Love is the meaning of a person's life, the reason why we will work hard is to be able to make the loved one live a happy life, sharing joy with the lover when successful will make us double our happiness, and having a lover share our pain when we fail will halve our sadness, such a life is always full of hope and color.
But if one day our loved one dies unexpectedly, how should we live alone?
This question is very cruel, many people do not want to think about it, they do not know how the person who put all his emotions on himself died, whether to face every day of life positively and optimistically, or to become negative and stagnate on the road of life.
In the movie "A Man Named Ovie Decides to Die", the male protagonist Ovie gave the answer to this question with his own life experience, he once wanted to end his life because his favorite wife left, followed his wife, and then decided to live because he felt the love of the world from his neighbors.
In my opinion, love is the meaning of a person's life, and after the death of a loved one, we must also live positively and optimistically for the sake of the deceased lover.
First, after the death of his beloved wife, Ovie decided to die.
Ovey is a rigid, stubborn person, he hates all people who violate the rules, and he always loses his temper with people who drive vehicles into the living area in violation of the rules.
Due to his fierce appearance, Ovie is not easy to get close to outsiders, only his wife knows that he is good-natured, and his wife has become the whole color of his life.
The beautiful and kind wife has its own light in Ovie's eyes, she seems to be the whole meaning of Ovie's life in Ovie, but when Ovie was 59 years old, his wife died of illness, and after his wife's death 6 months later, Ovie innocently lost his job, which made Ovie instantly feel that something no longer had any meaning.
Ovie comes to his wife's grave and tells his wife about his pain, and he decides to die and leave the city that makes him sad.
But by chance, every time Ove decides to end his life, he will be disturbed by his neighbors, and he will find the meaning of rebirth in the process of being disturbed by neighbors.
Born as a human being, the most painful thing is to find the meaning of life, especially a lonely person, a person who has all his emotions on his lover, when the lover dies, he will also feel that his life is no longer meaningful.
But even if the lover has passed away, he will still hope that you will live a positive and optimistic life, and the living person can only live bravely if he finds the meaning of living in life again.
Second, Ovie's harshness towards people is actually a manifestation of deep love for others.
Ove's mother died when he was very young, and he grew up with his father, whose father was a railway worker, and when Ove got his college acceptance letter, his father happily showed his colleagues, but did not want to be hit by a speeding train and lose his life.
This kind of life experience makes Ovi hate all those who break the rules, Ovi was once the administrator of the community committee, he volunteered to maintain the order of the community every day, he would check whether the garage door lock was locked, and he would also record the number of the illegally parked vehicle.
When Ovie wants to end his life, he is furious when he sees his newly moved neighbor clumsily driving his car into the community, so he goes out to stop it.
In my opinion, although Ovie is strong on the outside, he is a gentle and loving person at heart, and he is angry on the outside, but he is willing to help everyone around him who needs help, and it is precisely because he is maintaining the order of the community that he has a beautiful environment in the home where he lives with his neighbors.
Ovey is mean to people, just to remind others to know how to follow the order, which is actually the embodiment of his deep love for life.
Third, after the death of his lover, Ove decided to live for love.
In just 6 months, Ovie lost his lover and job, and he lost the hope and meaning of living.
But every time Ovie wants to end his life, he will encounter the neighbor's help, which makes Ovie feel that he is needed, and the community he lives in, if there is no him, the order will be chaotic.
The stubborn Ovie doesn't want his wife's beloved living environment to be chaotic, so he goes out of his way to give his neighbors all kinds of help and angrily treat everyone who violates the rules of the community.
In the process of getting along with Ovie, the neighbors also discovered Ovie's cuteness and kindness, and they also deeply liked Ovie.
This allowed Ove to regain the meaning of being alive, and although he eventually died of illness and followed his wife as he wished, he died in a loving environment.
"A Man Named Ove Decides to Die" tells the story of how Ovey faced the rest of his life alone after the death of his beloved wife.
From the initial disappointment in life, he wanted to end his life, to helping his neighbors, and with the help of neighbors, he found love again and found the meaning of life.
The enlightenment brought to us by Ovie's life experience is that after the death of a lover, we can only live positively and optimistically in order to find love again and find the meaning of life again.
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