Teach you to eat and live in men's hearts, and tell you today: How to praise men? As I said before: if an intimate relationship wants to last a long time, you must grasp one thing, that is, the needs of the other party.
Just like a person who is thirsty and wants to drink water if you have, this must be listened to you, then what is the need of men? We have said before, more important is the emotional value, how do we provide the emotional value? One of the easiest ways: praise!
Many girls will say, I really can't say it, I can't really say it when I look at him, and some say that I have exhausted the words I praised him, how to praise him handsome, praise his good figure, praise his sense of responsibility, and so on. Today I will teach you a praise style that will not make you so embarrassed, and teach you a psychological effect: the contrast effect! To put it simply, to use a particularly popular phrase on the Internet, there is no harm without comparison.
To give an example, bring in a scene, for example, you go to a restaurant with one of your girlfriends, and then meet a man you may be more interested in, high-value men, both like it, and then this man runs to your girlfriend and praises her: Beautiful, you are beautiful! How do you feel at this time? Sour, not happy, right?
Originally nothing, in fact, he did not hurt you, but two sisters, what do you mean by praising her? In this contrast, you will be uncomfortable. So you see, he didn't do anything directly to you, but because of this contrast, it hurt you, then this is the contrast effect.
The same is included in business management, you will find that many companies, are confidential to the salary of employees, why? Because there will be such a situation, for example, the team will give a salary increase to one person, and several other people will know, and they will not punish them for anything, but when they hear, we do the same job, why give him a salary increase? Unhappy, maybe because of this also to leave, this is the result of the contrast effect, so what inspiration can we bring it to the exaggerated man?
First of all, what is the first foundation, we certainly can't praise others in front of him
To praise his brother in front of his face, is that not looking for death? We have to use it the other way around, because men's competitive psychology is actually stronger than women's. You can praise him in front of his friends, such as at a party you say: Oh, our family is responsible, at home, you want to give his friend a feeling that you especially adore your husband. As long as this feeling is expressed, his male desire to compete will come up, and immediately the heart will be particularly satisfied.
In addition to this, you can also sublimate this method a little more, just compared with his friends, now compare him with some well-known people, for example, when you chat with him, you can half-jokingly say, I see your side face more and more like who who, he asked who? The more you look at it, the more you look like Andy Lau, and then you turn me around to see.
There are a lot of people who say it's too watery and open their eyes and talk nonsense, but I tell you, you should never underestimate a man's confidence, he really will believe it, and he will be dead on this point.
In addition to Andy Lau, you can also say a lot, for example, when you hold me, I feel lying on Peng Yuyan's chest muscles, can be, when you say these words, he himself will feel particularly satisfied, even if he knows that you are making him happy, but he is really happy, has he learned?