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The most important thing in life is to find your own rhythm.
When I was a child, I learned the text of "tortoise and rabbit race", in the story, the slow turtle defeated the fast rabbit, the reason is very simple, the turtle follows its own rhythm, all the way forward; the rabbit's rhythm is disturbed by "snooze",
This story tells people that finding their own rhythm is far more important than simply being fast.
On the road of growth in life, some people are young and old, and some people are late. But no matter which one it is, it is constantly groping, finding a path that suits you, and a rhythm that you can control.
Therefore, the really powerful people are all people who are loyal to their own rhythm, no matter how noisy and noisy the outside world is, they can follow the blueprint in their hearts, solid and determined.
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Really powerful people can grasp the rhythm of "reading".
Reading changes destiny. Although reading is no longer the only way out, it is undeniable that reading is the most convenient way to succeed compared to other ways out.
Dong Zhongshu, a great Confucian of the Western Han Dynasty, loved to read since childhood. The garden was built in the home, before and after three years: the first year, asking someone to design, the second year busy with construction, the third year after the completion of the first visit to the park, no matter how lively the process, how attractive the building, but Dong Zhongshu was not moved, he insisted on reading by himself, never stepped into the park half a step.
Dong Zhongshu "three do not peep into the garden", cherish time, read poetry and books, and finally became a generation of Confucians. Later, he devoted himself to the inheritance of Confucianism, he set up an altar professor, preached under the curtain, and devoted himself to teaching and research, which not only won his reputation and status, but also cultivated many talents for the Han Dynasty.
Dong Zhongshu's life can be described as a model of "learning and excellence".
In the present, reading more and obtaining high education is a stepping stone for job hunting; insisting on learning and living to learn is the only way to broaden horizons, cultivate patterns, and improve the realm.
Especially as we grow older, we become more aware of the subtlety of human nature and the complexity of interpersonal relationships, and we need to get tranquility and emotional resonance from books, so as to release repressed emotions, strengthen our principles for dealing with the world, and gain the strength to move forward.
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The really powerful one can grasp the rhythm of "work".
In the workplace, like a hundred boats competing for the current, a thousand sails competing, everyone is desperately showing their talents, and strive to "ride the dust" and become the leader of everyone's attention.
To this end, many people go with the flow, constantly challenging the bottom line of the "rules of the game", always eager to find shortcuts, or play some "edge ball", so that they can quickly attract attention and get attention.
Around us, there is no shortage of such "quick success" people. Their enthusiasm for work is not to delve into business, but more to praise and greet the leader, and to make every effort to expand the "network of contacts" that can be used for themselves.
This kind of person, once "following the right person", can quickly get promoted. But their sorrow is also obvious, once their boss "loses power", they will also be snubbed, and even "banned".
On the contrary, really powerful people can always grasp the rhythm of work by themselves.
Of course, they will not categorically reject the requirements of the system and the arrangements and instructions of the leaders, but they will analyze them and insist on doing the right thing.
They can endure loneliness, they can keep poverty, and they have cultivated professional standards for decades, so that they have become experts in a certain field and have a reputation.
Therefore, do not underestimate the people around us who do the work "very set", every time they are more real and meticulous, they are polishing themselves, and finally become the shining "big coffee".
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Really powerful people can grasp the rhythm of "life".
How are you going to spend this life?
Perhaps, many people simply do not have the courage to face this topic. Because, dreams are beautiful, reality is cruel. If you want to make your dreams come true, you need a lot of money, enough knowledge, and the courage and perseverance to persevere.
Netizen "50-year-old aunt self-driving tour", now a blogger with millions of fans, she spent all her savings at the age of 56, began a one-person self-driving trip.
In the eyes of outsiders, this is an incredible "running away from home", but she knows that this is the best explanation for the rest of her life.
She had a bland marriage, but spent most of her life living for others. Finally, when her two young grandchildren were in kindergarten and their worldly responsibilities and obligations had been fulfilled, she decided to live for herself once.
In the midst of everyone's questioning, ridicule, and even blows, she was nervous but determined to set out.
Walking south and north, through winter and summer, her living space has changed from a small building with a tight hand, to "the sky is high for birds to fly, and the sea is wide with fish leaping". In the former geography textbook, she measured the mountains and rivers one by one with her footsteps, and the beautiful scenery on those star films was frozen with her glasses and heart.
Over the past few years, she not only saw the scenery of the north and south of the river, but also lived the life of her dreams as she wished, making money while walking and watching, not only buying herself a caravan, but also having a large number of fans and meeting different friends.
Self-confidence and pride replace the sad face of the past, and joy and joy replace the previous gains and losses.
When a person really begins to grasp the rhythm of life, those seemingly out-of-reach dreams will become reality little by little, and they will become a "new life" that they can control.
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Conclusion:
One outdoor sports brand advertising slogan reads: "Let's go now."
Yes, on the journey of life, chasing the scenery you want and living the life you want is like looking for an ideal lover, you need to constantly make yourself more excellent in order to keep getting closer.
So, insist on finding the right rhythm for yourself, stick to it, and you will definitely get what you want.
Author: Like the wind is light as a cloud.
Your happiness, my blessings.
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