In the movie "Hal's Moving Castle", there is such a sentence: "Love, not to find a perfect person, but to learn to appreciate the imperfect person with perfect eyes." ”
Everyone spares no effort in the pursuit of love, and everyone wants to harvest the love of one of the thousands.
However, before harvesting love, you must understand love.
Deeply appreciate the true meaning of love, in order to take care of this hard-won relationship.
Not all relationships require close bonding, and not all people like to stick together.
The two people have already exchanged their hearts, and the superfluous feelings do not have to be expressed.
If you are willing to accompany the other party, the other party will not live up to your deep affection.
You can use your own strength to promote the other party's career, and the other party is willing to become your life assistant for a lifetime.
Don't care too much, don't flood with love, maintain a normal way of getting along, and the feelings of two people will not deteriorate.
The best way to miss someone is not to make frequent contact, but these.
Maintain an inclusive mindset and be kind to each other is also to be kind to yourself
The writer Canoe said: "Love may not die because of lack of response, but it will certainly be exhausted by repeated disappointment." ”
If you always force the other person to do something you don't like, the other person will fall into endless disappointment.
If you don't know how to think from each other's point of view, this overly intimate way of getting along will only put two people at an impasse.
Don't worry about it in your relationship, not everyone can reach the exact same situation.
A little more tolerance and understanding will make people get along more harmoniously.
Maybe you want to enter the other person's heart through close contact, but the other party does not necessarily like this intimate interaction.
To be a person, we must know how to think in a different position and understand each other in order to reduce contradictions.
The two people maintain just the right distance, and each person has to keep a certain amount of independent space.
Go to each other when you are busy, and rest well when you are free.
Two people don't have to stick together all the time, and frequent contact will only exacerbate the conflict.
Once the freshness between two people is lost, this feeling will gradually deteriorate.
Not everyone can figure out what you're thinking, and you can't try to change other people.
As long as the other person can be as good as you can, you should not ask too much.
Everything is as good as it can be stopped, and more is better than less.
Only by being a person with a general understanding can we maintain family harmony.
Leave room for each other to rest, and everyone should have reservations.
If the other party does not want to talk, you should not force others to be difficult.
When the other party is ready to perfect, he will definitely take the initiative to tell you.
There is no need to meet every day, two people in love have already done what they know.
Keep proving yourself, and do your best to return with a full load
I like a quote from the writer Keigo Higashino: "The best preservation in the world is continuous improvement." ”
If you want to get a high-quality relationship, you must first mold yourself into a high-quality lover.
Only when your ability continues to improve can you grasp the initiative of love.
If you want to be the leader of love, you must make yourself worthy.
As long as you have the ability to support the development of feelings, you can occupy a place in life.
Constantly improving your ability is the best strategy for maintaining feelings.
The most feared thing in the feelings is to shout and scream, and to convince people can conquer the whole field.
You have the ability, the other party is naturally satisfied.
If you have capital, you don't have to look at other people's faces to live.
You can never put your hopes in other people, and not all of them can willingly raise you for a lifetime.
Don't try to get a sense of security from other people, rely on yourself to be invincible.
Maybe you haven't achieved what you deserve now, but you can't give up easily.
Constantly improve their own value charm, in order to bloom unparalleled brilliance.
Every step you take on your own is very confident, and every penny you earn on your own is valuable.
Even if life is not satisfactory, it cannot be lived and lived.
Superficial grandeur is meaningless, and you can climb the peak on the ground.
Focus your time on yourself and spend more time improving yourself.
When you have developed the ability to be on your own, you will not be afraid of the darkness in front of you.
The so-called glamorous beauty is just a passing cloud, and it is necessary to go to the end by playing steadily.
Do not leave and do not give up only for the white head to grow old, two people who are in love with each other
Writer Lu Sihao once said: "Sometimes I really feel that it is more difficult to meet someone who is in tune with you than to meet someone who moves you, so I really appreciate companionship." In this fast-paced era of everything, the companionship and affection of day after day and year after year are the most precious. ”
The person who can go to the end with you may not be the person who loves you to the bone, but he must be the most suitable person.
Affection is not as good as long-term companionship, companionship is the longest confession of affection.
Two people have already reached a state of pity for each other, and you don't have to suffer in this relationship.
Excessive suspicion will only ruin this hard-won relationship, and you must know how to restrain yourself.
Two people should take care of their own affairs first, so that they will not be confused in the days to come.
Both people have clearly defined their respective directions, and all contradictions can be solved.
The love of a lifetime is as deep as the sea is better than the enthusiasm of the day and night, and the love of a person must put this friendship in the heart.
If you've been prepared for a lifetime, you don't have to worry about it.
Bit by bit of the heart has long been integrated into every day of life, the other party will be able to feel your true feelings.
With time, it will be proved that the two people will not abandon each other.
There is no need to stay together all the time, two people with hearts and minds will definitely be able to support each other and go on.
Calm your mind so that you don't create too much pressure in your relationship.
A little more firmness and trust, the other party will definitely accompany you to go on without hesitation.
The writer Haruki Murakami once said: "What many people in the world need is not practical advice, but warm echoes." ”
In this world, understanding is often more important than deep love.
You can understand the other person's joys and sorrows, and the other party is willing to consider it for you.
You can understand the other party's difficulties, and the other party will take the initiative to solve your problems.
Two people help each other, and the future of two people is worth looking forward to.
The Sea Oath Mountain Alliance is not enough to accompany each other day and night, and loving a person cannot be said by words alone.
Actions are often more important than words, and you have to provide a high-quality life partner for the other person.
Only when you know how to love yourself can you love others in a better way.
Handle your own affairs properly first, so as not to create unwarranted contradictions.
Learn to live independently before you can cope with the future in a posture that is not alarmed.
Only by maintaining a state of composure and self-control can we master the tricks of love.