Since our inception, we have been constantly exploring the world, and the feeling of exploring the world for the first time often leaves a deep impression on us.
As life passes, we will have more and more first times, such as the first time to learn the language, the first time to leave home, and the first time to start our own family.
In most cases, the first experience of men and women is similar, but due to the limitations of physiological structure and secular culture, girls will have a more special first time, which is often referred to as the virgin complex.
Most women will never forget their first experience, and some will still remember it until they are old.
In fact, most people are quite traditional, when talking about the topic of sex, people can not avoid it, even in the modern society where spiritual civilization is developed, sex-related prejudices have not disappeared.
However, most of the stigmatized topics such as the virgin complex are handed down from the patriarchal society, and the oppression and discrimination against women are handed down.
This social dogmatic oppression makes women value their first time more, and they will also show more consideration for their first time.
Even in ancient times, people would set up chastity arches for women, claiming that starvation was a small and big thing, and even if women's husbands died unexpectedly, they were not allowed to find another way to pursue love.
If a woman loses her virginity, she will not only be hurt in her heart, but also laughed at by the same sex and family around her. It can be said that women at that time had no human rights at all, and they were more like a commodity or an accessory to their husband's family. Therefore, they will also attach great importance to their first time, after all, this will affect their future fate in the second half of their lives.
Even as we enter the new century, society's oppression of women has not disappeared.
It's just that people choose to suppress it in a more civilized way, such as the male virgin complex, which will make many women unconsciously become weak and bound by this worldly concept.
Many women believe that if they do not have the ability to see people and cannot successfully meet a good person in the first time, then after losing their virginity, they are a person who is not worthy of being loved. But society does not have this oppression of men, which makes many men very casual about their sexual experiences.
Many women have become particularly panicked after losing their lives, and even began to deny themselves, it seems that as long as they lose this experience, the value of life will disappear.
People are always impressed by something they're thinking about, so women will also remember their first time for life.
For women, the first time is a major turning point in life. When a woman surrenders her first self, she goes from a girl to a woman. It also means that she needs to become more mature and face some people or things with a different mindset.
Psychology believes that whether the first experience is smooth or not will also affect women's future mentality. If their first experience is quite happy and they meet the best people in their lives, then they will experience a sweet and irreplaceable experience. Even if they look back on this experience in the future, they can still feel positive emotions.
But not all women are so lucky, and some women think they've met the right guy, but they'll only end up being passers-by in each other's lives.
At this time, women often have two different thinking patterns, some people are more open-minded, as long as they have loved at that time, they will not regret their decisions.
Other women are paranoid, oppressed by the social order, and do not approve of this imperfect love. In their opinion, the first time should be given to the person with whom they spend the rest of their lives, otherwise their love is not perfect. Separating from lovers who have had their first sexual life will make them feel a violent blow to reality.
This will cause some people to disillusion the three views, and henceforth fall into a great self-denial, and this experience will become a past that they are reluctant to mention.
Some of them may have to spend a long time accepting this imperfect world and gradually accepting this body that is not clean in their own impression.
Whatever women think is related to their own personality and education, but after experiencing certain things, their thoughts and behaviors may also change dramatically.
Human growth is often accompanied by some bad experiences.
These experiences are impressive, and what we can do is learn from our failures, accept the baptism of thought, and make ourselves more open-minded.
For most women, the first time is a lifetime of unforgettable. It's not just because it takes a lot of courage to make this decision, but it's also an important turning point in their lives. But either way, we shouldn't associate a person's cleanliness with her first time.
The first experience is important for women, but self-love and self-esteem are equally worthy of our attention. Cleanliness refers not only to physical purity, but more to spiritual purity.
Obviously, this is not to be able to make decisions based on one organ, but to feel a spiritual quality in long-term interactions.
Satisfying nature is human instinct, and women do not need to overly suppress their own nature. We should accept and affirm those qualities that are true.