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Yang Erche Nam, a "fast man" judge who wears a red flower, how is his life now?

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Yang Erche Nam, a "fast man" judge who wears a red flower, how is his life now?

Yang Erche Nam, in the entertainment industry is definitely an outlier, just her Origin of the Mosuo clan, let her be special and mysterious enough, she is famous for serving as a happy male voice judge, like to pin a big red flower in the ear, known as the "Red Flower Sect Leader". Yang Erche Nam has a flamboyant personality, relying on an unscrupulous mouth, and stubbornly hooks up the secret gossip outside the circle for more than ten years. She helped Yang Liping get to the house, Zhang Ziyi helped her make coffee, and Venus was her girlfriend for many years. Yang Er's love history is also very rich, claiming that as long as love does not want marriage, she said that she only looks for foreigners, because no Chinese man dares to marry her. She was cut off by her ex-husband, once called herself "The Ambassador's Wife", and was robbed of her boyfriend by Li Xiaolu's mother. According to her own account, messi, who played football, had a scandal with her. Yang Er's bold words and deeds are enough to produce a book. She actually doesn't like to be called an entertainer, preferring to be called a writer. Yang Erche Nam is even more self-respecting than Sanmao. But what happened to cause her to fade out of the public eye? Is she okay now? Today we will talk about this woman with flowers.

Yang Erche Nam, a "fast man" judge who wears a red flower, how is his life now?

Yang Erche Nam was born in 1970 to a rural family on the banks of Lugu Lake in Yanyuan County, Liangshan Prefecture, Sichuan Province. The Mosuo people, with a total number of about 30,000 or so, are known as the last matrilineal clan in the country, not bound by marriage, popular "walking marriage", and children are raised by the woman's family. Before Yang Er walked out of Lugu Lake, she had never seen a highway or used an electric light. Until the age of 13, she was fortunate to leave her hometown, and her life changed dramatically. Nam can sing and dance since childhood, but everyone in their place can sing and dance, and Nam only regards singing as a hobby, never thinking that his musical talent can rewrite his fate.

One day in 1983, several staff members from the Sichuan Cultural Center came from their village to select singers to participate in a folk song competition. Nam has been a "little lark" in the village since she was a child, and in this way she was chosen. She walked for a few days and nights to Chengdu to participate in the competition, and finally won the first place. This trip made her eyes open, for example, in the guest house, the waiter gently pulled the rope, the lights in the room turned on, that night, Nam has been in the room to turn on the lights and turn off the lights, it feels so amazing, she wanted to be able to bring this lamp back to Lugu Lake for her family to use. Having seen the prosperity and no longer able to be content with the bland, Nam is determined to go out completely. She first stayed in the county as a song and dance troupe actor, and later heard that the Shanghai Conservatory of Music was enrolled, and she sold a pair of jade bracelets passed to her by her grandmother and bought a train ticket to Shanghai. Many years later, when Yang Erche Nam was a fast male judge, a sentence he often said was, "Opportunity is a hair on the bald man's head, and if you catch it, you will shake it to the fullest, and if you can't catch it, you will regret it." "Because she herself is like this, there is a chance that must be seized."

Yang Erche Nam, a "fast man" judge who wears a red flower, how is his life now?

After arriving in Shanghai, Yang Er saw a world that he had never imagined before. After graduating from the Shanghai Conservatory of Music, Yang Er has a new goal, that is, to go to Beijing, and she wants to show herself on a bigger stage. In order to be able to enter the Central National Song and Dance Troupe in Beijing, Yang Erche Nam used all the connections she could think of, broke her leg, and finally the kung fu paid off, in 1989, 19-year-old Yang Erche Nam, finally entered the Central National Song and Dance Troupe as she wished. When he first started working, he was still poor, but Yang Er tried his best to make his life look decent. For example, this picture of her in Tiananmen Square is made by herself. She was envious of Madonna's short leather skirt and could not afford it, so she sewed it up front and back with a black apron, a belt, and went out into the street. Fashion is bold, and the return rate at that time was high.

Also after arriving in Beijing, Yang Erche Nam made many friends in the literary and art circles, such as Yang Liping. They were all members of the Central National Song and Dance Troupe at that time, Yang Liping's accommodation conditions at that time were very poor, the roof was leaking, but Yang Liping was not affected by this at all, she still studied her dance and admired her nails, or Yang Er went to talk to the troupe, only to improve Yang Liping's living conditions.

Yang Er's best friends also include the dancer Venus. Venus said that when she first met Yang Er, she didn't like her, and quipped to damage her, "Yo, how much fertilizer is hidden in your hair, and how colorful the flowers on your head are." "But the two people came and went and became the girlfriends of the wrongdoer type." Venus called Yang Er the big sister of the flower, and Yang Er called Venus jin Daban. Until now, the two have maintained a very deep friendship. Venus said in her own show that she likes Yang Er because she is very honest, kind, and direct. Yang Er once said that she felt that it was a bit difficult to make friends with Han girls, and they were too twisted. And her unguarded personality often feels offensive. In fact, several of Yang Er's relatively good friends, like Venus and Yang Liping, are ethnic minorities.

Yang Erche Nam, a "fast man" judge who wears a red flower, how is his life now?

In 1990, Yang Erche Nam met a foreign photojournalist working at National Geographic magazine, Quail Egg. After marriage, Yang Er followed her husband to settle in the United States, and the two often quarreled. There was once a rumor that when the two quarreled fiercely, Yang Er was cut off half of his ears by his husband, so he left long hair to cover up. Yang Er denied this claim, saying that it is not false that there is a problem with the ear, but it is accidentally deaf when learning a driver's license in the United States, and it is not fake. Later, when she participated in a certain show, she simply wore a handwritten T-shirt that read: "My ears are not fake." After the divorce, Yang Er, who does not speak English and has no income, in order to survive, she had to go to the restaurant to brush dishes as a nanny and had a very difficult life.

Yang Erche Nam, a "fast man" judge who wears a red flower, how is his life now?

In 1996, Yang Erche Nam met the Norwegian diplomat Shi Danwu by chance, a man several years younger than her, and fell in love with her at first sight. Shi Danwu has a strong "Beatles complex", he uses Yang Er as a stand-in for Yoko Ohno, and this relationship lasted for nearly 7 years in total. Yang Er also met Zhang Ziyi during that time. Yang Er once wrote a meaningful blog, saying that Zhang Ziyi had just finished filming "My Father and Mother", when he came to her diplomatic apartment as a guest: "Only she (Zhang Ziyi) came into the kitchen to make coffee with me, at that time, she clearly knew the taste she wanted to be famous, even if there was a strong coffee smell, I could smell it, and she also paid a great price for it over the years!" In fact, it was also because Yang Er himself had this smell that he could smell the smell of Zhang Ziyi's body.

Yang Er maintained her relationship with Shi Danwu in the form of marriage, and they often did not see each other together, and they did not see each other until an average of 3 or 4 months. Of course, over time, feelings have changed. However, this relationship, Yang Erche Nam did not waste at all, during which she published several books about her and Shi Danwu, writing "Chinese Red Meets Norwegian Blue" when they were together, and writing "Chinese Red Farewell Norwegian Blue" after breaking up. In the book, Yang Erche Nam called Shi Danwu a prince, and even called herself "the ambassador's wife", she said that according to the customs of her boyfriend's hometown, 7 years of cohabitation history can already be regarded as a legal couple.

Yang Erche Nam, a "fast man" judge who wears a red flower, how is his life now?

In 2007, Mango Tv's "Happy Male Voice" program team found Yang Erche Nam and invited her to serve as a judge. In the program, Yang Er is often dressed in big red and green costumes, especially highlighting that she always has a bright red flower pinned to her ear, which is called the red flower god by netizens. In addition to the appearance of the eyeballs, Yang Erche Nam also does not take the usual path when commenting on the contestants, and his speech is very sharp and he is very dare to say it. In this way, just a few episodes after the show aired, she was completely on fire. Once commenting on Zhang Jie's singing, he inadvertently exposed the love affair between Zhang Jie and Xie Na, and expressed his envy for Nana's good fortune, resulting in the parties directly on the stage.

Because of the happy male voice, after Yang Erche Nam became popular, more variety shows found her, and in 2007, Yang Er appeared in the "First Heartbeat" program, and it was also on this stage that the "Ring Door" incident that later caused a sensation. In the show, a contestant named Dai Chuang suddenly asked the judge Ke Yimin for a gift at the scene, saying that he wanted to give it to another important person, and under the coaxing of the audience, Dai Chuang turned his head and gave Ke Yimin's ring to Yang Erche Nam, and also sent it in the form of one knee, which made the atmosphere of the scene instantly climax. Because of the Ring Gate incident, Yang Erche Nam was pushed to the cusp of the storm, some people questioned that she was taking advantage of the opportunity to hype, yang Erche Nam called it "ridiculous". "I'm a writer, a book writer, I have a fixed readership, I don't need to hype myself at all," she says. If it weren't for the fact that this slot was vacated, I wouldn't have wanted to be a judge at all. ”

Two months later, the incident suddenly took a big turn, and the party Dai Chuang admitted for the first time in an interview that he was instructed by Ke Yimin to play a play with the intention of suppressing Yang Erche Nam. After the truth of the incident came out, Ke Yimin was collectively banned by the internal entertainment variety show. That variety show was also punished and suspended. Although Yang Erche Nam is an innocent victim, his career has also been severely damaged. After the ring door, the State Administration of Radio, Film and Television rectified the general environment of variety shows, but these were still powerless to save Yang Er from being dismissed. After that, she rarely appeared in public, opened an inn in Lijiang, and lived quietly. In 2016, Yang Erche Nam recalled the ring door incident on Weibo that year, and seemed to still have a grudge. After retiring from the entertainment industry, Yang Erche Nam did not sit idle, she built a private museum in her hometown of Lugu Lake, which has become a popular local tourist attraction.

Yang Erche Nam, a "fast man" judge who wears a red flower, how is his life now?

In January 2018, after The exposure of Li Xiaolu's derailment incident, what netizens who ate melons did not expect was that Yang Erche Nam actually reappeared in the jianghu and summarized the derailment incident with a sentence of "if there is a daughter, there must be a mother". It turned out that when Yang Er was still in the United States, Li Xiaolu's mother Zhang Weixin had robbed her boyfriend. Whether Yang Er is rubbing heat or revealing his true feelings, the only constant is that his personality is as strong as ever.

Although her friend Venus is a famous marriage urger in the circle, she also said that marriage is not suitable for Yang Erche Nam, and Yang Er should continue to fall in love. Venus said that she really couldn't think of Yang Er and a man locked in a house for life, then it was not Yang Er, a Mosuo woman. Yang Er himself also said that love is a necessity, and marriage is a shackle. She said that although she also envied Venus for having a happy family and three children, that kind of life was not what she wanted. All her life she just wants to keep falling in love and constantly being admired by different men. According to Yang Er's own recollection, Messi saw her for a few minutes, so he asked his agent to say to her, I Love You. However, what the sports reporter outside the stadium saw was that Yang Er rushed to the stage to hug Messi, and finally asked Messi to sign on the right breast of her dress.

Although Yang Er has traveled all over the world and read countless people, she believes that what has a deep influence on her is still Sanmao. During her college years, she learned about the Taiwanese writer Sanmao, fell deeply in love with this woman, and read Sanmao's books repeatedly. Sanmao not only reshaped her values, but even influenced her life. So she kept sanmao's long hair, learned sanmao to travel the world as a writer, and even the trajectory of her life was inexplicably similar to that of sanmao.

Yang Erche Nam, a "fast man" judge who wears a red flower, how is his life now?

But Yang Erche Nam only learned the skin in his life, and did not learn the essence. Sanmao is the real Wenqing, Yang Er is not. Sanmao is fresh and dull, but Yang Er is too materialistic, drunk in the red dust, she said: "I am too good for human things, 300 pairs of high heels, mink coats, too good and fragrant." There is something beautiful, I must grab it in my hand, I feel that it is mine. Many years ago, a reporter interviewed Yang Er, and her impression was: "Her favorite thing is to let the photographer photograph her thigh, she hopes that she is noble in every shot, must drink coffee, have flowers around, live in the best hotel suite, and take a car with a full-time driver." "All this shows that she is not Sanmao, she is just her Yang Erche Nam."

Yang Er has a flamboyant personality, not everyone likes her, but in her hometown of Lugu Lake, everyone praises her, she is the pride of Lugu Lake, and under the impetus of Yang Erche Nam, the hometown is completely on fire, tourism is up, and the income of villagers has increased. Based on this alone, Yang Erche Nam is worthy of praise.

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