In fact, a woman's bottom card has never been a husband

Text: Guardian of emotions

Use the simplest words to write about the warmth and cold of the world and heal the lonely heart.

It is better to rely on who is better than on yourself.

This is because no one's heart is something you can control, and you will not immediately notice it when he changes his mind, no longer loves you, and dislikes you in every way.

Therefore, putting all your hopes on others may lose miserably.

You must understand that in this world, anyone can leave you at any time and let yourself go the next way, and you will return to the same life that you did not live together.

Maybe last week you were talking sweetly and planning your future life, but next week you'll get into an argument and tell you that the two of you are not a good fit.

Love has a shelf life.

No matter what kind of commitment two people make when they are in love, they cannot be considered permanently valid, time is changing, but people will not change anything.

Every moment you think differently, the decisions you make will be different.

What a person is going to do next, you may not be able to see clearly in time. This means that whether he will hurt you or not, whether it will affect your later life, is not up to you.

In this case, it is impossible to stop the loss in time, and it is likely to fall into the abyss and ruin a lifetime.

In the face of feelings, you should think carefully, don't be naïve enough to think that who can't fail you, who will always be with you, who is always willing to go through the storm with you.

As a woman, you must understand: your bottom card is not your husband, but these three things.

Career: Independence of thought

Entering a relationship, a woman may make such a decision: give up her job, try to be with the man, and help the man do something.

The reason for this is often these two reasons: hearing men say "you are responsible for being beautiful as a flower, I am responsible for earning money to support you", thinking that more companionship can always keep the man's heart.

That is to say, whether you believe the man's words, or think that the more you give, the more stable the feelings, it is possible to give up some things and be more attentive to men.

From having a stable job, to quitting, spending all your thoughts on men is because of love, is to love each other well, is to make the feelings deeply rooted.

To tell the truth, women only think about the present, only consider love, completely ignore themselves, and what they do may be very unfavorable to themselves.

Women in the relationship, to know that the career is extremely important to themselves, can not be impulsive to throw away their career, only around the man's side.

Connections: Circle stability

I don't have a friend and I feel helpless a lot of the time.

No matter what happens, there is not even a person to speak, only to hide what they want to say in their hearts, no matter how much they need help, no one will help, only one person can face it.

Over time, you will feel that life is very boring, completely different from what you want.

It's okay to just want to get along with men, and live together most of the time, but you can't cut off every relationship with every friend because of this, and you can't have a certain distance from anyone.

Even if you have love, you can't live without friends.

There are a few true friends who will be accompanied by someone to help themselves deal with things when they need help, and there will be no pressure.

Friendship and love can be combined, don't leave your friends for anyone, don't let yourself have no friends, don't turn around and can't see anyone.

Money: Financial independence

In fact, it is not easy to expect men to support themselves.

Because you need to use money, you have to manage the man's need, otherwise there is no money, but when asking for money, you need to look at the man's face, and you will be very careful when speaking.

It's like when you were a kid, you liked something, but you didn't have money in your pocket.

Palms up, may never taste the sweetness of love, more often do not get attention, feel that they have no value, all feel humble.

To love someone again and take care of him again, you must also consider yourself and understand the importance of money for yourself.

When you are sexually engaged, don't forget to make money, and you can't forget to save some money. In this way, no matter how the other party treats you and what you do, you will not be left without a way.

Emotional Message:

No matter how old you are, don't think that if you find a man, you don't have to worry about anything.

Everyone should know that this idea is problematic, and it must be clear that men may not be reliable, and they should stop pinning their hopes on men.

Single or in love, indispensable is career and connections, but also know how to save money.

Economic independence, independent thinking, and wide network of contacts can live a wonderful life, and there is no need to please anyone at all, and if you look at anyone's face, you will not feel tired.

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Author: A senior mentor who accompanies books, writes for fun, freelance writer, and helps countless people get out of emotional difficulties.