In interpersonal communication, the wind sign has a kind of self-taught ability. For example, Aquarius, they will keep a certain distance from people, not to maintain a gap between people, but to give both sides a certain breathing space.
Whether friends or lovers, they don't like to stick too close, and they don't like interpersonal relationships without secrets and private space. Therefore, they are also accustomed to seeing through it without saying that it is broken, and pretending to be stupid has become their magic trick.
Aquarius is a very intelligent one in the wind sign, not only because of their quick mind, but also because they know what to say and what not to say.
Unlike the earth signs that sometimes speak bluntly, talk to the end, leave no room, Aquarius talks and does things to the point, others should understand, do not understand more is useless, but fell into a bad reputation, this is what Aquarius is not willing to do.
In fact, Aquarius people go along with a person, not because they identify with a person, but because they disdain to argue. Aquarius is actually the least like to be similar to the public, they are maverick, they have a lot of ideas of their own.
However, they do not impose on others, echoing, to avoid quarrels. Aquarius is not good at arguing and feels that quarrels are meaningless. This way of getting along may be very popular with friends, but in intimate relationships, or in relationships with lovers, it is not healthy.
When Aquarius is not accustomed to a person, it may not be obvious. When a close friend or lover does something that hurts them, they often don't point it out. The habits and principles of their interpersonal interactions are not to be said. They have always believed that it is useless for people who do not understand to say it.
But such an idea is actually very unhealthy in love, because two people are inevitably bumping into each other in the run-in process, and communication is very important. However, Aquarius believes, "Since you can do something that makes me uncomfortable and hurts me, it means that we have different fundamental concepts about this matter, that means that we are not suitable, so what is the use of me saying it?" ”
When Aquarius thinks "it's useless to say it," they are even less likely to show that they are hurt. Instead, they will show an indifferent, indifferent attitude.
So when you fall in love or make friends with Aquarius people, you must take the initiative to communicate, and never choose the Cold War. Aquarius shows indifference when the relationship is at its most fragile.
Don't think that your indifference and sudden proximity at this time will make Aquarius cherish you, you will only make them more convinced that you are not suitable. When Aquarius successfully convinces himself, it is time for the relationship to end.