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Does the latest issue of "Spring Delay and Departure" seem to everyone?
In the last issue, because of the arrival of his ex-wife Jiang Feifei, Li Yanan, the male guest who originally had the least sense of existence, suddenly became the focus of the whole audience.
In this issue, Jiang Feifei still confessed affectionately, and the singing link chose a Song of Karen Mok's "Without You" to give to Li Yanan: "If there is no you ~ or to love you ~ I don't know where you are now ~" Singing, the voice choked, and the tears fell. Li Yanan, who was sitting on the side, couldn't help but respond: "I'm here." ”
After the two walked together alone, in the face of Jiang Feifei's request that I not want to be separated from you, Li Yanan did not give an answer immediately, and his expression was still hesitant and hesitant, very afraid of being hurt again: "In fact, in the first half year of the divorce, I went back to face this problem again and again, but I was really afraid. ”
"I'm sorry."
"I know."
"I won't."
"You've said that before."
"I really am the last time."
Li Yanan was silent.
"Because I think you have the heart to start over, I don't want you to start over. My life is not good, I am unhappy, I am alone, with my daughter, I also want my daughter to have a father, I also want you to be by my side..."
Li Yanan silently turned away.
Finally, Jiang Feifei directly asked Li Yanan: "Do you still love me?" After hesitating for a moment, Li Yanan nodded.
But in an adult marriage, can love be together all the time?
Li Yanan said frankly when preparing for the harvest: "I really don't know what the future will become, and I don't want to repeat the same mistakes, I have actually done a good job of being a person's state, about marriage, this thing, can not be sought." I don't know what she's been through lately to make her look like this, I'm the father of the child, her former husband, in fact, we know each other very well, but she and I said I want to reconcile with me, I don't know if it's true or not, I haven't thought about it yet. ”
Jiang Feifei's actions touched some people, but at the same time, some people felt that she was approaching step by step, and if she was substituted for Li Yanan, she really felt a little suffocated.
Da Zhang Wei: "Fighting that you like me to bully you, Jiang Feifei said every time that Li Yanan took good care of himself, he didn't take care of him, and then he was finished, and he didn't say that it was wrong for him to do this." ”
Wu Kequn also said: "I think Li Yanan has a very sober thing, that is, he said I want to see with my eyes, I want to see what she does, that is the real expression, she just said I want you to come back, I love you, these words have no way to really impress him." ”
Li Songwei said from a more academic point of view: "Anyone who is in a controlled relationship, like Li Yanan's side, he will have a common experience, that is, he has no idea whether he can believe his feelings anymore, his pain must be that he feels that he is attracted at that moment, and then he does not know whether this feeling of attraction is real or whether he is repeated in a pattern and created." Usually, there are many cases of such cases, and there are very few cases that are really suitable for the same person as the past, because you are unlikely to do the same thing and expect to produce different results. So under what circumstances would it be better to compound? It is the premise that both sides have a relatively large change. ”
About why Li Yanan and Jiang Feifei divorced? Some shrewd netizens also caught clues from the show, because at that time, David took the initiative to comfort and chat with Li Yanan, saying that my experience with Yanan was very similar.
So some netizens guessed the reason for Li Yanan's divorce in such an instant, and they were even more distressed about Li Yanan.
So, you who are watching the show, do you want the two of them to get back together? Or do you hope that the two of them will be different and wide, each born happy, the end of the world strange road, and the future will be indefinite?
The show hasn't had a big finale yet, so I don't know. However, Jiang Feifei is suspected of spoiling in advance in the live broadcast room, saying that Li Yanan did reject her in the show, and after the end of the show, Li Yanan changed her new phone number and never took the initiative to contact her. When I miss my daughter, I only contact her nanny. After saying this, Jiang Feifei couldn't help but cry on the spot in the live broadcast room, and the picture was really quite painful!
But how to say, even if it is indeed rejected in the show, who in life can say clearly what will happen next?
However, I still think that in the show, some of the discussions of the guests in their situation are still worthy of our deep consideration.
Teacher Li Songwei: "They have been talking about whether you still have feelings, whether you still love me, and then how do they get along with these practical questions, they did not talk about it." ”
Wu Kequn: "Because words are deceptive." ”
Tong Chenjie: "I have always felt that the person who is full of benevolence and morality, who promises to you at the door, may not be able to do it in the end." ”
Teacher Li Songwei: "So if I were Jiang Feifei, I might use a different way, such as when we will meet again in the future, and don't force people into a corner... Most importantly, don't think of yourself as a master in the relationship anymore. ”
Wu Kequn: "Actually, I'm curious whether she is not used to you being around me, or if I really like you, so I want to keep you." ”
I couldn't help but hear the words: The favored have no fear.
It is true, but if you want to get married for a long time, the favored person must also learn to love and take care of a person.
What about you? If your ex asks for a reunion, how will you react?