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Speaking of the name Wang Xingjun, many netizens may not be familiar with it. But in fact, in the 80s of the last century, he also participated in many movies, especially Guigen in "The Storm of Moon Bay" and Ouyang Fu in "Bright Moon on the Sea", which have left a deep impression on us.
Moreover, as the ex-husband of the famous singer Guan Mucun, he was also famous.
But now, he is forgotten by more and more people.
According to him, he once loved Guan Mucun deeply. So why did the two end in divorce shortly after they got married? What kind of life did he live after he divorced Guan Mucun, and what is the current situation?
One
In 1983, Wang Xingjun, who was still a junior at the Shanghai Theater Academy, suddenly received an invitation from the crew of the movie "Bright Moon on the Sea". It was a rare opportunity for him. What made him even more excited was that the heroine of the film was Guan Mucun, whom he had admired for a long time.
At that time, Guan Mucun, as a soloist of the Tianjin Song and Dance Troupe, became famous for singing songs such as "Toast Song", "If You Want to Know Me", "Singing with Tambourine", and "Turpan Grapes Ripe", while Wang Xingjun was just an unknown college student in the drama academy.
In July 1959, a boy named Wang Xinjun (later renamed Wang Xingjun) was born in an ordinary family in the Xinjiang Construction Corps. His parents, both from Gansu, came to Xinjiang because of their support. After giving birth to Wang Xinjun, the family added three children in succession, a family of six, relying only on their parents' meager salaries to survive, and they could not make ends meet.
More unfortunately, when Wang Xinjun was 8 years old, his father died of illness again, and his mother never got sick again. The burden of the family all fell on Wang Xinjun's weak shoulders.
Because the family was poor, Wang Xinjun's family was often looked down upon. This makes him, who originally loves to talk and laugh, become silent and taciturn, and his personality has become more sensitive and inferior.
But Wang Xinjun has loved literature and art since he was a child and has shown extraordinary talent. Listening to the loudspeaker playing modern Peking Opera "Red Lantern" and other singing sections, he usually listened to it a few times to learn, and sang it in a similar way. Therefore, he became a member of the school's literary and art propaganda team, often taking the stage to play li yuhe, Yang Zirong and other roles.
It was his most glorious moment.
At the age of 17, Wang Xinjun had grown tall and strong. At this time, his dream was to be admitted to a professional college or a professional art college for further study. However, because the family burden was too heavy, he had to interrupt his high school studies, enter the construction corps early, and became a member of the regimental propaganda team.
One day in 1980, he stumbled upon the news of the shanghai theater academy's enrollment in the newspaper. This made him overjoyed. However, the family's predicament made him retreat. It was his mother who gave him the strongest support. The mother borrowed dozens of yuan from others and sent Wang Xinjun to the train to Shanghai overnight.
Wang Xinjun's professional examination went very smoothly, passing one test, two attempts and three tests, but when he reached the level of the cultural examination, he was completely embarrassed. Because he hadn't even finished high school, he didn't know how to answer many of the questions on the exam paper. Fortunately, in line with the principle of not giving up any good seedling, or in the case of his cultural examination failing to meet the standards, he was admitted out of the box, making him and Ding Jiali, Liu Wei and other classmates.
Wang Xinjun naturally knew that his opportunity to go to college was not easy to come by, so he also worked extra hard during his studies in drama. During his four years at the university, he received first-class scholarships every year. This not only eased the financial burden on his family, but also made him more motivated to learn.
The teachers at the school are also very kind to him, but whenever there is an opportunity to go out to shoot, they will always give priority to him. The opportunity to play Ouyang Fu in the movie "Bright Moon on the Sea" was won for him by his teacher Jin Yonglin.
After entering the crew of "Bright Moon born on the sea", he changed his name to Wang Xingjun at the suggestion of composer Shi Guangnan.
Before the crew of "Bright Moon on the Sea" met Guan Mucun, Wang Xingjun really liked to listen to the songs she sang. Especially the song "The Grapes of Turpan Are Ripe", whenever the song "Kerim joined the army to go to the border post, planted a grape when he left..." sounded, it always reminded him of the grass and trees in Xinjiang, which made him feel very kind.
After meeting Guan Mucun, he found that this long-established singer was so approachable. Because of their similar ages, the two quickly became friends and talked about everything. When it comes to each other's growth experience, the two have a sense of "pity for the same disease". Because Guan Mucun is also a bitter child.
Wang Xingjun lost his father at the age of 8, while Guan Mucun lost his mother at the age of 10. On the road to growth, I also suffered from white eyes and cold treatment. The same fate made them quickly find the feeling of "acquaintance", and the two soon fell in love.
Although both had unhappy childhoods. But Guan Mucun's performance was very different from Wang Xingjun's. She has always been positive and optimistic, with a very sunny attitude, bravely facing the current predicament, and through her down-to-earth efforts, to change the injustice of fate step by step.
However, Wang Xingjun has always been unable to get rid of the shadow of the past, and always habitually complains about the world. He is more eager to "turn over" than Guan Mucun and is eager to achieve success. Because he feels that only by becoming famous and starting a family can he prove his value to the greatest extent and make people who looked down on him feel ashamed in the past.
The difference in personality and the discord between the three views actually lay a huge hidden danger for them to get along in the future.
Two
In the process of Wang Xingjun's interaction with Guan Mucun, he actually has always had a lot of pressure. Because Guan Mucun is such a dazzling star after all, and he has been unknown for a long time. The gap between the two is very obvious. And the outside world, there is also a huge criticism of their interactions. Many people think that Wang Xingjun is "climbing high branches" and "holding thighs". This is undoubtedly the biggest harm for a man with strong self-esteem.
In fact, in a romantic relationship, if the status of the two parties is not equal, it is indeed easy to have problems. But if the heart is strong and confident enough to face it with a calm mind, then all this is not too much of a problem.
But Wang Xingjun was obviously very concerned about the gap between the two.
In 1984, Wang Xingjun became famous for starring in Guigen in the movie "The Storm of Moon Bay" shot by Shanghai Film Studio. This year he also graduated from the Shanghai Theater Academy. Originally, according to the principle of distribution of where to go back and forth, he should return to Xinjiang. But in order to be with Guan Mucun, he only stayed in Xinjiang for a month, then came to Tianjin, where Guan Mucun is located, and entered Tianjin Television Station to be responsible for the production of TV dramas.
In August of that year, Guan Mucun was invited to perform as a soloist of the song "Mother Is Leaving" in the large-scale musical and dance epic "Song of the Chinese Revolution". This is a large-scale literary and art evening grandly launched to celebrate the 35th anniversary of the founding of the People's Republic of China, and it is another large-scale musical and dance epic after "Dongfang Hong". Numerous influential heavyweight artists have appeared on the show. Under the recommendation of Guan Mucun, Wang Xingjun also joined the crew of this star-studded group and took on the heavy responsibility of recitation.
Being able to perform on the same stage with so many artists is a rare opportunity for Wang Xingjun to learn and show himself.
On October 1 of this year, National Day, the two held a wedding in Beijing. That year, Wang Xingjun was 25 years old and Guan Mucun was 31 years old. That should be the best time for Wang Xingjun and Guan Mucun to be together. They go hand in hand in their careers and are loving in life.
At this time, Wang Xingjun received many invitations from film and television crews, and Guan Mucun also entered the Vocal Music Department of the Central Conservatory of Music, studying under professor Shen Xiang, a vocal educator. Soon after the two people got married, they had to undergo the test of "gathering less and leaving more". Sometimes they only see each other a few times a year, and the time they spend together, adding up, doesn't add up to more than a month.
In 1988, Guan Mucun encountered two happy events. One is that she was awarded the title of a national first-class actor, and the other is that she and Wang Xingjun's son Guan Tianyuan (nicknamed Long Long) were born.
The arrival of a child, I think, is a joy for any family, right? However, Wang Xingjun did not seem to be happy at all. Because he felt that the gap between himself and Guan Mucun was getting bigger and bigger. Watching Seki Makimura continue to make progress, his dream of becoming a director has always been difficult to achieve. This made him even more upset.
And after becoming a father, he felt that the burden on his body was heavier. This is undoubtedly a huge test for men who have not yet made much progress in their careers. The stress of life and the hardships of raising children often make him confused.
Wang Xingjun's external image has the roughness and boldness characteristic of northwestern men, but his heart is extremely sensitive and he is easy to be impatient when things happen. He is very eager to succeed, and this definition of "success" is "fame and family". To this end, he often said to Guan Mucun, If I had such influence as you, I would have developed abroad a long time ago.
However, Guan Mucun only wants to sing good songs, and if there is a harmonious and happy family as his safe haven, it will be even more satisfied.
Differences in personality, discord between the three views, and differences in lifestyles soon put their marriages in a precarious state. The quarrels between the two became more frequent. However, the most unacceptable thing is that Wang Xingjun would even start beating people. Once, in order to organize an exhibition, he asked Guan Mucun for money, but Guan Mucun could not get it, so he committed domestic violence against Guan Mucun.
A big man hitting a woman is really not a "hero and a good man". Besides, what's wrong with Guan Mucun? She, like all women in the world, longs for a considerate husband, a family with a sense of security, and a career that she loves.
But Wang Xingjun is different, his life seems to have only one thing, that is, to prove his "talent" and difference.
Such a marriage obviously cannot be continued. In 1990, the two went through divorce procedures. Guan Mucun came to Beijing with his children and left the property in Tianjin to Wang Xingjun. At this point, their marriage lasted only 6 years, and it was declared over.
In fact, for such a result, Wang Xingjun is very painful. Because he once loved Guan Mucun deeply. And how good Guan Mucun was to him at that time. When he was in college, he didn't have money to return to Xinjiang during the winter vacation, and it was Guan Mucun who sent him travel expenses to Tianjin for the New Year. When he graduated from college, Guan Mucun gave him 100 yuan and asked him to take it back to his mother to express his respect and heart for the elderly.
Moreover, in his career, Guan Mucun had also given him too much help. Piece by piece, whenever he thought about it, it would make him burst into tears.
However, the feelings that have passed are difficult to harvest. No matter how much nostalgia there is in my heart, it is difficult to save a woman whose heart has been broken.
Three
After divorcing Wang Xingjun, Guan Mucun achieved greater success in his career. She not only starred in the opera "Qu Yuan" at the Central Opera House, but also became a regular guest at large-scale evenings such as the CCTV Spring Festival Gala. Her new songs "Arm in Arm", "Past Feelings", "Beautiful Sunflower", etc., have also been loved by the majority of fans.
After being sad for a while, Wang Xingjun also put all his thoughts into the development of his career. He first entered the directing department of the Beijing Film Academy, and then went to the history department of Nankai University for further study. In 1993, he put "Amani Sahan" adapted from the Xinjiang Twelve Muqam Suite on the screen, with a strong Xinjiang style and a romantic and aesthetic style, allowing the audience to witness his level of directing.
Subsequently, he directed "Zhang Qian", "Silk Road", "Liangzhou of the Full Moon", "Three Six Alleys" and other films, although the response in the market is not great, but his level of directing is constantly improving, but also won countless awards at home and abroad. Among them, "Amani Sha Khan" won the Chinese Film Government Award, "Silk Road" won the American Film Personality Award, and "Liangzhou with a Full Moon" became the first Chinese film to premiere at the United Nations Headquarters.
Wang Xingjun also finally realized his wish for many years, that is, to go abroad for development. He was selected by an American performing arts group company to become its artistic director and director. At the same time, he also co-founded a film and television company in Sanya. And in 2017, he made the movie "Song of New Youth" in Hainan. The film later won the honor of Best Foreign Language Film at the Russian International Film Festival.
Since then, Wang Xingjun has spent more time creating in the beautiful scenery of Hainan, and has successively made movies such as "Wolf Love" and "Love Her to Take Her to Sanya".
He has not remarried in all these years, but he has a new life of his own. After leaving Wang Xingjun, Guan Mucun met jiang hong, a mild-mannered doctor of economics in the 1990s, and in 1998, he took his son Long Long and Jiang Hong to form a new family. After marriage, Jiang Hong was very gentle and considerate to Guan Mucun. Not only did he take good care of Guan Mucun and Longlong in his life, but he also gave Hime Makimura the greatest support in his career. He has always been calm and introverted, and he often appears in some entertainment programs with his wife.
After going through hardships, Seki Makimura finally found her own "true destiny" and a happy destination, which is a blessing for fans who love her.
And Wang Xingjun, who was once young and crazy, has also become more and more mature. Not only is he more at ease in his artistic creation, but his personality is no longer as paranoid and impatient as he was then. Talking about the marriage with Guan Mucun, he was full of emotions, and what was more in his heart was that he was full of gratitude to Guan Mucun. After all, in his most difficult and helpless time, it was Guan Mucun who gave him the most support and warmth.
Today, Wang Xingjun is 63 years old and is still tirelessly pursuing on the road of film and television creation. And the 69-year-old Guan Mucun is still singing, and his voice is still so thick and full of affection. Their son, Guan Tianyuan, has also grown up, and after returning from his studies at the Royal Melbourne Institute of Technology in Australia, he founded a tea company in Beijing and served as chairman.
In the process of growing up, we will always pay a lot of price, in order to slowly learn to cherish and tolerate, will harvest real confidence and strength. Wang Xingjun is undoubtedly like this. After experiencing too many painful struggles and vicissitudes, he finally found his own life position. I hope that he can make more and better film and television works, and at the same time, he can find a stable home for his heart.
In 2012, when I was a host, I interviewed Mr. Seki Makimura. She has also recorded a congratulatory video for my show. This is an approachable artist who embodies everyone's demeanor. I like every song she sings, not only because of her unique thick and round voice, but also because from her songs, we can feel her sincere emotions, and love and vision for life. So I sincerely hope that she will always be happy and always young.
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