What reason do you have to leave your hometown?
Lu Xiansheng
What reason do you have to leave your hometown? In fact, it is the depths of your heart that have planted the seeds of indomitability.
Schopenhauer's words sometimes make sense: "Either I am not worthy of my time, or this era is not worthy of me." ”
I get up at four o'clock in the morning every day to study and work, and since the junior high school days, I have not slackened off a day, and always patiently focused my efforts on one goal. I said to many young friends, I don't think it's difficult to develop this habit, but many people like to indulge themselves and don't do it.
From the age of 37, I began to stay away from the hustle and bustle of the city, pursue a quiet working environment and simple life, and was determined to sit on the cold bench for ten years. I believe that if it is ten years later, I will not have the strength to complete the sprint of life, and I must complete the transformation and breakthrough in the prime of my life. In order to realize my ideals, I strive to keep a distance from some irrelevant people and things, so as not to be disturbed by those mundane things and dragged down by fame. Now, looking back over the past 20 years, I admire my own sobriety about the years.
The most beautiful scenery, on the top of a mountain off the beaten track.
The persistence of loneliness is a banquet that must be rushed, you dress up, and the world will eventually let you reap your glory.
The bench is going to sit cold for ten years. Many people can't stand loneliness. However, without the persistence of long lonely years, everything cannot be talked about.
Every delicate rose is prickly, and if you are afraid of pricking your hand and not picking it, you will never get the fragrance of the rose. Only every path can reach the top of the mountain, and if you worry about the rough road and fall off the cliff and go to find the main road, you are sure to be getting farther and farther away from the peak.
Our lives are calculated in time. Life is not infinite, it has length. In a limited time, do as many undertakings as possible, completely compress all boring, meaningless, and worthless things, and let life return to a refreshing simplicity, such a life, full of vitality.
Life is not an easy task for anyone, but as long as you have a tenacious spirit, a tenacious confidence in the future, and believe that we have a natural talent for everything, you will try your best to overcome the difficulties and get this thing done. When it's over, you can say with a clear conscience, "I've done my best." "And at this time, you are already unconsciously standing in the hall of the successful."
There is nothing more attractive than striving, a day will make a little progress, a period of time will have a small harvest, a few years of progress, will be outstanding, even a big success. In contrast, slackness and depravity are difficult, and it takes so much courage to give up so many ambitions, responsibilities, conscience, and decency.
Now, in many of the situations I'm in, one word that people talk about a lot is self-discipline. Everyone thinks that it is not easy for a person to achieve self-discipline in a lifetime. I said: The hardest thing for people is to adapt themselves to all people; the easiest thing is to take care of themselves. I think it is not easy to manage others, and it is not difficult to manage yourself.
The question is often asked: What is the meaning of life? I replied: Whenever I feel that I have found the meaning of life, I find that the meaning of life has changed. So I figured out a secret: the world always cares for those who walk with their heads buried.
If I meet a superstitious person, I basically conclude that this person is ruined, a person, pushing everything to fate, no longer believe in their own strength, is there any chance to change their destiny?
Nothing will happen overnight, but it will need to be done step by step, and the sand will be built into a tower. There's a saying that goes something like this: "The best time to plant a tree is ten years ago, followed by now." ”
Chinese advocated the concept of "cultivating and reading heirlooms", which has been around for thousands of years and is still shining today. Ploughing the land is to make a living and support the family, is to "establish people"; to read, is to read, is to be a person to understand the etiquette, righteousness and shame, is "Lide". Cultivating the field can survive, reading can understand the righteousness, with these two points, a person, a family, in the world will not be bad. As for the rest, it's all secondary.
I often meet some people with melancholy temperament, and sad emotions are always hanging in the eyes full of sentimentality. I usually tell my friends this: In fact, in the bottom of everyone's heart, there will be a vulnerability that does not want to show people, but you will find that there are many people who always walk in a brilliant time with bright colors and firm beliefs.
A person, not to say that he is always immersed in sadness and cannot extricate himself, is to often let the sad emotions into life, and will gradually be forgotten and abandoned by the world.
To measure whether a person is happy, we should not look at how many happy things he has, but whether he is worrying about small things. Only happy people will attach small things that are innocuous to their hearts. Those who are experiencing the Great Tribulation have no time to take care of these little things.
People who paint know that if you pay too much attention to the contrast between light and shade, the painting will be blunt and unnatural; but if you don't pay attention to the contrast between light and shade, the picture will be blurred. Therefore, how to paint a good painting requires solid and skillful color transition skills. In fact, life is still the same, people who are too angular will be very tired; without character, it is almost synonymous with weakness and incompetence. Between yes and no, between advance and retreat, it is the university to ask.
Along the way, you may not reach your dream in the end, but you will grow armor and accumulate the ability to resist wind and rain.
A person must have some philosopher's care, let his life adhere to some thinking and profoundness; also have the mind of some businessmen, so that he has some pragmatism and foresight; however, there must also be some literati feelings, so that people can retain some purity, innocence and cuteness in life.
The situation changes with your heart, and you yourself will always be the singer of your own life.
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