Statistics show that about 50% of mothers will choose to breastfeed.
After having children, many parents lament that children who wear diapers are the most difficult to get. Especially for a baby who is still nursing, he can't speak, he can't understand complex words, and it is very difficult to communicate.
As breastfeeding is re-emphasized, new parents are also more concerned about the details of breastfeeding and giving their babies the safest "rations".
There are many private messages from mothers about breastfeeding, which is mentioned more frequently, that is, when the baby eats breast milk, why do you always push the mother?
The baby is so hungry that he cries, but he always pushes his mother when he feeds
When the girlfriend was pregnant, she planned to breastfeed, and the amount of breast milk after giving birth to the baby was really powerful, and the sugar mother was also happy for her. However, her breastfeeding days were not very smooth, and it always felt as if the baby hated her.
The baby in the first month of breastfeeding performed well, sleeping tomorrow when he was full, and the girlfriend was still in the refrigerator, freezing a lot of breast milk stocks.
Maybe when the baby is two or three months old, breast milk becomes difficult. Babies can sometimes be so hungry that they cry. But after holding the girlfriend's baby in his arms and eating breast milk, the baby always pushes the girlfriend with his hand.
The girlfriend thinks that the baby is full of food and drink, so she tries to end breastfeeding and put the baby down. But after the baby leaves the arms of his girlfriend, he will continue to cry and ask for milk.
The number of repetitions is more, and the girlfriend is anxious and angry. Complained to me: "This child is getting worse and worse, obviously hungry, but it is not good to eat milk."
This picture is very familiar to Sugar Mom, and the little candy was also pushing me while eating breast milk. At first I thought he was full, but slowly I discovered the little secret.
Pushing away the mother when the baby is breastfeeding is not necessarily playing a small temper
The novice mother should first understand two different situations, one is that the baby temporarily pushes the mother away, but he still needs breast milk, and the other situation is that the baby really wants to push the mother away.
One of the most obvious manifestations of judging the two situations is whether the baby opens his mouth when pushing the mother.
If the baby pushes the mother but does not want to let go, do not rush to put it down. Instead, look for the reasons for this to make your baby feed more at ease.
If the baby pushes the mother, he will no longer eat milk, or even turn his head and put him down, he will not cry. This is the signal that the baby is finished feeding and no longer needs the mother.
Because small babies can't speak, many needs are expressed through body language, and it is indeed difficult for parents to distinguish.
Why would a hungry baby push away its mother while eating breast milk? There are several main reasons.
The baby pushes the mother away while feeding, and these reasons are seated
Sugar Mom has two babies, and many small babies have been in contact with in the group. Combined with their own experience and many typical cases, the following reasons are summarized for new parents.
Moms have too much or too little breast milk
Babies like a smooth feeding process, but because of their limited ability to swallow, they cannot accept excessive flow of breast milk.
There is a situation that the mother's breast milk is somewhat flushed, such as "come to the milk array", the baby can not swallow for a while, will subconsciously push the mother away, and even briefly open the mouth. But soon he would start sucking again.
Another situation is that the mother's breast milk is relatively small, and the baby has sucked many times but cannot suck the breast milk. If you feel that there is too little breast milk, you will stimulate more breast milk production by pushing the mother and pulling RT.
The baby doesn't feel well
The little baby is very sensitive, and when the mother holds her in an uncomfortable position, or feels too close to the mother, it will also adjust her feelings by pushing the mother.
Sugar Mom was thinner when she gave birth to a little candy, when the baby would not only push me, but also arch around, and when I was upset, my mother-in-law found the reason.
My mother-in-law looked at my arm and asked me to try to put a towel on my arm. I suspected it was because I was a little skinny and had a baby. Sure enough, after the towel is cushioned, the little candy does not arch.
Another situation may be the mother's body, blocking part of the baby's mouth and nose, when the baby is not breathing well, it will push the mother away, which is subconscious self-protection.
After finding the reason why the baby pushed the mother away, we will use the corresponding solution to make the process of the baby eating breast milk more smoothly.
The baby is obviously hungry but very resistant to feeding? Parents try to do this
Under normal circumstances, the baby can eat breast milk for about 15 minutes to eat, in order to make the process more efficient, pay attention to the next few things.
Remove the factors that make the baby feel uncomfortable: the nursing mother should try not to spray perfume, and the laundry detergent taken by the laundry should not be too scented.
The baby is more sensitive than the baby's nose, and some of the scents are very pungent to him, causing him to push his mother away from the smell.
In addition to the taste, it is also necessary to ensure that the clothes worn when breastfeeding are soft and do not have too much decoration, so that it is more comfortable to stick to the baby's skin.
Manual control of breast milk flow: Too much breast milk, too much rush, is a burden for the baby. When the mother's chest is higher than the top of the "milk array", there will be a tingling sensation, and it is obvious that breast milk is passing rapidly.
At this time, you can gently pinch the RY area with your hand, so that the breast milk will not squirt out, will not choke the baby, and let him swallow more steadily.
Accept the baby's bad emotions: The baby also has his own emotions, and when he does not sleep well, or feels uncomfortable, he will also express dissatisfaction by pushing the mother.
After the above factors are excluded, the baby is still pushing the mother, and it is necessary to try to soothe the baby's emotions. Pulling your baby's little hands, or stroking your baby's back, so that your baby can feel safe and secure, you won't make a fuss.
Candy Mother's Heart:
The breastfeeding process is not simple, and each baby will have its own different performance. After finding the reason for the baby to push the mother in general, the novice parents should also observe the personality and preferences of their own babies, and slowly they can find out the reason why he pushes the mother.
【Today's topic】Will everyone's baby push their mother when eating breast milk? Feel free to share your experience in the comments.