Here you will see that your personality is quite characteristic, in each stage of the relationship you will have different experiences and requirements, not that you are fickle or undecided, you are a very spiritual state, will be more self-sufficient, but also have their own insurmountable bottom line. Others don't need to make decisions for you, and of course you don't just speak with a conscience just because you're pleasing anyone. This is doomed to be in a state where you are basically not carried away in love, will not blindly listen to each other, or will retain your own world. Your ideas are also more unique, sometimes in the eyes of the other party may be a kind of rebellion, feel that you are deliberately opposed, so the other party will sometimes think that you are quite difficult to deal with.
I suggest that friends do not hide their thoughts when facing problems, I feel that you will still have some restraint, that is, some inner things you will not easily expose, maybe you are worried that saying it and the other party will be more unpleasant, but you still have to hear the truest thoughts. Here I also see that there may be an energy between you blocking the other side, that is, you will get stuck with each other when thinking, if his energy is holding you back, are you still willing to follow your own plan? I feel like you'd love to go back to the very beginning, and what this person is asking of you right now is that it's going to make you into an image that you're completely unfamiliar with, and you won't like the change. If there is such a situation, I hope that you can make it clear with the other party, to tell the truth, then if the other party likes the real you, I don't think he will make such a request.
Now you can also sort out your thinking, see why you got into the relationship in the first place, and why you liked this person? I think that recently you think in your heart that this relationship is actually not in good shape, it may be bored, then recently it may be that something has happened, or it may be that things have always existed, accumulated to a qualitative change, and now you also doubt your initial decision, the point where you initially admired this person has now lost its luster. In fact, what I want to say is that I just wanted you to show your truest appearance, and now the reverse is that you have to ask yourself, can you accept this person showing the truest state in front of you? If you still feel confused, we can also do a separate communication, personally draw the cards will allow us to see a more accurate situation, according to which I can also give you helpful advice.
I think that the current state of you and the other party is that you are not used to each other, the feeling of provoking each other, but this picky energy is not necessarily bad, maybe in this process you see more of what you should become, you are clear about what you should keep, and what is the part that really needs to be transformed. The other party should be the same, such a relationship allows you to invisibly adjust each other's pace, but may look at the future together a common goal. Feelings above, in fact, there is love between you, I think you have to express it with each other, you have to know how to express love, the other party is also that kind of relatively low-key look, he rarely says to use language to show love, first start with less picky problems, even if you are not accustomed to it, less criticism, keep silent Sometimes let the other party receive the energy of understanding.
There are also some friends you have lost balance in this relationship, maybe one of you always wants to cooperate with the other party, that is, has always belonged to the state of paying more, then this imbalance will also lead to problems in the relationship, or to listen to your own inner voice is more important, from now on you have to figure out your own needs in this relationship, you and each other need to re-construct a new mode of getting along, that is also the run-in that you have to go through again, after this process you may have some improvement between you. The card is saying that it is not enough to understand compromise, you need to use wisdom, you can still keep calm, but you have to have the right way to deal with the problem. In addition, this side did not see that the other party has another connection, he did not say that he liked other people, you do not have to worry about the loyalty of the other party.
The important thing is to first find the original state, there is a period of time when you have the dominant power, then adjust this state back, you have to know what kind of position you should be in in this relationship, and what kind of person you want to be, not that you have to completely lose yourself for the sake of the other party, that will make the relationship become unrecognizable. So in the end, we also see the hints of the universe through Tarot, be ourselves well, and face life with a real state, so that we can have our own returns.