I'm probably the most horse-grabbing variety show I've seen this year, and if there's any more horse-catching, it must be the next one, after all, the director team is not willing to finish the plot at once.
Actor Li Yanan participated in the recording of the divorce love roundup "Spring Day Delay and Departure", but only ate melon and did not participate in the whole process, as if he just wanted to run a notice to make money. It was not until the end of the show that the program team invited the relatives and friends of the guests to be guests, and Li Yanan's performance in the show was explained: his group of relatives and friends came to his ex-wife.
It was a fairly beautiful woman, with short hair and a strong temperament, which was eye-catching and stunning. The ex-wife rushed to kill the divorce in order to get Li Yanan's forgiveness: she wanted to remarry.
"I don't want you to be on a show like this again!"
"He's so good, I'm sure he's going to be snatched away by someone else."
It's just that this gesture of proposing to remarry is lofty and "arrogant", and you can see sincerity, but you can better glimpse Li Yanan's humility in this marriage.
How to describe it? It's like it's clearly the party at fault, but the apology scene is not begging you for forgiveness, but asking for your forgiveness. There is a kind of arrogance between the words: "I have come to you, why don't you go back with me" arrogance.
It is also true that Li Yanan accommodated his ex-wife to a rare point in this marriage.
His wife is heavy on her career, pregnant without stopping work, and she put herself into work again three or five months after giving birth, and Li Yanan gave great support to this: where his wife is, he will move wherever he is, from Beijing to Shanghai to Hangzhou, all the way to follow his wife.
Over the years of gu Xiaojia's family, Li Yanan even ignored his parents: he only returned to Beijing once a year to visit his parents.
In order to satisfy his wife's sense of security, Li Yanan did it for 24 hours, as long as his wife video he would answer; every time he was asked do you love me? Answer "I love you" without hesitation; give all the money you make to your wife, but you don't spend much of it yourself; go out and let your wife and children sit in first class and sit in economy class yourself; he will come back as soon as the wife makes a phone call.
Even after the divorce, I believe that his care for his ex-wife and children is also intimate and careful, so the ex-wife will have a feeling that he has never left, until he hears that he is going to participate in the divorce complex, and then there is a real sense of loss, flying over to try to save.
Maybe it is the pampering of so many years, or the privilege of beautiful women, or maybe it is the 24-year-old who has not had much social experience with Li Yanan, nor does he have the ability to deal with feelings, Jiang Feifei's arrogance can make people feel uncomfortable across the screen.
What she did wrong in this marriage was not just wayward nonsense, beckoning if she wanted to live with Li Yanan, and pushing out if she didn't want to live with Li Yanan. There is also a knot that Li Yanan does not want to mention, which hurts him deeply.
Over the years, Li Yanan has paid everything he can pay, without reservation, all delivered, but what he returned was not satisfactory.
He used to turn his ex-wife into a princess, but now, he can't catch the overtures of this princess who has not grown up...
Someone you love deeply says to start over?
But is it really going to get better if you start over?
At least at the moment when the ex-wife came to the show, everyone saw the willfulness of the ex-wife, but in fact, it did not change much.
How did she describe her sadness and sadness after divorcing Li Yanan?
She said Li Yanan was out of her control.
How does she define Li Yanan's love for her?
Like Dad.
The same care and love as dad, but not what Li Yanan wants to give, he said: they are husband and wife after all. Dad can accept everything she has unconditionally, no matter what mistakes he makes, but not necessarily as a couple.
He said that he would give Li Yanan time to think about the end of the two, but when Li Yanan invited her to stay for the New Year's Eve, he pressed step by step: "Then I stay, will you go back with me tomorrow?" ”
Li Yanan did not respond, she turned to leave.
When Li Yanan thought about going, or ran to stop her from leaving, trying to pull her out of the car, he showed a triumphant smile that seemed to control the man across from him again.
What seemed to be in front of her was not her ex-husband, who was equal to her, but the pet she would come back with a piece of candy.
It is not difficult to understand why Li Yanan, who loves Jiang Feifei deeply, regretted it after the divorce and tried every means to go back to beg her Li Yanan, why he hesitated this time when she took the initiative to ask for peace.
Why is the attitude towards the ex-wife's desire to remarry a sentence: Why did you go earlier?
Why the first thought of looking at her was not to start over, but to repeat the mistakes of the past.
He was obviously ready to say goodbye, and finally he was about to get out of this haze, and she came back to disturb his heartstrings.
Is she trying to save her lover? Or are you reluctant to lose your care?
Love is not one side squeezing the other, but both sides are willing to pay for each other; love is not a single spoiling, but a two-way rush; love is not condescending, but mutual respect.
I don't know whether the final ending is broken and reunited, and I don't know if this dog blood plot will be a drama arranged by the director, but based on the editing presented by this issue alone, I am not optimistic about Li Yanan and his ex-wife remarrying.
Even if there are feelings, it is not urgent, otherwise it will really repeat the same mistakes.