In the entertainment industry, if you want to talk about sharp words, it is estimated that everyone will think of Venus.
But there is such a person, she is a good friend of Venus, more poisonous than Venus.
She became famous for her "sharp speech", befriended Jobs, proposed to the president, and it seems that there is nothing this woman does not dare to do.
She is a descendant of the Mosuo people, a realistic version of the daughter country.
She lives a different life and becomes what people call "human aliens", who is she? What's the difference?
The woman's name was Yang Erche Nam, a Mosuo native, born in Sichuan.
It is estimated that everyone is very unfamiliar with the "Mosuo people", and many people have never heard of such a nation.
The Mosuo are also known as the modern version of the daughter state, and for the Mosuo people, feminism is supreme.
Here, men have a much lower status than women.
Even more bizarre is the fact that there is a strange tradition here: marriage.
What is marriage? Simply put, marriage is when men and women are together without getting married.
If women don't like this man, then they can continue to be with other men.
If the woman likes the man, then they can continue to be together, but the woman is not responsible and will not be with the man until she is bored with other men.
Therefore, in the Mosuo people, there are many people who have not been married once in their lives, but have been with many people of the opposite sex.
Because of the uniqueness of marriage, everyone has mixed praise and criticism.
Some people think that marriage will lead to too much chaos in the private lives of men and women, which is not good at all.
But some people think that this is very good, everyone does not have to worry about the derailment, and it also eliminates the triviality of chai rice oil and salt.
While the custom of marriage allows men and women to do whatever they want, it is grossly unfair to women.
Once a woman becomes pregnant, the child can only be raised by herself after birth, and the father of the child only needs to give symbolic points.
Therefore, the custom of marriage does not seem to be subject to the shackles of marriage, but in the end it is women who suffer.
It is also in this environment that Yang Erche Nam's temperament from childhood is not like to be bound, like to do whatever he wants, and comes from his own nature.
Yang Erche Nam sang very well when she was young, so it attracted the staff of the Sichuan Cultural Center, who took Yang Erche Nam out of the village and let her participate in the competition.
This was the first time Yang Erche Nam had left the village and seen the outside world.
This experience made her decide that she must leave the village in the future, and she did not want to spend her life here for the rest of her life.
When Yang Erche Nam told his mother what he thought, in exchange for a very resolute opposition.
The mother believes that the Mosuo people have lived in this village all her life and no one has left, she does not want her daughter to leave, she is afraid that the outside world will hurt her.
But Yang Erche Nam did not think so, and she insisted on leaving the village and living in the outside world.
In the end, she couldn't help her daughter, and her mother had to nod her head in agreement.
But the location of their village is too remote, the traffic is not developed, and there are no vehicles at all.
If he wanted to leave here, the only way for Yang Erche Nam to do so was to go out on his own.
In this way, the little girl walked for seven days and seven nights to reach the Sichuan Cultural Center.
When the curator saw Yang Erche Nam and heard how she came here, the curator was very surprised and admired the girl's perseverance and determination.
In order not to delay her, but also to let her have a better way out.
The curator recommended Yang Erche Nam to go to the Shanghai Conservatory of Music, because this would make Yang Erche Nam have a better way out, so that it would not be in vain for her to spend so much effort to go out of the village and come here.
But the curator is not sure whether Yang Erche Nam can be admitted to the academy, after all, she has never undergone professional training, and the admission requirements of the Shanghai Conservatory of Music are very strict.
But this is not a big deal for Yang Erche Nam, after all, she can walk for seven days and seven nights, what is so difficult to take a test?
In the end, Yang Erche Nam successfully entered the Conservatory of Music with his excellent talent and became a member of the Shanghai Conservatory of Music.
However, if a girl from a small village wants to stay here, tuition and living expenses are one of the first problems she needs to face and solve.
How do you make money? She can only study while doing a variety of part-time jobs, which can be described as very hard.
But for Yang Erche Nam, she didn't feel hard at all, but she was still very happy, because she could finally enjoy the prosperity and happiness of the outside world.
After graduation, she successfully entered the song and dance troupe, holding the position of soloist.
It can be seen that Yang Erche Nam is indeed very good, even if she did so many part-time jobs during college, she still did not delay her studies.
Later, she met an American photographer for work reasons.
Yang Erche Nam thought that this photographer was his true love and his own Prince Charming.
Therefore, even if they had just met, Yang Erche Nam decided to marry him.
She thought so, and did so.
However, after the marriage of the two people, because of their different personalities and concepts, coupled with the American photographer's domestic violence, it is said that he also injured one of Yang Erche Nam's ears.
In this way, Yang Erche Nam chose to divorce.
For Yang Erche Nam, getting married when you love, it is not appropriate to divorce, there is nothing to be sorry about.
If two unsuitable people insist on being tied together, it is torture for each other, and it is better to break it off than to break it, which is good for everyone.
Because of this marriage, Yang Erche Nam saw the prosperous appearance of the United States.
She was the same as before, and she didn't want to go back after seeing the prosperity.
As a result, Yang Erche Nam has remained in the United States.
She runs a clothing store in the United States and participates in dance performances whenever she has the opportunity.
In this way, she has been living in the United States for more than a decade, traveling around the world when she has time.
More importantly, after the divorce, her emotional life is very rich, and her boyfriends are continuous.
From this point of view, Yang Erche Nam, like other people of the Mosuo tribe, has adhered to the concept of marriage.
In the year or two after the divorce, Yang Erche Nam met an Italian man, but the two also broke up quickly because of inappropriateness.
Later, Yang Erche Nam met a Norwegian diplomat and fell in love with him for 7 years.
Just when everyone thought they would get married, the news came that Yang Erche Nam had broken up.
Although the road of feelings is extremely unsmooth, Yang Erche Nam does not seem to care, she still dares to love and hate, completely unaffected.
After french president Sarkozy divorced that year, Yang Erche Nam actually openly showed his love for Sarkozy on the Internet, which caused netizens to ridicule his group.
Of course, Sarkozy did not know Yang Erche Nam at all, and he did not respond to the matter of showing love to her, and Yang Erche Nam once became a joke in everyone's mouth.
But she didn't care what the outside world thought of her, she just wanted to be herself.
Although the relationship is not very smooth, her career is still progressing very well.
Not only did she perform everywhere, but the clothing store she opened was also very good.
In her clothing store, Yang Erche Nam also befriended Oracle boss Larry.
Because of Larry, she met Jobs and his wife again, and in the American bigwig world, Nam was a well-known figure.
As her fame grew, she was influenced by the domestic media, especially Hunan Tv, who invited her to serve as a judge for the "Happy Boys" program in 2007.
In the program, Yang Erche Nam was sharp in his speech and did not give in.
It is precisely because of this feature of Yang Erche Nam that she is particularly popular, and even the program is also popular.
Seeing that the effect of the program is getting better and better, Hunan Tv naturally hopes that she can continue to serve as a judge of the program.
However, Yang Erche Nam did not do it, and had to ask Hunan Tai to raise her fees.
This is not to mention, after all, people are on fire, and their value will naturally rise a little.
But the problem is that Yang Erche Nam wants too much money, and he actually wants seven figures, which makes Hunan Tai very dissatisfied.
What happened later directly made Hunan Tai stop the cooperation with Yang Erche Namu, what is going on?
It turned out that because Yang Erche Nam became more and more arrogant in the show, he completely disregarded the ideas of other judges and teachers, and said whatever he wanted, which led to everyone being very unhappy, so Hunan Tv stopped cooperating with Yang Erche Nam.
And she also has a matter of controversy, that is, to actively expose the love affair between Xie Na and Zhang Jie.
Because of this incident, Xie Na and Zhang Jie caused a lot of trouble.
Afterwards, when Yang Erche Nam was interviewed, the reporter asked her this question, asking her if she regretted taking the initiative to expose the love affair between Xie Na and Zhang Jie?
Yang Erche Nam's answer was: "I have never regretted it, especially when I saw the affirmative look of Zhang Jie's mother in the audience, I knew that I had done the right thing, so what do I regret?" ”
After the termination of cooperation with Hunan Tv, another variety show approached Yang Erche Nam, hoping that she could play the role of judge.
After participating in this show, Yang Erche Nam's temperament did not converge at all, but on the contrary, there was a kind of increasingly fierce posture.
In this way, she single-handedly made another judge cry.
Coupled with Yang Erche Nam's other fierce words in the show, the show was suspended, and even she herself was banned.
Seeing that this road of the entertainment industry is not feasible, Yang Erche Nam is not discouraged at all.
She chose to return to the life of an ordinary person and live her ordinary little life, but she also relished it.
Now she still has a very leisurely life and has her own small shop.
Usually, when there is nothing to do, I will also sneak lazy and travel around to have fun.
She also loves clothes and always likes to buy and buy.
When she encounters something she likes, even if she takes out all her savings, she must buy this thing back.
Yang Erche Nam's life is controversial, some people think that her private life is too chaotic, some people think she dares to say and dare to do, and some people think that she is too ostentatious.
But in fact, Yang Erche Nam just did what most people did not dare to do, and said what most people did not dare to say.
Therefore, in today's society, she will seem out of place, so she is often scolded and ridiculed by others.
But for Yang Erche Nam, she doesn't care how others evaluate her, after all, life is her own life, as long as she is happy and happy, what do others do?
She was smart and always knew what she wanted.
Even though she is now on the verge of old age, she still has not married and had children, but she has never regretted it.
She believes that marriage should be happy, not like a cage.
Since you haven't met the right person, you shouldn't go into marriage.
Perhaps she is different from other Mosuo tribesmen and has not enjoyed marriage, but her love history is also like another "daughter country marriage history".
She is happy with her current life, enjoys her life even more, and has never regretted any previous decision.
Such a free-spirited her, will be called "human alien" by everyone, right?