Complaining will not solve any problem, it will only make you more desperate and do a lot of excessive things.
Probably many people do not realize the seriousness of the complaint, whenever it is not good, they will find someone to complain about the difficulty of life and say some negative words.
I thought that after saying it, the knot would be unraveled, but I didn't think that the more I complained, the more I would fall into the abyss, and then I wanted to turn over and change my life is a very difficult thing.
Before doing things, if you don't think it through, the more troublesome things will find you, and every day you will feel painful, boring, and will hate your own impulses.
As an adult, you should be most responsible for yourself, don't ruin your life because of an inconspicuous thing, and let yourself live unhappy and unhappy.
In life, find that other people's lives are what you have always aspired to, don't be jealous, don't let people see that "you can't eat grapes, but say grapes are sour".
Because of such an approach, it is impossible to change your life, it will only waste a lot of your time.
Moreover, hating a person and denigrating a person will also affect your emotions, miss out on many opportunities to change your life, and may not have anything in this life.
At any given time, you can't ignore this: what your future life will look like depends on what you do now.
The gap between working very little and spending most of my time eating, drinking, and having fun is very large with working late every day and constantly learning skills, and the life you have will be completely different.
The world is fair, and not giving is not the same as giving what you end up getting.
In the second half of a person's life, whether it is a good life or a bitter life depends on the "idea". If you realize that happiness is a moment, a lifetime of pain, and you know how to do it, you will be very lucky.
If you want to live it, life is mostly a mess
Never trying, doomed to pay a price.
All the time is not spent on work, every day in addition to eating and sleeping, the days will continue to decline, that is, it is getting worse and worse every day.
Just want to enjoy, not serious about anything, then in terms of money will be "only in and out", may take a long time to realize the seriousness of the problem.
I've heard the saying, "How hard you work, how special you are." ”
To tell the truth, it is terrible to have the idea of "passing", because once you do this, you don't fight so hard, and you often say to yourself that "it is okay to get less".
But in fact, this kind of thinking of yours does not make your life stay where it is, but makes you constantly regress.
Not willing to accept the status quo and acting, the harvest is quite high
Fate can be changed, don't believe what others say, "That's all you have in your life, don't struggle."
In interpersonal communication, you have to realize that some people don't want you to be nice, and they don't want you to surpass them, and the words they say are deliberately stimulating you.
To put it bluntly, he wants you to become negative, he wants you to be afraid to accept the challenge, he wants you to think that you are not very capable, you can only admit your fate.
The world is big, and there are people of all kinds, so the people you meet are not just hoping that you will live well, and life is both full and wonderful.
People live for themselves, they are responsible for themselves no matter what, they have to think about some abnormal words, and they must know how to deal with the people who say them.
You should understand in your heart that you can't give up easily, you have to bravely step forward, and you also try to move forward, then you not only accumulate a lot of experience, but also get a lot of things.
I have to say that your idea is really very critical, no matter what happens in your life later, you have to fight hard, you can't feel "forget it".
Having confidence in yourself will continue to go uphill
You think you have limited ability and can't handle too many things, and you also think about asking for help after something happens, then others will think that you are incompetent.
All along, you are denying yourself, saying that you can't be alone, and others will evaluate you the same as you, and they will think that you are a trouble.
You need to understand that how others treat you after a period of acquaintance depends on where you put yourself and whether you respect yourself.
If you don't want to be looked down upon by anyone and don't want your life to be so bad, you have to have confidence in yourself and think that you can accept any challenge.
Your life will change because of your ideas, you have to firmly believe that your life will get better and better, you also have to know how to plan, and try to do it.
summary:
You just want to live on it, it's the attitude of living a day, and your life will only get worse and worse.
It's a fact, don't live in dreams anymore, don't think of yourself as a lucky person, all the good things will find you and stand on the top.
Without planning, without effort, life will hardly go in a good direction.
If you want to achieve success, want to make your life wonderful and interesting, want many people to admire you, appreciate you, and want to be a lucky person, you must have a plan and action.
Study and work hard, believe that you can, life will naturally get better, and you will have everything you want.
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Author: A senior mentor who accompanies books, writes for fun, freelance writer, and helps countless people get out of emotional difficulties.