Feelings need to be cultivated slowly, and there is no love once and for all in this world. If a middle-aged man really loves you, he can't help but contact you and message you often.
Love is the starlight and fireworks that cannot be hidden, which can both dispel darkness and warm the heart.
When you find that a middle-aged man often takes the initiative to send messages greetings and care about you, it most likely means that he really can't leave you.
Love needs to be expressed, whether through words, words or actions, so that the other party can fully feel the love and sincerity you have given.
If your love for a person is always hidden deep in your heart and never takes the initiative to express it, then your feelings will fall into a dead end and you will never be able to move again. When we receive messages from our loved ones, our hearts will be filled with joy and sweetness.
As the writer Huang Huayi said: "One day in the future, when I open my eyes, it will be a dawn like now, the morning sun outside the window will begin to rise, and the dew on the blades of grass will shine." Then I received a message from you, and whatever it was, even if it was just a short good morning, I would be happy for a long time. Then I know that you are doing well on the road I can't go on in the distance. ”
Warm news will give people a sense of steadfastness and certainty. No matter what the future holds, at least now two people love each other deeply, even if they eventually disperse, there will still be news and records of love in their minds, which cannot be erased for a long time.
Generally speaking, the middle-aged man who often sends you these messages is the one who really loves you.
1) Have you been doing well lately?
Suppose a middle-aged man often messages you and asks, "Have you been doing well lately?" "The implication is that he is full of concern and concern for you, and he wants to understand your life status.
A middle-aged man who truly loves you deeply will usually take the initiative to care about the warmth and coldness of your life and express his love and concern for you.
If he never cares about your life, even if you are poor, he will not give some financial help and support, indicating that he does not love you.
Feelings are based on mutual care and greeting, and this care is not only material help, but also spiritual comfort and soul fit.
When he often sends messages to greet you, want to know how you have been lately, whether your mood is happy and happy, it shows that he really loves you.
Only a middle-aged man who truly loves and cares about you will often send you messages asking if you are doing well and whether you need his help.
If he doesn't love you, he naturally won't take the initiative to message you, and he won't really care about your life. Whether you're having a good time or not, he won't take it to heart.
The middle-aged man who loves you deeply, in addition to often sending messages to care about you, will also help you at key moments, through real actions and dedication, express his love and care for you.
2) I really miss you
Love is thoughts and concerns. If a middle-aged man regularly messages him about his miss for you, it's clear that he really loves you. For example, he might often send you messages like, "I really miss you." ”
As we all know, middle-aged men are often ashamed to express their thoughts and admiration for a person through words or words.
Only when he has true feelings for you, he can't help but send you a message to express his thoughts and concerns about you.
It is precisely because he can't let go of you in his heart, so he will always silently pay attention to your dynamics, eager to integrate into your life circle, and want to have a soul fusion with you.
Adult love is full of entanglements and trade-offs, full of yearning for love, and afraid of being hurt.
Writer Fang Hui once said: "Sending every message to someone you like is a risk, and the bet is whether the mood will be good or bad for the next day." ”
The more we like someone, the more we can't help but want to message each other.
If a middle-aged man really loves you, he will take the initiative to send you a message to express his deep concern and thoughts about you.
Especially when you have to be separated for a while, he will often message you after separation, and will say to you: "I really miss you, I would like to fly to you immediately." ”
If he doesn't love you, he won't miss you, but on the contrary, he will be cold to you and pretend to ignore your existence.
After separation, he never initiates messages to you, and you are not so important to him.
When you realize that you occupy an extremely important position and weight in his heart, he is willing to accompany and guard you with his heart, and suddenly look back, he is in the middle of the light, indicating that he really loves you.
3, what do I have to do to make you satisfied
I don't know if you have ever felt this way, that is, when you really like someone, you may sometimes show inconfidence in this relationship, and even feel that you are not worthy of each other.
The middle-aged man looks very strong and omnipotent, but in fact he also has an extremely fragile and humble side.
If he really likes you, he can't help but message you often: "What am I going to do to make you satisfied?" "The reason he asks you this is because he feels that he still has room for improvement, and he wants to try to get close to your mate selection criteria and requirements."
Whenever you quarrel, he will take the initiative to send you a message: "Sorry, I was wrong, what can I do to make you forgive me?" ”
Only when he truly likes and cares about you will he give you more tolerance and tolerance, and is willing to fully understand and respect you.
After each quarrel, he will take the initiative to send you a message to apologize and take the initiative to give you a step down. Because he loves you, he will eliminate the misunderstandings and contradictions in the relationship in time.
Middle-aged men who truly love you deeply will usually find ways to satisfy your imagination of love and meet your reasonable needs and desires.
When you're feeling down, he may often message you asking, "Is there something I'm not doing well enough, you tell me, I'm going to try to correct it." ”
When he feels true feelings for you, he will be afraid to lose you. In order to retain your feelings, he will constantly improve his comprehensive ability and quality, make himself more and more excellent and outstanding, create personal charm and core competitiveness, and let you look at him with surprise.
So, when a middle-aged man often sends messages to ask you where he is not doing well, what exactly he has to do to get your approval and affirmation, it shows that he really cares about you, and he wants to try to become what you like.
In short, a middle-aged man who truly loves you deeply will not be able to help but send you messages often and express his love and care for you in time.
For example, he may often message you to care about you, ask you how you are doing, ask you what he can do to make you happier, and message you after separation that he misses you.
It is precisely because he cares about you that he is eager to gain your appreciation, and wants to find a sense of presence and belonging in the relationship.
He messages you a lot, meaning he wants more attention from you, and he's also waiting for you to reply to his message.
For a middle-aged man who truly loves you deeply, not hearing from you for a long, long time is like a plant that has not been watered by rain for a long time. He loves you so much that he can't lose touch with you.
No matter how busy and tired he is, he will squeeze out time to accompany you and maintain intimate communication and interaction with you anytime, anywhere.
As the writer Udon put it: "When you run out of time, you still have to send you a message." I message you and you don't reply. My time here has become very long. ”
For the rest of your life, may you find a partner who can message you often, and the relationship between you will never be broken.