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She is the descendant of the Mosuo married family, carrying the genes to walk from the womb, and is a woman who likes to walk around and see.
She is Yang Erche Nam, known as the international marriage walker, in December 2021, she walked to the streets of Northern Europe, and expressed her feelings on Weibo with feelings: Although the winter in Northern Europe is cold, but it is touched by the clothes hanging on the street corners in Sweden, there is a line written on the wall, if you feel cold, take one, if you want to help others, hang one.
Why did Yang Er, who wandered in a foreign country, become the enemy of the whole people? Looking back at her growth footprints, there may be traces to follow.
Yang Erche Nam, born after the 70s, was born in Liangshan Prefecture, Sichuan Province, a place called Lugu Lake, which is also known as the Mother River, but any man who passes through this river is likely to leave a love root in this place, because the local Mosuo people have a tradition of marriage.
The descendants of ethnic minorities, because of the genetic genes of their ancestors, are mostly people who can sing and dance, and Yang Er is no exception, with the clear voice of a lark, at the age of 13, he changed his growth direction and broke away from the ranks of marriage reserves.
That year, the local cultural center went here to collect folk songs, Yang Er's singing talent was appreciated by the curator, so he brought it to the museum, and later participated in the national minority singing competition, won the first prize, after the first taste of flowers and applause of glory, the eye-opening little girl, no longer willing to nest in the home of the small mountain village, sitting and waiting for a man to climb the window.
In order to get out of the small village and gain a foothold in the big city in the future, Yang Er wanted to save some food and accommodation, so she returned to the local primary school and got a miscellaneous job in the school canteen with the blessing of honor.
With money in her hands and singing talent on her body, Yang Er's desire to shine on the stage became more and more intense, and she finally survived to the age when she could apply for the Shanghai Conservatory of Music and got the admission letter.
In 1988, after graduating from the academy, she was favored by the Central National Song and Dance Troupe, but the year after entering this art hall, her dream began to deviate.
Perhaps because the influence of the ancestral marriage customs sprouted in her body, when the love sinus first opened, the domestic boys did not look at the eyes, but looked at a small fresh meat from the United States.
Like the plot in the movie "The Dream of the Covered Bridge", the man's profession is also a photographer for National Geographic Magazine, and the two are like the heroes and heroines in the movie, they are also love at first sight.
When she decided to leave the country with this man and marry in the United States, she encountered strong opposition from the group of relatives and friends around her, the reason is very simple, marriage is not impossible, but it is too far to run, unreliable.
But the heat of first love came so strongly, even if it was the result of the moth fighting the fire, she did not hesitate, so desperately at the cost, because of the difference in Eastern and Western cultures, soon after marriage, the two began to fight each other in China and the United States, it is said that Yang Er girl because of this failed marriage experience, paid the price of losing half an ear.
Therefore, many netizens are full of curiosity about her decades of black long straight, and also discuss whether the ears under the iconic big red flower are intact.
However, there are losses and gains, 21-year-old Yang Er girl, with a green card, the ten years after the divorce, arranged full, not only traveled around Europe, but also after opening foreign meat, English is also more and more smooth.
During that time, the well-informed Yang Er girl suddenly developed her business talents, participated in various catwalk activities non-stop, and later opened a clothing store in a foreign country.
It was also during this period that she met an Italian boyfriend, and there were very few people who knew about this experience, but how could Yang Er, who loved to talk about gossip herself, be able to bear it?
This experience can be found in a later article she wrote entitled "My Night Feast with Jobs".
According to the article mentioned by Yang Er girl, at that time, this rich man who liked to study oracle bones, Golary Ellison, his network resources reached the top of the White House in the United States, and through the relationship of her boyfriend, she was also fortunate to meet the Jobs couple.
But her relationship with the rich man didn't last long, because in 1996, a more prominent Norwegian man broke into the vision of Yang Er' girl, and this person was Shi Danwu, a diplomat at the Chinese Embassy.
According to Yang Er's later recollection in "Chinese Red Meets Norwegian Blue", the two met by chance in Sanlitun in Beijing, and the story of love at first sight was once again staged on Chinese soil.
Because she had a failed marriage experience, after reviewing and summarizing, Yang Er's aunt had a profound damage to the marriage caused by the cultural differences between the East and the West, so she had the impulse to write a book, trying to make her pillow people know more about oriental culture.
From 1997 to 2003, Yang Ernu successively published 13 books such as "Out of the Daughter Country", "Chinese Red Meets Norwegian Blue", "You Can Too", "Leaving Mother Lake" and so on, it is worth mentioning that "Leaving Mother Lake" also won the New York Times bestseller list.
With her own strength, Yang Er not only delighted herself by writing her autobiography, but also successfully made an international publicity in her hometown, which stimulated the tourism economy of Lugu Lake and attracted countless domestic and foreign tourists to Lugu Lake to find sexual encounters.
Unfortunately, the tourists who came for the purpose of sexual encounters ruined the reputation of Lugu Lake, so some people also commented on Yang Er's girl, saying that she was kind enough to do bad things.
In fact, Mosuo's marriage tradition is not as casual as tourists think, they are all fixed couples, not random walking, Yang Er girl is the same, although she is an international marriage family, the boyfriend is also an international friend, but from her and the Swedish diplomat, up to seven years of contact time, she is a long-term lover.
Unfortunately, this unshaffled love affair is still difficult to escape the end of the seven-year itch, as Meng Fei said, the end of many relationships often occurs when going home early after a business trip, when Yang Er personally saw the fact that her boyfriend split his legs, she also returned to China and opened a new journey of spicy judges.
In those years, The eloquence of Yang Er's girl was like a sword that was sealed, and where the sword blade pointed, there were enemies everywhere, and at the beginning, because the fame in China was not very large, so she was afraid of some small shrimp that had just entered the jianghu.
She once commented on the male player Yao Zheng, secretly mocking the other party for being a bit of a woman, lacking the masculinity that a boy should have.
When I met a favorite player, I actually had the idea of getting married, and even confessed in public that I wanted to ride a horse with the other party and go far away.
These comments, which have nothing to do with the profession, do not conform to the identity of the judges, nor do they have any reference value for the contestants to improve their own abilities, so not only do the contestants remain speechless, but even the audience on the scene sneers at them.
However, people have two skins, what to say is reasonable, Yang Er girl will occasionally say something that makes people feel quite reasonable, she believes that original singers should maintain their own style, no need to imitate others, so unique words, but also successfully circled a wave of passers-by fans.
With her unsurprising and endless comment style, Yang Erniang has increased the ratings of many local variety shows, so she has also gained a great reputation in China and received more INVITATIONs from TV stations.
However, how can you not get your shoes wet when you walk by the river? The evil consequences caused by the unguarded mouth soon made her reputation deteriorate, and Yang Er's girl inadvertently mentioned Xie Na and Zhang Jie's love affair in the variety show, and accidentally offended the small group with the most connections and resources in "Happy Base Camp".
In addition, when Li Xiaolu's hair incident was exposed, Yang Erche Nam took the initiative to break the news to the media, revealing that Li Xiaolu's mother was once his girlfriend, and he robbed the inside story of his boyfriend, taking advantage of this wave of heat, not only circled a large number of fans and attention, but also successfully offended Li Xiaolu's mother and daughter.
In addition, Yang Er girl also once had a grudge with Ke Yimin because of the "ring door", and was criticized by the State Administration of Radio, Film and Television by name, saying that it was maliciously hyped, and the judges' very profitable job made her lose her job.
The reason for the incident is like this, in 2007, the variety show "First Heartbeat" was popular, Yang Er girl and Ke Yimin became the two "poisonous tongue" judges of the show, everything went smoothly, and the program also increased a lot of attention because of the two unique language expression skills, however, later because of a male guest named Dai Chuang, it caused the show to attract the insult of "hype".
During the recording of the show, Shi Chuang suddenly asked Ke Yimin for the ring and said that he wanted to give it to the most important person in his heart.
At that time, Ke Yimin's reaction was slightly hesitant, the scene was once in embarrassment, Yang Er saw the situation, turned to Ke Yimin and suggested to Ke Yimin that she take the ring and give it to Dai Chuang, Ke Yimin had to transfer the ring to Dai Chuang.
Unexpectedly, a dramatic scene suddenly occurred, after Dai Chuang took over the ring, he not only took the initiative to invite Yang Er girl to the stage, but also knelt on one knee in front of Yang Er girl and put the ring on her hand, causing an uproar from the audience.
However, who would have thought that a series of reversals would have occurred after that?
When Ke Yimin sang on the stage on behalf of The Chuang, he asked a question of choosing one of the two, between judge Yang and judge Ke, he would choose who to be his girlfriend, and Dai Chuang actually replied with such a vibrant and eloquent reply: "If I had to choose one of the two, I would not choose Teacher Yang, because she looks stupid."
Originally still immersed in the joy of being confessed by the small fresh meat, I did not expect to fall from the clouds to the bottom of the valley at once, under the eyes of everyone, yang er girl's face was naturally a little hanging, she immediately took off the ring, let Dai Chuang take it back, and said that she did not want it.
Unexpectedly, her actions made Ke Yimin greatly hurt, and she felt that Yang Er's actions were satirizing herself, so she cried a mess at the scene, resulting in the program not being able to record normally.
Such a "reversal of the small plot" that has nothing to do with the program made the State Administration of Radio, Film and Television intolerable, so it immediately banned the program and ordered that this kind of prank unrelated to the program should not be allowed to happen again in the future; therefore, many netizens with open minds summarized this matter as the "ring door" incident.
Originally thought that the dust had settled on this matter, I did not expect that there was another earth-shattering reversal behind it; the party took the initiative to break the news later, this spoof incident was originally planned by Ke Yimin, and the reason why he cooperated was to make more money and take home his mother who was still serving a sentence in prison earlier.
Although the whole entrustment of the dai chuang let The Yang Er girl get rid of the suspicion of speculation, it was too late, because the Yang Er girl was implicated in this matter, and since then, she has not received any invitations to variety shows.
After experiencing such a ban, Yang Er girl faded out of the entertainment circle, opened a small bar in Lijiang, Yunnan, and then opened an art museum, and with her creative talent, publicized her hometown and promoted the development of local tourism.
Today's Yang Erche Nam, put away the sharp tongue, poured all his enthusiasm into the pen, after traveling to Bhutan, wrote the book "Bhutan, the Kingdom of My Past Life", in this book, it is not difficult to find that this is a precipitated Yang Er Che Nam spiritual world.
I often hear people say: "We have to learn to speak in a few years, but we must spend a lifetime learning how to shut up."
Today's Yang Erche Nam, the look of shutting up is still quite wise.
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