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Three criteria for the health of life
| Wang Meng
It's time to discuss the standards of mental health. The first is basic kindness. Kindness to others, among which it is particularly important to restrain jealousy.
What is being said here is that people often lose their good nature out of jealousy. Because of jealousy, people will take the mistakes of others as their own achievements, and take the falls of others as their own gains. Jealousy is basically a weak mentality, and only those who can't run fast expect others to foul or fall to the ground. People who do not have the ability to earn money themselves pin their hopes on others throwing away their wallets. Jealousy makes one schadenfreude, hatred of the virtuous, restlessness, and ugliness.
Jealousy creates a guilty mentality that harms others. A nephew of a man in a certain place in the northeast was jealous of his uncle's success and secretly jumped over the wall to his uncle's house to pour diesel into many sauce cylinders. On the TV, he still said viciously to the REPORTERS: "I let him rise to the fire!" "Say it again and say it again. Unfortunately, this kind of nephew also exists among people at a higher level, and the high-level jealous one is no different from the nephew of the sauce maker, but the means are a little more clever than pouring diesel, and it is necessary to find some grandiose reasons.
Aunt Zhao in "Dream of the Red Chamber" is a model of jealousy, she made two little people, wrote the names of Baoyu and Wang Xifeng, the birthday of the eight characters, and used a needle to stick to the heart of the little person, which is a typical measure of the jealous. It is said that all countries in the world have experienced this superstition of using a method similar to witchcraft to complete people. In a sense, jealousy is the source of all evil. The burden of jealousy is too heavy, the shadow is too dark, and only by trying to remove jealousy and guide the inevitable unease between people into legitimate, positive, bright and legitimate competition can we be considered healthy.
The second is clarity. Goodness is the only way to be clear, and jealousy, narrow-mindedness, intrigue, and resentment only bring darkness. Equally abominable to jealousy are megalomaniacs and egocentrism. Megalomaniacs and self-centered people tend to lose their minds and lose their ability to control themselves. They boast about themselves, confess themselves, narcissistic and self-congratulatory, think to themselves, and ride on soap bubbles to heaven, while at the same time attacking others with a fierce attack, denying others, resenting others, demanding, blackmailing, and blackmailing others. The result of overheating is bound to be disappointment or discouragement or pessimism and world-weariness is a curse on everything, that is, self-freezing.
The so-called madness, the so-called fanaticism, if it is expressed as the creation of art, there is still merit. Sometimes fanaticism is a manifestation of genius, but this is limited to the absence of the necessity and possibility of operation, and there is no directing and less directive artistic creation. Sometimes it also includes certain academic research or moral self-improvement, limited only to human activities in which there is no such thing as a model for a programme of action, that is, a completely unrealistic non-utilitarian human activity. The artwork you create in the midst of fanaticism, the new ideas you make, may be shocking, unique, irreplaceable, at least better than nothing, because its existence can be discussed. But if you use this runaway madness to rule your family and make friends call the shots, it will become ridiculous and unhealthy.
The third is reason and self-control. I am actually an impatient, sensitive and irritable person. For this reason, since I was young, I have repeatedly read the discussions on hugging and nourishing Qi in Lao Tzu and Mencius. I have also heard the elders talk about the truth of "reading in the depths of the heart" many times. But so far, I have had many experiences of getting angry and angry until I lose my attitude for most of my life.
I deeply understand that no matter how legitimate your reasons, anger and attacking the heart will always be a manifestation of failure, an absolute negative spiritual phenomenon, and absolutely only lead to humiliating results. False fire rises, intelligence declines, ugly images, improper measures, hurts the innocent, and the relatives are painful and the enemies are fast, which is an inevitable series of developments. So, I really didn't control it, I got angry, I got angry, I lost my attitude, what to do? Without it, quickly cool down and extinguish the fire. This is also a benefit for me, my fire comes and goes quickly, called non-stick and non-stagnant, called the eclipse of the sun and the moon, called after the thunderstorm, it is still rainy and sunny. I can't do it without fault or blame at all, but no matter what, I can't make a mistake, intensify it, hide my illness and avoid medical treatment, and kill myself.
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