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Why do children and grandmothers ignore their biological mothers? The "antidote" came

Why do children and grandmothers ignore their biological mothers? The "antidote" came

Today I saw an interesting question in the hot list, telling the story of a mother who was jealous of her grandmother: "The baby is three months old, every day and grandma, babbling and chatting, the mother warmly teases him but is ignored, as a mother is more sad, why is this?" "This question is like a stone stirring up a thousand waves, everyone has different opinions, each has its own opinion, but no one can take the place of the mother in the heart of the child, no one.

Why do children and grandmothers ignore their biological mothers? The "antidote" came

Hand-drawn: Baby's Thoughts

Bo mom's small fat, from birth 24 hours to bring their own, grandma usually will help, change diapers, wash clothes, etc., the first time when the mother does not know how to make the baby laugh? Basically from the soul creation, how to be happy how to come, as long as the baby responds to the mother, will take the initiative to try, grandma likes to use the elderly way to tease the baby, such as: sing some rhythmic songs, rattles shake, the baby responds to the grandmother Effect is remarkable, but also babbling and talking to the grandmother, the mother also learns these ways to communicate with the baby, the ugly and cute son laughs, such as warm sunlight into my heart, the old mother's girl's heart is captured at once.

Why do children and grandmothers ignore their biological mothers? The "antidote" came

Hand-painted: Mother takes baby to the park

After the maternity leave, the grandfather, grandmother, and father at home take the child together, and at night, the mother brings the baby herself, and for a while I found that the baby especially likes the grandfather, and what I do sticks to the grandfather, as a mother, I am sad in my heart and eat the vinegar of the grandfather. During work, they would take videos of their babies and send them pictures. Let Bo Mom solve the pain of lovesickness, I believe that many mothers after maternity leave have this wave of operations, eager to see the baby immediately, just like Grandma said: "It is not that the child cannot do without you, it is that you cannot do without the child."

Why do children and grandmothers ignore their biological mothers? The "antidote" came

Hand-drawn: Baby playing in ocean balls

At this stage of the baby like to listen to the sound, although he now looks at things hazy, but still like to see the familiar face, as a parent, we should go to help the baby, as the baby grows up, we want the baby to distinguish between parents and grandparents, let him distinguish between parents and grandparents, let him distinguish between the ability to exercise and improve, accompany the baby with heart, you can accompany him to sing nursery rhymes, tell stories, play with toys, hug out to visit the park, bask in the sun, etc., remember not to accompany him at the same time, while playing with the mobile phone. Have you been recruited as a parent?

Why do children and grandmothers ignore their biological mothers? The "antidote" came

Hand-painted: Dad takes the baby on a swing

Bo Mama's heart has something to say:

Parents have free time, try to have more high-quality companionship, the baby grows up quickly, inadvertently grows up, high-quality companionship will bring knowledge, love and courage to face failure after growth, because he is a child who grows up in love! The baby's heart is like a mirror, who is good to him, how can he not like you?

This issue of Bo Mom has something to say, the content shared is over, we will not see each other in the next issue!

Life Message: You have to believe that there will always be unexpected warmth and endless hope, which will inadvertently appear in our lives. (Message from the Internet)

Why do children and grandmothers ignore their biological mothers? The "antidote" came

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