Your "heart" determines what kind of person you will meet

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In fact, everything has its own frequency, although the frequency is not visible to the naked eye, but people and things with similar frequencies will inexplicably be "attracted" to each other.

Have you ever met such a person, that is, the first time you met him, you were not a good social person, but you had endless words with him.

With him, you will inexplicably have a sense of familiarity and will be willing to open up to him and talk about nothing.

The so-called confidant is actually two people who are at the same frequency, seeing each other at first sight and being deeply attracted to each other.

There are some people who can't say where he is good, but you are just willing to deal with him, even in the context of complete ignorance of him, you are willing to fully trust him and open up to him.

In our feelings, we can actually be sensitive to distinguish whether a person is on the same frequency as us.

Some people, we inexplicably don't like, not necessarily because the other party really has a lot of guilt, but just because the two are likely to have different frequencies.

People of the same frequency will be "attracted" to each other, and it is rare to meet a person who has always been on the same frequency in life.

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Frequency changes with the years, so there will always be people in our lives who inexplicably disappear into the rush of time.

Those who disappear halfway are not very shallow with our feelings, but simply because the environment and frequency of the two people are different, so they can only be hurriedly separated.

People with different frequencies are actually difficult to talk about, and it is difficult to have ideological resonance, so it is extremely "uncomfortable" to get along, and even boring.

People with different frequencies cannot communicate about their current lives, because they are not interested in each other, so they can only talk about the past, and talking about the past is only to avoid the embarrassment of calming down.

Some people, walking and walking, disperse, not because the feelings are not deep enough, but simply because life experiences divide us into people with different frequencies.

In those years, the people who gave us warmth were able to attract each other at the same frequency as we did in that moment.

Today's strange road separation is simply because of the different frequencies and can no longer get along.

The original love was true, and now the different frequencies are also true.

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What is frequency? That is, a person's thoughts, heartbeats, and life goals.

Thoughts determine a person's frequency. An optimistic person can never get along with a pessimistic person, because the attitude of life is different, even if there is a heart to tolerate, it is difficult to truly express his faith in life.

In this life, it is actually very rare to meet a person who has the same frequency all his life, so it is difficult for the ancients to find themselves.

How do you define a person who will always be at the same frequency as you? That is, his three views have your shadow, you understand his pursuits, appreciate his personality, you treat him as he treats you, and the two get along very well.

People of the same frequency can withstand the long years, and he will be the constant number in your life.

The fit of the soul and the soul will make two people unconsciously attracted to each other.

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In love, two people with the same frequency will also be attracted to each other.

Those couples who can live happily together for a lifetime are often people of the same frequency, so they can withstand the test of time.

People of the same frequency will produce love, so they walk together.

However, in the process of getting along, the different emotional experiences and different feelings of two people will make the two people in different frequency stages.

People of the same frequency, attracted to each other. People with different frequencies, even if there is still love, will be consumed because of differences in cognition, and eventually lead to separation.

Therefore, some people will say that it is easy to love each other and difficult to keep each other. It is really rare for two people to be able to maintain their original intentions together and have similar feelings in this relationship together.

So how to pursue the same frequency in love? It needs to be understood and tolerated, both sides need to see each other's emotions and needs, and have a common goal.

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People with different frequencies cannot see each other's true appearance, because the world in which two people live is fundamentally different.

Just as the scenery seen by people standing in the mountains and people at the foot of the mountains is also different, there is no right or wrong, but there is no way to understand each other's feelings.

In this life, people can meet a person who has always been on the same frequency, but they can not be sought.

Some people, how lucky, are to meet the best friends of their lives. Some people, how happy, have a man with whom they can fall in love and grow old.

We can see things because we are on the same frequency as them. Those who can accompany us all the time in addition to our relatives, our relationship with them, is also from the rare "same frequency".

The landscape of life depends on our hearts. If the heart is beautiful, everyone and everything around it will also have beautiful colors.

The color of the heart determines whether the person with the same frequency is beautiful or gray...

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I am Hexu, a creator of warm and happy emotional fields in his heart, writing emotional essays. I hope my words can help you, thank you for reading, and deeply wish you peace, health and joy!