The longer you chase a girl, the more you pay, the more you naturally don't want to give up, resulting in the final willingness to become the girl's spare tire or lick the dog. So how long does it take to chase a girl and give up?
First, how long can I give up chasing girls?
In the face of such a question, in fact, there is no standard answer, because the answer people want is not such an accurate time, but how much time and energy needs to be spent in the process of chasing girls to win her heart, how much to pay is the right girl, not to waste the price of chasing girls.
The interests and losses in love are liquidated again, so as not to lose the wife and fold the soldiers, this kind of risk avoidance, profit and harm avoidance psychology is a kind of human instinct, but also in order to let themselves be able to live better in this society, but in love can not be calculated according to the interests of gains and losses, want to pursue girls more by attraction.
Therefore, the brothers who can generally ask this question are encountering a lot of setbacks in the process of chasing girls, want to give up but refuse to give up, there is hope in their hearts at the same time a little disappointed, suffering from gain and loss, do not know what to do.
In fact, the reason for this situation is largely that I don't know how to attract girls, and I will not get closer to girls, resulting in a stagnant relationship with girls and wasting my time and energy.
We must understand that from acquaintance to love with girls, it is necessary to go through a process, which can be roughly divided into three stages, the familiar stage, the attraction stage, and the ambiguous stage, and the whole process is gradual and cannot be easily crossed.
Many brothers and girls are obviously just ordinary friends, but they perform the duties of the girl's boyfriend, cross the level of operation, and make behaviors that exceed the degree of relationship intimacy, indicating that they look very intimate, but in the eyes of girls, your behavior is more like a "licking dog" and will only be despised.
To understand that people will always have such a psychology, the more easy to get the more will not cherish, when girls can easily get your pay, even if your pay is very precious, it is difficult to be valued.
Therefore, in the process of getting along with girls, we must be gradual and gradual, and do not easily please and cater to girls.
Of course, if you have to know a deadline, the advice given here is: three months.
Some people also believe in the long-term love, thinking that as long as they don't give up, they will definitely be able to catch her.
Second, can chasing girls have a long-term relationship?
For her own sake and for her own good, sometimes chasing too long, not being together in the future is not good. Although it is actually quite hurtful to say so, boys, you must remember that girls must be with you because she likes you, not because she is touched by you. Therefore, in fact, love is an equal relationship, if your relationship with her has become unequal, that is to say, you have given too much, and she does not have a little response, this time it is better to give up, because you are also tired. For example, after you and a girl have expressed their love to her many times, she has no good feelings for you, so why should we try at this time? Is it really trying to fight for a breath? Even if she agrees to be with you, it can't be because she really likes you, or because some of your conditions have touched her, and you will still be separated sooner or later.
Some people may chase girls slowly by time to catch up with each other, but this is a very small minority, some people chase for several years, or did not catch up. Some girls are like deliberately dragging you, he just doesn't want to clarify the relationship with you, but he maintains a certain ambiguity with you, when he meets such a girl, I think you should be very helpless, but you don't know what to do?
Therefore, it is best to chase girls with a three-month deadline, and if you don't chase it, give up. Even if the pursuit of more than three months is caught, the other party may not be sincere, after all, the boy's youth also has a price, and it is really boring to spend too long with an unworthy person.