There is an old saying: "Hold the hand of the son, and grow old with the son." But as the saying goes, "Husband and wife are originally birds of the same forest, and they fly separately when great trouble comes." "For marriage and love, standing on different aspects, there are different interpretations. When everyone faces love and marriage, they don't see the old sayings, but how they think and do in their hearts. If, when you first got married, your significant other half was paralyzed in bed for the rest of your life because of a car accident, would you choose to "fly separately" or "grow old with your children"? The host Bai Yansheng told everyone about his choice with actions.
Bai Yansheng was born in a small village in Hebei, and his family was not rich, but Bai Yansheng had a good academic performance and liked opera very much. When he was admitted to the university, he thought about applying for the relevant moral art school, but his parents did not agree, there was no way, he had to take the examination for an ordinary university Hebei University, to study broadcast hosting. After graduation, Bai Yansheng was assigned to Hebei Television Station, where he hosted news, economy, people's livelihood, and various types of programs. Because of his outstanding performance, he was transferred to Beijing after 3 years and became a member of CCTV.
Just arrived at CCTV, Bai Yansheng has also hosted various types of programs, because of his experience in working in local stations, Bai Yansheng's work in CCTV is also very handy, but his heart has never let go of his opera dreams. In 1996, when he finally had the opportunity to realize his dream, he began to host opera programs on the Variety Channel. Because of years of love, Bai Yansheng hosted such a program is simply like a fish. When his career was progressing, Bai Yansheng's love also blossomed. Because of his handsome appearance, Bai Yansheng is very popular in the marriage market, and people around him are willing to introduce him to the object. Under the introduction of acquaintances, Bai Yansheng met his later wife Zhou Jia.
Zhou Jia is an accountant in the General Logistics Department of the People's Liberation Army, and originally had no intersection with Bai Yansheng's life, but fate made them acquainted. When the two were on a blind date, the two people had a good impression of each other and continued to get along. After spending more than 2 years together, he naturally entered the palace of marriage. Newly married Yan'er, the life of the two is honey oil every day, very enviable, but just 9 months after marriage, his wife Zhou Jia had an accident.
Once, Zhou Jia took a taxi out, when she got off, her skirt was clipped by the door, the driver did not see the direct start of the car, Zhou Jia fell to the ground, and she could not move at that time. When I arrived at the hospital, the doctor said that it was a femoral neck fracture, and there was a great risk of paralysis. After Zhou Jia knew this news, her heart was very painful, but the first thing she thought of was not to drag Bai Yansheng down. After the operation, she opened her eyes and saw Bai Yansheng, and the first thing she said was "It bothers you." Bai Yansheng looked at his haggard wife but thought of himself for the first time, and his heart was painful and self-blamed, and he vowed to take good care of her in the future.
Unexpectedly, Zhou Jia made a divorce request to Bai Yansheng a few days later, and she felt that if she was paralyzed, it would definitely affect Bai Yansheng's life, and now that the two have just married, there is still a chance to start over. However, Bai Yansheng refused Zhou Jia's request without even thinking about it, saying that he would definitely not abandon her, let her recuperate with peace of mind, and would definitely stand up. Zhou Jia silently shed tears, but could not refuse her husband's kindness. In the following years, Bai Yansheng took care of his wife in front of the hospital bed in addition to going to work, often running to his wife after work, and sometimes even had time to remove his makeup. These days passed for many years, but he never told anyone at work again, nor did he make a mistake because of it.
However, because of his wife's reasons, the development of Bai Yansheng's career has slowed down significantly. In those years, Bai Yansheng did not have any other development except to do his own job. But "the blessing is incomparable to the disaster is not alone", Zhou Jia because of the injury, the doctor said that within five years the two people must not have children, after five years, there is a high probability that there will be no children.
Later, although Zhou Jia's body slowly improved, this matter was pressed on her heart like a huge mountain, and she and Bai Yansheng had never longed to have their own children as much as during that time. Bai Yansheng considered Zhou Jia's body for the first time and said that he did not want children. But Zhou Jia did not want to give up, she secretly went to the doctor from Bai Yansheng to see if there was a way for them to have a child.
With the help of doctors, Zhou Jia finally became pregnant, and Bai Yansheng finally had her first child when she was 37 years old. It may be that his daughter gave Bai Yansheng strength, and his career has also developed greatly, releasing opera albums, hosting various evenings, and really devoting all his energy to his favorite opera career. After 7 years, Zhou Jia gave birth to a son for Bai Yansheng, and they finally realized the dream of having both children and daughters. Because people have children until middle age, Bai Yansheng is very fond of children, especially the eldest daughter, Bai Yansheng has become a completely loving father, and all the requirements for her daughter will be satisfied. When his wife was pregnant with her second child, her daughter had always been afraid that her love would be taken away by her brother, and Bai Yansheng was even better to her daughter, making her understand that he would always love her.
For his wife Zhou Jia, Bai Yansheng has always cherished and even admired, he understands that in order to have two children, she has suffered a lot, so she did not ignore her wife when she loved her daughter. Although taking care of his wife at the bedside was many years ago, he still knew his wife's preferences as before in his free time and took care of her according to her preferences.
Today, Bai Yansheng has resigned from CCTV and is more than half a hundred years old, but his career development is not bad, and he still has a happy family. But now his life is very happy, but the disaster at the beginning of the marriage is still a knot in his heart, if he did not stick to his ideas at that time, he may not have the good life he has now, so he cherishes the present. Thanks for watching, following me, and taking you to learn more about the entertainment story.