Interpretation of emotional topics, taking you into more positive emotional worlds! I am your emotional relief, but you have to know how to let yourself go!
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Alive, hard!
Such a feeling, you, me, ta, have a deep feeling!
Perhaps, we all know that it is not easy to live, so we are always willing to assist ourselves in the journey of a hundred years of life through external forces, and it is relatively easy to walk.
Unfortunately, everyone has their own mission and their own difficulties. In the midst of self-care, the more people who can bring positive energy and encouragement to others, the more they have unknown experiences.
Many times, it is not who is strong enough, not who can really resolve everything alone, but because of reality, let yourself understand:
When the outside world is empty, there is no need to be disappointed. Because people should not have expectations for everyone or thing in the outside world!
As we grow older, with the superposition of experiences, we seem to be more and more mature, so that we will not let people see the sad and sad emotions, and will not let people find fragile tears...
In fact, in the face of too many helpless realities, we have learned to "bear alone".
I don't know how many times I want to cry. However, again and again, I don't even know how many times, I have endured!
In the adult world, tears can only make the eyes red and swollen. Other than that, there is no use in changing the status quo in the slightest!
Some people say that people who can manage their emotions are the wisest! In fact, too many people who deliberately manage their emotions are using the comfort of others to consume themselves!
When the backlog of bad emotions reaches a certain level, it cannot be released reasonably, and people will completely "collapse" after a long time.
In recent years, the reason why there has been a heartfelt saying that "the collapse of adults is only in an instant" is because:
Countless people in order to become a "wise man" in the eyes of others, to become a person who "keeps their luck", in too many daily lives, with hard support to forcibly suppress themselves for too long!
I don't approve of the proliferation of negative emotions, but I am more opposed to the wrong emotional management.
In this life, it is nothing more than occasionally laughing at others, and sometimes being laughed at by others. Then, do your best to get a solid job of your inner expectations.
When facing reality, I'm sure no one is truly happy! Only who, compared to the past, can experience a little satisfaction in the present.
I don't know when, the inner pressure and the hardships experienced, are not easy or no longer talk to anyone. It's not that we've become withdrawn, it's that we understand the price of "empathy" that we can't afford!
Too many inner words, instead of becoming the jokes of others, it is better to hand over to countless sleepless midnights.
At the very least, those countless, sleepless midnights were loyal enough to us. They listen only to us quietly, but they never stab us or ridicule us.
More and more, I feel that the smile on my face has nothing to do with happiness!
When I am praised, I smile because I know that there are never many people who sincerely hope that they are good.
When I am belittled, I laugh because I know that smiling can relieve myself of some pain in such a short moment.
Perhaps, the biggest failure of being a person is to be clearly your own protagonist, but you have become a supporting role to set off others. Pain, and helplessness. Helpless, and insisted.
Life, a lifetime, that's all! Sadness or helplessness, nothing is more important than a smile!
Sometimes, there's nothing wrong with having a bigger heart.
Sometimes, there's nothing wrong with being reasonable and willful!
Sometimes, being appropriately selfish is nothing wrong with that!
Sometimes, looking down and wanting to open up, life is much easier! For the rest of your life, live like this:
On gains and losses:
No one wants to get it, no one wants to lose! It's just that in the face of uncontrollable reality, we can only be an egg!
People are the same as each other, but they choose different ways of living, take different steps, and usher in different experiences.
People are different from each other, and the mentality in front of gains and losses determines whether people are competing with themselves or being bound by objectivity.
In fact, in this life, no matter how you live, you have regrets!
Everyone has had trepidation and anxiety at a certain point. It is because, in the face of gain and loss, the degree of psychological balance is not satisfied.
People live, gain and lose, is nothing more than whether the calm and indifferent mentality is absent. For people or things, let go of trade-offs, there will be gains and losses!
Go all out before the results, and when the results come, you will be indifferent and calm! Facing and accepting is the necessary self-ferry!
About feelings:
Feelings are originally pure and beautiful, unpredictable hearts and ugly human nature, making feelings dirty!
We expect love and fear love, want love and reject love. When you have it, you don't dare to be sure. When lost, nostalgia is seen as entanglement.
Gradually, no one is willing to give 100% to whom, and no one is willing to go all out to whom. The loss in their own caution is a pity and a deserving one!
What else could it be? No one can control human nature, and the human heart cannot be underestimated!
There is no right or wrong in feelings, and there is no should or should! Being together is fate, and being apart is also! People have the instinct to create fate, and they have the ability to destroy fate.
When you can be together, do your best to cherish, and when you are separated, don't be grumpy anymore! Can't hold the kite line, forcibly pull, can only let themselves be injured.
Can't put it down, can't think about it, just be miserable!
People live a lifetime, and in the end, they want to be at peace.
Peace of mind is the liberation of one's own knots and the redemption of one's own soul. Sorrow, hardship, can not change the bear!
In life, the heart is one inch wide, the road is one inch wide, and one thought is put down, and everything is at ease.
As long as you can laugh out loud, it doesn't matter if you are really happy, just from the heart!
As long as you can be frank, it doesn't matter if you get and lose, just look at it!
Life, but that's it! Whose life is not sad? For the rest of your life, I only wish you and me:
Although I know that heartache and thorns are normal, but can be accompanied by calm and calm; live well in the moment, don't expect too much, this life is worth it!
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Love is man's purgatory in the world. Love or friendship, the right time meets the right person to cultivate the right results!
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