominated by women.
And the Mosuo people have a unique way of marriage, that is, "walking marriage",
The men and women in the clan have no marital relationship, and even if the relationship is confirmed, it is a state of "night and morning separation".
Both men and women are together only at night, working in their own homes during the day.
Growing up in such an environment has also had a huge impact on Yang Erche Nam's view of marriage.
Yang Erche Nam's Chinese name is Yang Baoxian, taken from the Chinese meaning of her name, in the Mosuo people, "Erche" means "gem", "Nam" means "fairy",
It can be seen that Yang Erche Nam's mother has high hopes for her daughter, but Yang Erche Nam is the opposite,
The people of the clan have never stepped out of the mountains in their entire lives,
But Yang Erche Nam is very yearning for the outside world, and from the beginning of her understanding, she has looked forward to one day being able to go out of the mountains and go to the outside world to see.
Ethnic minorities have many talents and good voices, and Yang Erche Nam is no exception.
Every day from the shore of Lugu Lake, Yang Erche Nam will always sing a song to the lake, and gradually she also likes the feeling of singing.
In 1983, people from the Yanyuan County Cultural Center in Sichuan province came to the village of Yang Erche Nam to collect local quotas.
Accidentally found Yang Erche Nam, who sang like a "little lark",
With the idea that such a "talent" should not be buried, the people of the cultural center found Yang Erche Nam's mother and told her that she wanted to take Yang Erche Nam outside.
At first, Yang Erche Nam's mother said that she did not agree with anything, but Yang Erche Nam insisted on going out, and finally could only compromise.
After Yang Erche Nam came out, he participated in the National Minority Singers Competition that was being organized at that time.
Her loud and penetrating singing voice has won the love of many people.
In the process of the race, Yang Erche Nam became more and more fond of the outside world,
After seeing the bustling noise outside, Yang Erche Nam did not want to stay in the small mountain village anymore.
So she left her hometown,
As everyone knows, it is precisely because of her decision that her fate has changed drastically.
Although Yang Erche Nam sang well, after all, he did not undergo professional learning.
So the first step out of her hometown, she decided to go to school to study music in a professional system.
In 1983, at the age of 13, Yang Erche Nam passed the shanghai conservatory exam and became the youngest student in his class.
During the school period, Yang Erche Nam listened carefully to the professional knowledge imparted by the teacher in class, actively answered questions, and consolidated the exercises after class.
She is a good student in the eyes of the teacher and the envy of her classmates.
In addition to studying in school usually, Yang Erche Nam went to the bar near the school to sing during the holidays.
One can practice and exercise your singing ability, and the other is to earn pocket money and tuition, killing two birds with one stone.
And she also with excellent results, after graduation was assigned to the Central National Song and Dance Troupe,
Became a neighbor with the dancer Yang Liping, and became a girlfriend with Venus,
Not long after the song and dance troupe, Yang Erche Nam picked a girder to perform, becoming the youngest soloist in the troupe.
Career is smooth, emotionally Yang Erche Nam has not fallen,
However, due to her custom of "getting married", her emotional path is not very smooth.
In 1990, by chance, Yang Erche Nam met a foreign photographer in a geographical magazine.
The relationship between the two came quickly, and it didn't take long to establish a relationship.
When the love was most passionate, Yang Erche Nam directly married him and went to live in the United States with her husband after marriage.
The newlyweds did have a sweet time,
But when the passion of love recedes, only the complicated little things in daily life are left,
The contradiction between the two intensified more and more seriously,
Yang Erche Nam and her husband herself have cultural differences between China and the West, plus she is influenced by the Mosuo "marriage" custom,
The couple argues every day over a small matter.
Others say that Yang Erche Nam's husband has serious domestic violence.
At the worst time, one of Yang Erche Nam's ears was cut off, and the blood flowed.
This is also the reason why Yang Erche Nam has been blocking his ears with his hair in the later period.
In this regard, Yang Erche Nam has clarified later, saying that his ears are not fake,
The claim that the ears are cut off is complete nonsense.
But it is undeniable that the marriage between Yang Erche Nam and her American husband has come to an end.
The two divorced after less than a year of marriage.
But Yang Erche Nam, who already has a green card in the United States, did not rush back to China, but began a decade of living alone in the United States.
In 1991, Yang Erche Nam traveled all over Europe and worked as a model in Italy.
After that, she performed snowfall and performances in Japan, Singapore and Taiwan.
In addition, she has starred in several Hollywood films and sung songs for the films she starred in.
Of course, while making money and working, Yang Erche Nam did not forget to fall in love,
By chance, she met Shi Danwu, a Norwegian diplomat, and the two were together for seven years without entering into marriage.
The first is because Yang Erche Nam has experienced a failed marriage, and the second is that she is a "marriage walker".
For this reason, after the breakup, Yang Erche Nam also had the title of "International Marriage Walker".
In 1995, with his early experience as a model, Yang Erche Nam began to engage in the fashion business.
During this time she fell in love with an Italian,
Under the introduction of her boyfriend, I met Larry of the Oracle store,
Larry custom-made many clothes in her shop and the two became very good friends.
Later, under Larry's introduction, Yang Erche Nam also met Jobs and others.
In addition to friends and work, Yang Erche Nam, who calmed down, also focused on writing.
She has created many books such as "Out of the Daughter Country", "Chinese Red Meets Norwegian Blue", "You Can Too", etc.
Among them, the autobiographical novel "Leaving Mother Lake" also appeared on the New York Times bestseller list, sensationalizing the entire United States.
In the United States over the years, Yang Erche Nam can do whatever he wants,
One of the most shocking is probably the marriage proposal video she recorded for the French president.
She boldly courted the President of France and said, "Please choose me and I will be your perfect candidate.",
The ending, without a doubt, was a failure.
But long-term wandering, always have to go home, after living in the United States for 10 years, Yang Erche Nam chose to return to China to develop.
In 2007, Yang Erche Nam served as a judge of "Happy Male Voice", and became popular with the show.
What makes her famous is not her musical prowess, but her poisonous tongue and harsh way of speaking.
As a judge, Yang Erche Nam always likes the first person to ring the bell and the first to speak,
Many players only sang one sentence, and the most miserable one only sang three words, and they were stopped by Yang Erche Nam,
In the face of the newcomers, she did not encourage, but was full of disgust,
She ruthlessly pointed out the shortcomings of the contestants, telling them: "Opportunity is like a hair on the bald man's head, you grasp it is grasped, and if you don't grasp it, you don't catch it."
Because of the unique and sharp way of commenting, after the program was broadcast, soon Yang Erche Nam became popular on the whole network.
Some people think that she as a judge is too harsh and poisonous for newcomers, but some people say that "her comments are very interesting and funny".
In addition, she likes to wear a big red flower on her head every time she participates in the show, and she also has the title of "Red Flower Sect Leader".
The attitude towards her on the Internet is mixed, but it is undeniable that because of this show, Yang Erche Nam is on fire.
I don't know if it is "people red on the drift", after the explosion of popularity, Yang Erche Nam began to become an egg to pick bones,
During the competition, a player named Yang Mu sang with a guitar,
Yang Mu sang an English song while playing, conquering the audience and judges on the scene, of which Zheng Jun and Zhang Dong gave a high evaluation as judges.
However, Yang Erche Nam felt that Yang Mu's appearance was not good-looking, and resolutely refused to let him pass.
As a judge, Zheng Jun was immediately unhappy, this is "Happy Male Voice" is "male voice" not "male color",
The main criterion is singing, and looks are secondary.
But Yang Erche Nam insisted on his own opinion, and in the end Yang Mu failed to pass,
Angry, Zheng Jun immediately left his seat and refused to record.
In addition to the conflict with the judges, Yang Erche Nam's mouth is also very "broken",
Zhang Jie was still a contestant in "Happy Male Voice".
He and Xie Na have just been together for a long time, one of them is a popular host of Hunan Satellite TV, and the other is a fledgling little singer.
For such things as "love", you can hide it.
But when Yang Erche Nam commented on Zhang Jie in the program, he finally added a sentence: "I envy Miss Nana",
Earlier, there had been rumors on the Internet that Zhang Jie and Xie Na were in love, but neither of them responded as parties.
Yang Erche Nam's words directly exposed the love affair between the two,
Hearing this, Zhang Jie panicked on the stage and did not know what to do,
Xie Na, on the other hand, collapsed and cried directly in the background.
As for the impact of what he said, Yang Erche Nam did not feel inappropriate,
He even said, "I thought of this and said it, and when I said it, I said it.",
After several successive events, everyone's impression of Yang Erche Nam gradually began to be bad.
And what led to the real decline in her fame was the "Ring Door" incident with Ke Yimin.
When recording the "First Heartbeat" program that year,
Among them, there was a male guest who expressed his admiration and liking to Ke Yimin and wanted a gift from her.
The incident happened suddenly, Ke Yimin could only take off the ring he was wearing on his hand and give it to the male guest.
But unexpectedly, the male guest turned around and knelt down on one knee to put it on Yang Erche Nam's hand after getting the ring.
This sudden reversal made Ke Yimin's face instantly turn black,
The fighting between the two men is constantly raging.
Because of this incident, the scene was chaotic, and the program broadcast that night was also blocked by the State Administration of Radio, Film and Television.
And Yang Erche Namin has gradually disappeared from the public's field of vision,
Although afterwards, the guest said that all this was planned by Ke Yimin,
But Yang Erche Nam has left the entertainment industry for a long time.
After leaving the entertainment industry, Yang Erche Nam opened a pub in his hometown.
Usually I sing a song in the bar when I have nothing to do, and my life is very pleasant.
After many years, Yang Erche Nam once again appeared in front of the public, accompanied by hot news.
In 2018, the news of Li Xiaolu's derailment was boiling on the Internet.
As the protagonist of the event, Li Xiaolu quickly became the object of everyone's hot discussion.
At this time, Yang Erche Nam posted a screenshot of himself and his friends on Weibo, asking: "Oh! It's a bit embarrassing."
It can be seen from the chat records that after the incident broke out, the friend who ate melon contacted Yang Erche Nam,
Ask her: "Li Xiaolu's mother Zhang Weixin is not the woman who intervened in your feelings more than 20 years ago",
Yang Erche Nam replied, "Yes, if there is a mother, there must be a daughter."
In just one sentence, this matter has an impression to another new height.
Yang Erche Nam, who has not appeared for several years, is once again active in front of the public,
But she's no longer as unguarded as she used to be,
After experiencing the precipitation of time, she has become more and more atmospheric and temperamental,
She also has very good friends together,
When her former friend Yang Liping was accused by everyone for "not marrying and infertile",
She came forward to speak up for her friends.
And she is actually speaking up for herself, marriage is not necessarily all women, even if not married, you can live your own color.
Counting up, Yang Erche Nam is 52 years old,
Nowadays, she occasionally travels abroad, usually looks at the shop at home, raises flowers,
Inspiration came, just create and write in the study,
From the perspective of her sharing her daily life, she lives in a mansion more than half a hundred years old, her mentality is very good, the maintenance is also very good, and she can't see the age at all.
Rich, have a house, live a comfortable life, want to do what you want to do, unrestrained, live into the envy of many girls.
As a "Mosuo person", Yang Erche Nam has different customs from us in many ways.
She has the frankness of an ethnic minority,
It also preserves the national view of marriage.
For a woman, "marriage" is not all she has,
Her whole life should not have been married for the sake of marriage, nor should she have dedicated everything she had to marriage and family.
Women, must have their own career,
Only in this way can we have confidence in encountering anything,
And this point, Yang Erche Nam did a good job,
Although she has many relationships in her life, her career has also experienced ups and downs,
But now she has a career, and although she is not married, she still lives a very happy life.