Wang Xingjun, as a leading figure in the entertainment industry in the 1980s, has starred in many classic works such as "Bright Moon born on the sea", "Liangzhou of the Full Moon", "The Storm of Moon Bay" and so on, although Wang Xingjun is not satisfactory, every role he plays is impressive. His wife Guan Mucun is six years older than him, a famous Singer in China, the two walk together because of love, but the marriage lasted only six years before it ended, after the divorce Guan Mucun found happiness again, a family of three sweet happiness. Wang Xingjun is still single, and the huge difference between the two makes many people regret and sigh. Wang Xingjun, born in 1959 in an ordinary family in Xinjiang, the family moved to Xinjiang in the last century, the ancestral home is Zhangye City, Gansu Province, there are many children in the family, Wang Xingjun, as the eldest son in the family, has taken on the responsibility of taking care of his younger brother and sister since he was a child. My father was a soldier, and although the family lived in poverty, such a day did not last long, and accidents occurred.
When Wang Xingjun was 8 years old, his father died of stomach cancer, and his mother, who could not bear the blow, fell ill and fell ill and went to the hospital, facing sudden changes in the family, Wang Xingjun became the family's dependence.
During that time, he got up early every morning to prepare breakfast for his younger siblings, and after school, he had to go to the hospital to take care of his sick mother, who also came out of grief under his company and care.
Wang Xingjun saw that his mother, a weak woman, needed to take care of so many children in the family, and had the idea of dropping out of school, but he was stopped by his mother, and soon after, in order to support the children, his mother remarried and married a colleague in the unit.
The stepfather did not like the children very much, often let the children help him work and did not give them food, so the mother and the stepfather often quarreled over the children's problems.
Living in such a family environment for a long time, Wang Xingjun became more and more inferior, lonely, and introverted, and he closed himself off and did not want to communicate with people, which made him more and more different, and he was often ridiculed by his classmates as a "little dumb".
Wang Xingjun, who has low self-esteem and does not like to talk, usually likes to find an empty place and express his emotions by singing, and he also has a strong interest in art at this time.
Once, when watching the drama "Sail a Thousand Miles", Wang Xingjun was attracted to the actors on the stage, and he was very interested in "actors".
After watching the actors on the stage, Wang Xingjun trotted over to find an old actor and asked: "Grandpa, I also want to act, do you see me ok"?
The old actor looked him up and down, saw that he looked quite energetic, and said to him: "As long as the child is willing to work hard, you will definitely be able to do it."
Wang Xingjun, who was affirmed by the old actor, originally wanted to fight for the acting he loved, but before he could tell his mother about this idea, the family dropped out of school to become a soldier because he could not afford to pay the tuition.
After Wang Xingjun became a soldier, because of his outstanding performance in the regiment, he was transferred to the Propaganda Department, Wang Xingjun thought of becoming a literary and artistic soldier, fortunately he was favored by three literary and artistic regiments, just when he thought he was going further towards his dream, a basin of cold water was directly poured on his head, the original corps was unwilling to let him leave, and his literary and artistic dream was also shattered.
Wang Xingjun's love for acting has not changed, and he has also ushered in a turning point in his life.
In 1980, on the way to the Urumqi Drama Theatre to see a play, Wang Xingjun saw the enrollment brochure of the Shanghai Theater Academy, and Wang Xingjun felt that this might be his last chance, and he decided to fight it once.
When he returned home, he told his mother what he thought, and the mother looked at her son, who had asked for him for the first time, and nodded in agreement, but soon faced a problem, the family did not have the money to send him to Shanghai.
Although the mother took out all the family's savings, she still could not make up enough fare, and in desperation, the mother had to go to relatives and neighbors with a thick skin to borrow money, and finally cobbled together 80 yuan for him.
There is no doubt that Wang Xingjun's professional results passed smoothly, but because he dropped out of school early, his cultural performance was a big difference, fortunately, the situation was special at that time, he was a candidate in Xinjiang, and Wang Xingjun became a student of the acting department of the Shanghai Theater Academy as desired.
During the school period, Wang Xingjun studied hard every day, honed his acting skills, and because of his excellent grades, he would receive a scholarship from the school every year, and when he did not have classes, he would also go outside to work to earn money.
In the four years of college, Wang Xingjun did not ask the family for a penny, and sometimes sent money to the family to reduce the burden on his mother.
In his junior year, Wang Xingjun, because of his outstanding performance in school, was able to play the role of the male protagonist "Ouyang Fu" in the movie "Born on the Sea" under the recommendation of his teacher, and the actress "Li Yan", who played with him, was played by the singer Guan Mucun.
Guan Mucun is 6 years older than Wang Xingjun, and unlike Wang Xingjun, Guan Mucun appeared on the stage of the Tianjin Song and Dance Troupe as early as 1970 and sang many classic songs.
At that time, almost all people heard her singing songs, such as "Playing the Tambourine and Singing", "Turpan Grapes Ripe", "Anchovy Bamboo in the Moonlight", etc. were all from her hands.
Guan Mucun's voice is a very characteristic mezzo-soprano thick and magnetic, and her soulful singing style has also been enthusiastically evaluated and highly praised by the audience.
Anyone who has heard Guan Mucun sing will feel the warmth of her singing, and her song has also made a pair of broken-up lovers open their hearts, fall in love again and get married.
Although Guan Mucun is 6 years older than Wang Xingjun, it does not affect the chat between the two in the slightest, and the first time the two met, they had a feeling of "seeing each other and hating the night", and the two sat together and chatted as soon as they had time on the set.
In the process of constantly getting along, the two found that they had similar experiences in each other's childhoods.
When Guan Mucun was 10 years old, her mother died of illness, and her father and brother were arranged to do farm work in the countryside, leaving her and her brother to live together.
One lost his father at an early age, and the other lost his mother at an early age, which made the two cherish each other more, and the two also encountered sparks of love in slowly getting along.
News of Guan Mucun and Wang Xingjun's presence spread quickly.
One is a well-known singer, and the other is an ordinary student from Xinjiang who has just graduated from a drama academy.
People are very confused, over the years, there have been many people who pursue Guan Mu village, how can they look at him?
At that time, the two loved each other strongly, and Guan Mucun felt that since the two were in love, the opinions of others could not change anything.
She knew that Wang Xingjun's family was more difficult, and she would always stuff 100 yuan into his bag from time to time, and sometimes she would take him in to live at home.
At that time, she felt that Wang Xingjun was a simple and honest poor child, and since she could help him, she would lend a helping hand to help him.
Wang Xingjun was very touched by Guan Mucun's help, and at that moment he vowed that "I will make a lot of money and let us live a better life."
In 1984, the 30-year-old Guan Mucun felt that he was older, and the two entered the palace of marriage hand in hand, and after the two got married, everyone accused Wang Xingjun of "being a soft rice man", "relying on women to ascend to the throne", and "a man with a heart and a mind to become famous through Guan Mucun", and the negative news from the outside world followed.
The newly married two have a good relationship, only each other in their hearts, and they ignore what the outside world says.
But soon Guan Mucun found that Wang Xingjun had changed, he desperately filmed, pulled investment to get ahead, looking at her husband who came out early and returned late every day, tired and haggard, Guan Mucun asked doubtfully: "Why have you become so hard."
At that time, Wang Xingjun was hooking a fire in his heart because he was not famous, listening to his wife's question, the anger in his heart immediately ignited, and he roared angrily: "It is not because of you, when I go out to see me, everyone will only say guan Mucun's husband, I don't have a name, I must be famous, I must let everyone remember me."
At first, Guan Mucun understood Wang Xingjun and expressed great support for his acting, but Wang Xingjun became more and more difficult to satisfy, he not only acted, but also wanted to turn around and invest in movies behind the scenes.
Every day he went out to shoot dramas, find investment, find sponsorship, and pull Guan Mucun around, and Guan Mucun was particularly tired following him during that time.
In 1988, the 35-year-old Guan Mucun was promoted to become a mother and gave birth to a son, nicknamed "Dragon Dragon".
I thought that after giving birth to a child, Wang Xingjun's heart would be more focused on the family, but he became more intense, directly ignoring the family and the child.
As soon as I went out, it was half a year, eight or nine months, because of the long-term separation between the two places, after returning, the husband and wife met like strangers.
This is not the worst result, Wang Xingjun is impatient, sometimes he is angry outside, the psychological imbalance caused by the unsuccessful career, after returning home, he will have a big fight with Guan Mucun, and when the quarrel is serious, Wang Xingjun will directly start to fight Guan Mucun.
At that time, not long after the two sons were born, Guan Mucun thought to himself, "This is already raw rice and cooked to maturity, let's make it happen."
Unexpectedly, the people of Guan Mucun not only did not exchange for Wang Xingjun's change, but also made Wang Xingjun become more intense, and after that, as long as he encountered something unpleasant, Wang Xingjun would hit his wife hard.
In 1990, Guan Mucun, who really couldn't stand it, filed for divorce from Wang Xingjun.
In order to compete for the custody of his son, Guan Mucun chose to leave the house, and his son also changed his surname to "Guan", named Guan Tianyuan,
The marriage lasted only 6 years before ending in divorce.
After the divorce, Wang Xingjun only wanted to get ahead, in the words of Guan Mucun: "He wants to prove himself too much, and he has a mentality of rushing to succeed."
Wang Xingjun has also been working hard for the so-called "fame".
In 1992, after graduating from the Beijing Film Academy's Senior Director's Training Course, he directed the film Amani Shahan and won the Chinese Film Government Award.
After winning the award, Wang Xingjun took advantage of the hot iron to direct the film "Silk Road", which won the American Film Personality Award.
At the same time as winning the award, Wang Xingjun was also admitted to the History Department of Nankai University in Tianjin and received a master's degree in 1995.
Since then, Wang Xingjun has also ushered in the peak of his career, as a director, his works can always touch people's hearts,
In 2005, he directed the film "Liangzhou with a Full Moon", based on the real historical events that took place in Liangzhou in 1247 AD, which became the first Chinese film to premiere at the United Nations Headquarters.
In 2012, as a director and screenwriter, Wang Xingjun created a touching love story that occurred in a Qiang village in Gansu Province under the background of the "5.12" earthquake, and the film "Jiulixiang" finally won the 2012 "Xia Yan Cup" Excellent Script Award.
In addition to his identity as an actor, director and screenwriter, Wang Xingjun also tried to create.
He has published the novel "I Came from the Gobi", the poetry collection "Cloudy Sky and Fog", "The World in the Eyes of a Director--- Wang Xingjun Photography Collection" and other works.
Wang Xingjun was also hired by the American Modern Communication Group Corporation for his outstanding ability as the company's artistic director and director.
Wang Xingjun, who has been winning awards, has finally achieved his goal and become a respected celebrity.
After becoming famous, Wang Xingjun did not forget his son, although Guan Tianyuan did not feel Wang Xingjun's fatherly love since he was a child, but his mother remarried and married Jiang Hong, and Jiang Hong made up for his missing father's love.
Jiang Hong once held an important position, was very attentive to Guan Tianyuan, and taught him to respect his elders, so even though Wang Xingjun did not do much of his father's responsibilities, he still had great respect and courtesy for Wang Xingjun.
Son Guan Tianyuan was influenced by his parents, from childhood in the art is very talented, Wang Xingjun originally wanted to let his son also engage in art work, but the son is not interested in the entertainment industry, after graduating from college, he chose to go to Australia to continue his studies.
After Xuecheng returned to China, he served as the chairman of a tea company in Beijing, and Wang Xingjun chose to respect and support his son's decision.
After the two divorced, Guan Mucun met the person he was right.
In contrast, in his early years, in order to become famous, Wang Xingjun has been working hard for his career after divorce, missing a good opportunity to meet love again, and now Wang Xingjun, who is 63, can not only be an actor, screenwriter, director, but also sink his heart to be an author.
Although he did not have his other half around, he also lived a very happy life.
Looking back at Wang Xingjun's life, the early death of his father forced him to mature and take on the burden of a family, and when he grew up, he became an actor after suffering hardships and met his lover.
After marriage, the huge difference in personality and life goals between the two led to the end of the marriage between the two after only 6 years, and the two after the divorce each lived the life they wanted, and Wang Xingjun also became a celebrity who "got ahead".
The only regret is that he is still alone at the age of 63.
Finally, I hope that he can meet the other half of his life as soon as possible, and the two support each other so that he will not be alone in his old age.