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As the saying goes, "A spoiled woman has the best life." ”
Women who will coddle men and show weakness can often arouse each other's desire to protect.
It is easy to live a life that others envy.
However, after all, it is a spoiler to be a child to others.
You need to be sheltered by others to get what you want to have, and you are always in a passive position.
Women who really have a rich life, what they want, on their own, is enough.
Feng Xiaoqin in "Heart Residence" originally wanted to get a suite through her husband's sister.
But they have repeatedly hit a wall.
After the unexpected death of her husband, Feng Xiaoqin lost her pillar, and she finally understood that she needed to rely on herself for what she wanted.
As a "foreign sister", Feng Xiaoqin's road to foothold in the big city can be described as tortuous.
She also thought about following a love again.
However, after going around, I finally chose to open up a career and get what I wanted.
From the beginning of having nothing, to finally buying his own house and taking his children to make a home in Shanghai.
Her life is finally complete.
After experiencing so many twists and turns, Feng Xiaoqin finally understood that the so-called rich and noble are not rich.
It has never been given to you by others, and if you want to get rich and noble, you have to fight for it yourself.
02
Love is not the whole of life, and women who understand this truth are often rich and noble.
In most women's life planning, love always occupies a large part of the position.
They even promote the idea of "changing yourself for love."
Men's eyes and evaluations are like a knife of scrutiny, urging them to change themselves little by little.
But in fact, love is not the whole of life.
There are more things in life that are worth paying their energy, and they can only lose themselves in the end.
For women, love is the icing on the cake.
Women put everything on love, have no heart for their own careers, and naturally it is difficult to be rich.
Life is a big tree that grows along its main trunk to reach its final end.
However, above the body of the trunk, there are inevitably many branches.
Only when they regard love as a small branch of their lives can they manage the tree of life.
03
In the love field and the workplace, there must always be one to gain the upper hand.
Women who love their careers and are willing to constantly improve themselves for it are more likely to become rich.
In contemporary society, it is difficult to gain personal independence without a career that you love and are willing to work for.
Every young person with a dream will become smooth under the repeated polishing of life.
However, the edges and corners are smoothed out, and the dream is still there.
Idealized things exist in order to keep polishing themselves in order to achieve that goal.
Years ago, the idea that women were fit to stay at home was outdated.
Today's women can still run to the workplace and pursue their "strong woman" dreams.
For the sake of clinging to things, you can always keep moving forward.
Constantly learning, constantly improving herself, such a woman is difficult not to be rich.
04
With poetry and bookishness in the belly, ink in the belly, and foresight in the brain, such a woman is more likely to be rich.
Beauty and figure will eventually disappear with the passing of appearance.
However, the knowledge and nurture that exist in the brain will accompany you throughout your life.
Actor Yu Feihong, at a young age, left behind classic works.
Beauty in the twilight of the year, gradually faded out of the big screen, but there are still many people to follow the love.
The books she had read and the nurturing she had received made her not attached to Vanity Fair.
Early exit from the "Yangtze River back wave push front wave" showbiz circle, quiet and clean operators their own life.
I have tasted the sweetness of the fruit, but I can restrain myself.
When you are full, you will no longer eat, and this kind of cultivation is not only brought about by experience, but also includes the roads you have traveled and the books you have read.
People's pursuit of beauty is always endless, and no one is eighteen forever.
But there will always be people in the world who are eighteen years old.
Instead of spending time to retain what will eventually be lost, it is better to enrich yourself with knowledge.
The wealth brought about by book knowledge is not only material, but also spiritual.
When a person's spirit is rich, he has reached the realm of "not pleasing things and not being sad with oneself."
05
The world is in turmoil, and everyone is constantly struggling to make their lives better.
Compared with men, women have more difficulties, and if they want to become rich, they still have to focus on themselves.
Love is not the whole of life.
If you bloom, the breeze comes, you can run your own life well, a woman full of wealth, love will also come to you.
Keep fighting for your dreams and follow your passion.
Even if the years pass, the woman who can still have a foothold with her own talents is the real rich.
The rest of your life is short, don't hesitate to linger for the sake of short-lived fame and fortune.
Running your own life, living for love, and enriching your own inner life, it is difficult not to be rich.