The pace of life should not be limited, the journey of life is very long, you can imagine how many interesting people and things we can meet in this long journey, how many unknown mysteries will be exposed.
But we also have to say that this is an ideal, the vast majority of people after starting a family, after the work is stable, basically have lost the conditions to explore the journey of life, and what they need to face is their mission and responsibility.
It is no wonder that people now do not get married and do not have children, in today's developed network, people have a broader knowledge acquisition, and have better planning and understanding of themselves and their lives.
No one wants to be limited, no one will be willing to accept their fate, no one wants their descendants to be like themselves, and fate seems to be fixed from birth.
But no matter what, most people are still rational, and it should be that ordinary people will choose a responsible life and take a traditional path, such as relationships, emotions, and life.
Fortunately, I am a member of the ordinary, and there may be many friends like me, I often think that when I finish my responsibilities one day, I will be able to spare no effort to explore what I want to explore.
But sometimes I have to admit that the ideal is beautiful, but I can't guarantee that it can be realized, in fact, in my heart, I have long denied its realization.
I once discussed this issue with some friends, the comedy ended, you are seventy and eighty, what else to explore?
There are really many things in life that make us powerless, it is the inability of the heart, people are born with limitations, relying on the survival of the group, relying on the group to obtain resources, forming a scale, and forming a stable market logic.
So if you want to actually ensure your own survival and life, we have to integrate into the group, after all, the power of individuals is limited, but this epidemic I have heard some friends say some things.
The epidemic can not affect the work, there is no income, the whole person has been very psychedelic, in fact, how to say:
I think many friends should be able to think better and have the opportunity to think about their future path in this negative pressure situation.
Man cannot hang si on a tree!
In the case of energy and time, we can actually do some other things, such as learning other skills, concentrating, working hard, and can regard our hobbies and interests as a side job.
In the past few days, I have heard some friends say the three words "unreliable" more than once or twice, and once I encounter some bad situations and unexpected situations, I instantly feel that I have no survival security.
If you only put expectations and assurances on a tree, then encountering unexpected situations can basically only be this unreliable result.
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Today I will share from the perspective of horoscopes, how to effectively fight depression and comb themselves under the epidemic situation of 12 constellations.
Let's first talk about the fire sign, the fire sign's ability to resist pressure and fight is generally very strong, but they have a contradiction, once they encounter some bad things, they are easy to break the can and break, and begin to be willful of themselves.
So when encountering such things, their ability to resist pressure will soon be ineffective, and the people of the fire sign are people who are willing to believe in others, people with strong trust and enthusiasm, which is their advantage.
But in real life, this advantage will most often become a common cause of their victimization.
Easy to believe is easy to be deceived, the heart is warm and soft, about this point, friends who have been with the fire sign should be the most clear.
But if you have coaxed the fire sign, then you know in your heart that the fire sign is very afraid of being wronged, especially when the fire sign is distrusted by the people they value.
But you just have to coax a little bit and they'll get better soon.
Coaxing fire signs is really easy, just because they are soft-hearted, let's put it bluntly, as long as fire signs like a person, what is the point of grievance, do you still use coaxing? Give yourself a step and go down.
So I suggest that friends of fire signs contact their friends more under the epidemic, communicate more, friends are your advantages, and most of the work and achievements of fire signs are generally inseparable from the line of friends.
In fact, in this case, it is a good thing to study, such as learning what to test, or learning something else, but this kind of thing is not easy for the Fire Elephant people to be honest.
Because they may not be able to stick to it, this kind of thing is of real help to their future.
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The earth sign is a little more stable, but the suppression of the earth sign basically comes from the real problem, especially under the epidemic, the earth sign will be more depressed.
The heart will suffocate itself, constantly persuade itself to look good, and constantly think, anxiety non-stop.
This feeling makes people particularly insecure, and there are many friends who have recently sent private messages, friends of earth signs, and this time.
But earth elephants also have advantages, they recognize the goal, think, and can insist on doing one thing, so during the epidemic, learning is very practical and practical for earth signs.
Of course, to let the earth sign tell his friends about the inner matter, I am afraid it will be a little difficult for them.
Single earth elephants can't do it, but companion earth elephants have a way:
Make friends with your companions and future companions, this opportunity is actually quite rare.
Although it is not easy to let go of ourselves, it is actually difficult to take the first step, let's say a big vernacular, isn't it also for our own sake.
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If the wind sign is controlled, it is really uncomfortable, the wind sign is generally not crazy, under normal circumstances, it is not rebellious, and once it is forcibly bound, it is not crazy and not rebellious but not normal.
I have always felt that the wind signs are very talented, at least the imagination is the first echelon of the 12 signs, all kinds of fantastic ideas, others can not think of, but this kind of good things often appear in the situation of their freedom of mind.
Under the influence of the epidemic, friends of the wind sign, if you feel depressed, I suggest opening the computer to see more things that interest you, whether it is a movie, a documentary, or other aspect.
In the case of being constrained and limited in range of motion, the key to your good resistance to pressure is:
Let your brain think freely, the freer the better, the more not idle the better, cooking is actually quite good.
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There is a very special problem here in the water sign, especially the water sign of falling in love in a different place, the wind sign can not last long in this case, and the water sign is actually similar.
During this particular period, the emotional state of the water sign will become more frequent, and they will not be able to control their thoughts, such as what to recall and compare.
But the more you do this, the less taste you feel.
Some water signs will find ways to spend some time and divert their attention during this period, such as chasing dramas, but when you finish chasing, or chasing dramas, there are always times when you can't chase.
Then once you are idle, you will be even more uncomfortable.
Water signs are very careful and meticulous in doing things to people, and some friends may not know that when water signs like a person and want to have some possibilities with a person, he will not constantly check the person's information and preferences.
For example, looking through the PY circle, Weibo content or something, in fact, in view of this careful and meticulous point, the water sign is more suitable for learning in this period.
For example, learn some psychological aspects, how to better balance yourself, how to better understand a person, and so on.
Carrying their own repression, it is really difficult, people will have a period of negative pressure, then we must make "busy" in this period, the purpose to choose some of their own feel safe, practical, good for their own things to do.
Get busy, get tired, try not to be idle, and try not to try to rely on any escape to divert their depression, this is only temporary.
Or that girls and friends are more concerned about their own body, then in the case of the epidemic situation, more exercise to exercise their own body is also very real, the shape is beautiful, the mood is great, self-confidence, attractiveness rises.
In the end, it is still the important point:
More planning and planning for their future survival depends on and survival paths, and opening up one more road is to give yourself more protection for the future.
Everyone can guess the situation in the future, and it is a good time to prepare early.
Although the range of physical activity is limited, our brains and thinking are not limited, of course, we must pay attention to protection, to protect ourselves.
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