The feelings of this constellation are like a paper contract, and they are forced to take effect, and they cannot last long without balance

There is no perfect thing in the world, and there is no perfect person, which means that we believe that a person's choice cannot be perfect, and it also means that we have to accept a lot of things that we do not want to accept, such as the shortcomings or black spots in the person you choose, and we must also take on the responsibility of resolving contradictions and problems, adjusting the mode of getting along and controlling the direction of emotional development. Of course, this kind of thing requires two people to participate together, and when you encounter the following zodiac sign, you must or should be prepared in advance to take on a little more responsibility.

The feelings of this constellation are like a paper contract, and they are forced to take effect, and they cannot last long without balance

Cancer – Contractual feelings

People in water signs are generally emotional, so the key to understanding them is to understand the problem of emotion, but you must know that the nature and state and result of the emotions of Cancer, Scorpio and Pisces are different, as the head of the water sign, Cancer is the most representative of the problem of emotion.

Or to put it another way, water signs that look sentimental are actually very anxious inside, especially Cancer, but,

Please don't understand Cancer's anxiety as depression or depression, because in any case, Cancer will eventually try to balance this thing in every way.

Let's look at this problem from another perspective, many people say that when they first started with Cancer, they were very good and would not be emotional, but after the middle period, Cancer inexplicably began to be emotional, so many people can only follow this logic to understand Cancer's emotionalization, and think that Cancer's emotionalization is related to themselves or caused by themselves.

Honestly, it's true to think so, but in detail, Cancer's emotions are not all because of the person he is with, in fact, the root of their emotions is themselves.

And the person who gets along with them is actually the one who "ignited the fire".

So here we have to say an essential concept of "self" and "self-awareness".

If a Cancer can do self-affirmation, such as a very good relationship between friends, a very good relationship with a lover, a very good family atmosphere, a very good job, in short, the desire and desire that Cancer needs can be satisfied and comforted, then the possibility of Cancer's emotions will become very low.

On the contrary, it will be very high, and it will be uncontrollable,

This is the root of Cancer's emotions

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Because they can't control themselves, they can only hold their breath, and in this special period, as long as others or other things stimulate him or interfere with him, the emotions of Cancer will spread like waves.

So it is very normal, when Cancer enters the relationship, this essential thing can not be completely eliminated, but it is said that when love is still in its fresh stage, the enthusiasm and desire of two people are relatively strong, so this enthusiasm can temporarily suppress Cancer's emotions.

In the middle of the period, after some problems occurred in the relationship, the other party did something that made Cancer insecure, said something that made Cancer think wildly, and did some "abnormal" behavior, Cancer's emotions were ignited.

So are you solving sudden problems? Or to address his emotions?

It is also worth mentioning:

Cancer judges good, high-quality relationships and feelings by "quantity" rather than essential quality

The concept is somewhat similar to that of a lion, but it's fundamentally different.

So in the same way, we also bring this concept into the feelings of Cancer, if a person has always been very good to Cancer, and never absent when it is time to pay, then Cancer will naturally feel very safe.

But if a person is not always very good to Cancer, and the quality of the payment is very high, but the quantity is small, then the problem will arise.

This means that you can pay for Cancer, but pay attention to the long flow of water, not "whimsy".

As for why, the reason is simple, the higher the quality of your efforts, the stronger Cancer's desire for security, and if you don't meet the standards he craves, then he must be thinking wildly, so in Cancer, the number wins.

In the same way, the Cancer in life is also like this, the Cancer that can get the approval of many people will live very easily, and the Cancer that goes alone is the opposite state, very tired and anxious and confused.

Such a Cancer will feel that no one can understand himself, and no one is his confidant.

In fact, we are talking about it to highlight an important point:

Cancer's feelings must be balanced in order to be stable, and if there is no balance, then they will "stand up" and prove this imbalance.

It's like a contract, being loved or falling in love, this contract automatically takes effect, and it is forced to take effect, and if your giving and love for Cancer can meet his standards, then he will use the same standards to pay for you and dedicate to you.

And if Cancer feels unbalanced, then they will think that you don't love him or that you don't love her enough, that you don't love him at all!

So the end result is that feelings can't last long. Of course, many people will also understand this concept of Cancer as passive, in fact, fundamentally speaking, it is not only passive, or in other words, even if you are active, you can't meet the standards of Cancer, it is still no rut, or can not solve any problems, so if you want to get along with Cancer, then you must or have to be prepared in advance to take on a little more responsibility. However, there is one important point to keep in mind, and that is to work hard or find ways to satisfy the desire to achieve Cancer's self-affirmation, which is the essence of solving Cancer's emotional problems!