There are few celebrity couples in the entertainment industry who can grow old with their heads in vain.
The only two star couples who can grow old with white heads have not been involved in the entertainment industry.
It seems that as long as the celebrity couples who are overly involved in the entertainment industry, they can rarely have a good ending.
In fact, this is not nonsense.
At least the marriage between Wang Xingjun and Guan Mucun is a proper example.
Guan Mucun and Wang Xingjun met each other when they were still at the end of their lives.
After a long time of getting along and communicating, slowly, two people with very similar childhood lives fell in love.
And this love affair lasted only one year, and they evolved their identity from a couple to a couple.
For the average person, this love process is indeed a little happier.
But for people in the entertainment industry, obviously, this process is normal.
The too fast love process quickly consumes the curiosity and surprise of the two people for each other.
It also makes their thinking quickly change from romance to reality.
If falling in love is sweet, then maintaining a marriage is bitter.
When in love, Wang Xingjun and Guan Mucun have filters on each other.
Wang Xingjun looked at Guan Mucun and felt that she was generous and gentle.
Guan Mucun looked at Wang Xingjun and felt that he was reliable and assertive.
After getting married, Wang Xingjun and Guan Mucun had a big change in their views on each other.
Wang Xingjun believes that Guan Mucun is too wordy and has no sense of enterprise.
Guan Mucun believes that Wang Xingjun is too enterprising and does not love him.
Therefore, under the premise that values are not discussed.
The marriage lasted only 6 years before it broke down.
After the divorce, Wang Xingjun and Guan Mucun lived out their own wonderful lives.
Wang Xingjun is wonderful.
Although he did not remarry, he made a career achievement.
He became a well-known ghost maker in the mainland.
Seki Makimura is wonderful, she met her lover, and the good person also spoiled her as a "national treasure".
So, years later.
Although maritally, the "former couple" had a good time.
But in terms of the degree of happiness in life, the two can not let go.
One
Guan Mucun was born in 1953 in a poor village in Xinxiang, Henan.
Her family is complicated.
Before Koseki Makimura became conscious, she already had a half-brother.
Although, her brother's biological father and her biological father are not the same person.
But the simple men in the countryside don't take the rest seriously.
Yes, in daily life, the brothers and sisters who are not their own father and mother get along very well.
In addition to having a half-brother, Sekimura also has a half-brother.
Because there are many children in the family and there is only one person in the labor force.
When his younger brother Guan Muye was born, the family was very difficult.
If it is only a small matter that the basic living conditions cannot be satisfied, then it is a big thing that Guan Mother was diagnosed with stomach cancer in the second year after giving birth to the child.
Before Guan's mother was diagnosed, although the Guan family was poor, they never gave up hope in life.
But after Guan Mu was diagnosed, everything changed.
Fathers no longer have motivation to work, and brothers no longer have passion for learning.
This family seems to have lost hope of life.
But it is clear that being diagnosed with stomach cancer is not the worst.
The most tragic thing is that it has been determined that Guan Mu cannot be saved.
In 1963, Guan Mu died of stomach cancer.
After the death of Guan's mother, Guan's father left this sad place and came to work in other places.
Along with him, there is also the brother of Daguan Mucun, who is many years old.
As soon as my father and brother left, the person in charge of the family became Guan Mucun.
At that time, Guan Mucun was still very small.
But for the sake of her brother, who is still studying, she must support a family.
Because he began to support a family from an early age, Xiaoguan Mucun is very independent.
When they and their younger brother Guan Makino were dependent on each other, their lives were difficult.
At that time, as long as the father's money was not sent back in time, the two would go hungry.
During the period of hunger, Guan Mucun was very miserable.
Of course, she wasn't suffering because she couldn't eat.
It was because my brother was suffering from hunger along with him.
Adhering to the identity of the eldest sister, Guan Mucun has always taken good care of it.
In her opinion, the older self took care of her younger brother, which was completely reasonable.
This side of Guan Mu Village is everywhere for the sake of the younger brother, and the younger brother over there is not a white-eyed wolf.
Once, Guan Father's money was not sent back in time, and the two were hungry again.
Seeing his sister's increasingly emaciated face, Guan Muye couldn't help but smile.
Taking a moment, he went to sell blood.
Then he used the money from his own blood sale to buy meat for his sister to eat.
Because of this act of selling blood, Guan Mucun was touched and broken.
At that time, Guan Mucun secretly swore in his heart:
"In the future, we must work hard to raise our younger brothers well."
Two
When Guan Mu was not ill, she liked to sing.
Not only did she often hum songs in the fields herself, but she also often taught her daughter to sing.
At that time, Guan Mu still had a dream.
That is, to train her daughter to be a music all-rounder.
But before she could realize this dream, she died.
On the eve of her death, Guan's mother also instructed her daughter:
"Don't forget about music, be a good singer."
In 1970, at the age of 17, Guan Mucun entered the Tianjin factory to work.
And this work is 7 years.
In these 7 years of work, Guan Mucun has not forgotten his mother's instructions.
All the while, she's been studying music.
In addition to teaching music by himself, Seki Makimura also actively participates in the factory's literary and artistic work.
Because of this, Guan Mucun was fortunate to be selected by the Tianjin Opera Troupe and seconded to become a singer.
In 1977, Seki Makimura officially embarked on her musical path.
After studying in the Tianjin Song and Dance Troupe for 4 years, she became a teacher.
So, in 1981, with the support of the leadership, Guan Mucun starred in the opera "Eunuch".
This is an excellent work that took a very long time.
Although, when I first starred in this work.
Visible to the naked eye, Guan Mucun is not very skilled.
But with many rehearsals, rehearsals.
Slowly, her business became more and more skilled.
By the time it came time to perform on the big stage, Seki Makimura was already very sophisticated.
Three
After starring in the opera "Eunuch", in 1983, Guan Mucun cooperated with actor Wang Xingjun to star in a musical feature film "The Sea Rises bright moon".
Just by listening to the name, everyone should be able to feel the romance of the musical.
But in fact, in addition to the romance of the story, the male and female protagonists who starred in the film got along very romantically.
Like the female lead Guan Mucun, the childhood life of the male lead actor Wang Xingjun is not very good.
When he was young, his father died of cancer.
After his death, in order to support a large son, the Queen Mother found a stepfather for Wang Xingjun.
But who would have thought that this stepfather would not be easy to get along with at all.
Not only did he treat his parents and stepsons differently, but he also often insulted Wang Xingjun because of uneven food distribution.
Seeing this situation, Wang Xingjun did not want to continue to endure at home.
So, after having the opportunity to go out.
Wang Xingjun seized the opportunity and came to the big city to learn to perform.
Because childhood encounters are the same, Wang Xingjun and Guan Mucun have a common topic.
Often, when the two rehearse to the middle of the rehearsal, they will involuntarily chat about the sky.
During the conversation, Seki Makimura realized.
Wang Xingjun, like himself, was a very assertive teenager.
Or do someone else's arm to do too much, many times, Guan Mucun also wants to try what it is like to be pampered.
Yes, after meeting Wang Xingjun, who has the same childhood and the same personality.
Seki makimura fell.
Guanmu Village has completely fallen here, and Wang Xingjun over there is not unmoved.
Perhaps the feature film he acted together was too romantic, and he fell in love because of the drama.
Perhaps from the same childhood background, he empathized with Guan Mucun.
In short, the two fell in love.
During the love between Guan Mucun and Wang Xingjun, the two lived very poorly.
First, both sides are poor and can't come up with any spare money to travel.
Second, both shoulder the heavy responsibility of supporting the family.
So a lot of times, the date between the two is just a walk on the road.
For many retarded and casual couples, this kind of dating is normal.
But for the sensitive and arrogant Wang Xingjun, this is a shame.
In Wang Xingjun's view, a man is to meet the material needs of his lover.
If you can't be satisfied, don't blame your lover for being half-hearted.
Although, Wang Xingjun has a different view of his concept of love.
But at that time, the view returned to the opinion, and Wang Xingjun, who was still poor, could not satisfy Guan Mucun at all in material terms.
Fortunately, Guan Mucun is not the kind of person who is vain and prosperous.
In fact, compared to loving money, Guan Mucun loves Wang Xingjun more.
No, when Wang Xingjun returned home for the New Year, he was so poor that he had no travel expenses to take the car.
Or Guan Mucun took out his own 100 yuan to save money, and then sent his boyfriend to the train.
The price of spending the 100 yuan saved is the steamed bun that Guan Mucun has eaten for a long time.
Wang Xingjun was very touched by the fact that his girlfriend used the money to save money on himself.
But in addition to being moved, he was still a little embarrassed.
He hates this act of giving, and he hates himself who spends his girlfriend's money.
Four
In 1984, a year after falling in love, Wang Xingjun and Guan Mucun entered the palace of marriage.
When they first entered the marriage, the two had a wonderful time.
But soon, that good time was gone because of their work.
Originally, because they were engaged in literary and artistic work.
For most of the year, the two are separated.
Maybe here, Wang Xingjun just went to Beijing to work.
There Guanmu Village came to Shanghai again.
So the time that the two can spend together is really very little.
According to incomplete statistics, 365 days a year, the time spent together may only be more than 50 days.
If it's just a year or two of getting along less, that's fine.
Even more terrifying is the years of marriage.
For most of the time, both were in a different place.
Because of the short time together, many times, the two failed to have a good communication.
This also says, for one thing.
Maybe Wang Xingjun has Wang Xingjun's view, and Guan Mucun's view about Mucun.
Their views are not unanimous.
Of course, if it is only these problems, the marriage relationship between the two will change, but it will not change much.
At least it won't fall to the point of disgust.
What really caused the two to go farther and farther apart was Wang Xingjun's excessive sensitivity.
That's right, those years of living with his wife, Seki Makimura.
Wang Xingjun was too sensitive and too proud.
He could not accept that his wife was better than himself, nor could he accept the rumors of the outside world.
Once the people around him have the possibility of surpassing themselves, he will immediately become yin and yang.
For example, just two years before marriage.
Because of his outstanding ability, his wife Guan Mucun is more famous than him.
If the average husband sees that his wife is better than himself, he will definitely be very proud.
But Wang Xingjun is an exception.
He hated it when people said that his wife was better than himself, and that he was inferior to his wife.
As soon as someone says this, he goes crazy.
And after being mad with outsiders, when he comes back, he will diss his wife Seki Makimura Road:
"How? Don't go to a foreign country to develop! If I want to have your fame, I will definitely go to a foreign country to develop, but it is a pity, it is not as good as your good life! ”
Listening to her husband's yin and yang quotes, Guan Mucun had a bit of a headache.
But at that time, she had just given birth to a son.
In order to give her son a healthy home, she can endure grievances and try her best to maintain family harmony.
But even if Guan Mucun is so humble, so low and small.
In the end, she still failed to have a good ending with Wang Xingjun.
Of course, the reason why the two could not walk together.
I don't blame Guan Mucun at all, it's really Wang Xingjun who is crazy.
He actually abused Guan Mucun.
The reason for domestic violence is simply the money that Guan Mucun does not give him.
Seeing this, you should be able to feel the changes in Wang Xingjun before and after marriage.
Before marriage, Wang Xingjun was very proud and hated to use women's money.
But after marriage, he let go of his self-esteem and began to live on women.
If you say before, when you were yin and yang weird by your husband.
Guan Mucun still has some ideas for living a good life with her husband.
Now, all those ideas are annihilated.
The young man she had fallen in love with at that time finally lost under the long river of time.
Five
In 1990, Guan Mucun and Wang Xingjun agreed to divorce.
After the divorce, the son returned to GuanMu Village, and the two women left the house.
At that time, the social atmosphere was not very open.
If a woman divorces, there will be a lot of gossip.
And Guan Mucun is such a woman who has suffered from all kinds of gossip from her neighbors.
At that time, in addition to suffering from the mental pressure from the outside world, there was still a great material burden in Guanmu Village.
She had to support not only herself, but also her son.
On the basis of supporting the son, it is necessary to raise the son richly.
Yes, for the first four years after the divorce, Guan Mucun was working hard.
Until 1994, a lot of money was saved and the children were educated accordingly in school.
Guan Mucun began to relax.
As soon as this person is relaxed, it is easy to encounter some unplanned things.
For example, remarriage.
In 1994, because of a handover of work, Jiang Hong and Guan Mucun met.
At that time, although the two knew each other, they did not have the idea of further development.
The reason is that without him, Jiang Hong is not single.
Forced by his father's death, he had already married a famous bridesmaid a few years ago.
Although, Jiang Hong did not have love for her.
But as long as there is a day when his father is there, he does not dare to initiate divorce.
Because of the object, when she first got along with Guan Mucun, Jiang Hong regarded her as a friend.
It wasn't until an accident occurred that the boy, who had been arranged by his father since childhood, realized it.
It turned out that, invisibly, he had developed an extraordinary liking for this female colleague.
The accident was that Jiang Hong accidentally entered Guan Mucun's room.
Before entering the female colleague's room, Jiang Hong always thought that Guan Mucun was a very methodical person.
But when he entered the room, he saw a bed full of clothes and debris.
Jiang Hong realized that privately, the contrast between Guan Mucun was still quite large.
Because of this huge contrast, slowly, Jiang Hong paid attention to Guan Mucun.
By the time he realized that something was wrong, he was already deeply in love with Guan Mucun.
This love is very hot, it makes Jiang Hong, who has always been a good baby, rebel against his father for the first time and file for divorce from his wife who has been married for more than ten years.
After divorcing his wife, Jiang Hong chased after Guan Mucun.
When Jiang Hong first chased after Guan Mucun, the single mother refused.
She said to this mature man who was still handsome:
"You are a high-ranking official, doing things in the system, don't come after me, it's not good for your reputation."
Hearing the heartthrob said this, Jiang Hong was not discouraged.
He still insisted: "No, I love you, I will chase you." ”
In order to prove his love, Jiang Hong also found Guan Mucun to confess:
"For your sake, I'm willing to go home and farm."
Seeing that the suitor was so sincere, Guan Mucun, who had always lacked love, was also touched.
Looking at the man's gentle and resolute face, Guan Mucun said to himself:
"Give yourself another chance, and if you lose this time, you won't hold on any longer."
Six
In 1994, Guan Mucun agreed to associate with Jiang Hong.
After four years together, in 1998, the two married.
After marriage, Jiang Hong was very fond of Guan Mucun.
As long as it is guan mucun's favorite, he will spend a lot of money to find it;
What Guan Mucun does not want to do, he will also improve one by one.
Once, Seki Makimura fell in love with playing the piano.
In order to meet his wife's small wish, Jiang Hong spent a few weeks to build a piano room.
Looking at the piano room surrounded by the fragrance of flowers and birds, Guan Mucun was really moved.
Seven
The two husbands of Guan Mucun are completely different types.
The predecessor, Wang Xingjun, was selfish and enterprising.
In Wang Xingjun's heart, the first person in the list will never be Guan Mucun.
If something else is important, Seki Makimura may still be in third place.
But what about the current Jiang Hong?
In his heart, Guan Mucun will always be the first.
In a variety show, Jiang Hong also publicly confessed to his wife:
"She suffered so much before, so she will certainly not be allowed to suffer so much in the future, in my eyes, she is a "national treasure." ”
When getting along with the former Wang Xingjun, more often, Guan Mucun was tired.
Without him, Wang Xingjun is too enterprising and skilled.
If he has the ability and can really make a achievement, it is good.
What is speechless is that he did not make any achievements at all.
Sometimes when I see that the people around me have improved, I have to run over and stab them for a sentence or two.
And Jiang Hong?
He always stood firmly by Guan Mucun's side.
Like before, when I almost got out of office because of the divorce.
He could also rationally coax Guan Mucun dao:
"It's okay, just go home and farm, you're the most important thing anyway."
Eight
After breaking up with Guan Mucun, Wang Xingjun did not remarry.
In his view, instead of entering a cage-like marriage, it is better to chase dreams freely.
Therefore, after the divorce, Wang Xingjun was completely busy with his career.
Probably realizing that he could not achieve his grand ambitions by acting, in 1992, Wang Xingjun made an effort to switch tracks.
In 1992 and 1994, Wang Xingjun went to the Beijing Film Academy and Then to Study Directing and History at Nankai University in Tianjin.
When he returned from his studies three years later, he energetically ran to become a director.
Wang Xingjun's first work was called "Amani Shahan".
At the beginning, Wang Xingjun was a guide to play, only treating it as a side business.
But who would have thought that in the end, the director's work "Amani Shahan" would be on fire?
I see that being a director can really make a difference.
After that, Wang Xingjun successively directed "Full Moon Liangzhou" and "Nine Lixiang".
Although, the last two exported works are not as wonderful as the first divine works.
But obviously, Wang Xingjun has also realized his ideals and truly made achievements in his career.
After realizing the grand ambitions of his youth. Wang Xingjun began to "chicken baby".
He wants his son to make a difference and take over his career.
In the face of his father's expectations, the son was very embarrassed.
He told his father bluntly:
"He is not here, he loves the academic world more than his career as a director."
Seeing that his son was so crisp, Wang Xingjun did not want to persecute him.
After all, the father-son relationship that was hard to repair, if it really broke again because of this matter, it would really be worth the loss.
Nine
In a way, Guan Mucun and Wang Xingjun are very similar.
This means that the two seem to be friends more than a couple.
No, in terms of personality, both of them are assertive and dependent on the family.
However, in the meantime, Wang Xingjun's personality is more sensitive.
In terms of how they do things, both of them are also rational.
Although it may be because of gender issues, Guan Mucun should be emotional.
But in any case, it cannot be denied that the two have similar temperaments.
The word alike is more suitable for describing friends than husband and wife.