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In feelings, it is always easy to love each other and difficult to keep each other. Two people can come together and go on for a long time, what is needed is the management of both sides.
No matter how good the feelings, they also need to be treated with heart, not blindly pleasing.
If you want to maintain a good relationship, you should know how to maintain and know how to treat it sincerely. It is said that love has no skills, and sincerity is a must-kill skill.
True love is never about pleasing one side or compromising on one side, but on doing three things.
Unconditional trust
To love someone, you must choose to believe in him, no matter what happens, you will not hesitate to doubt.
True love is to know that the other party will not do anything to hurt himself, but will give the other party space and let him deal with his own affairs.
If a relationship is useless even the minimum of trust and respect, and no amount of love is useful, it will be consumed by the so-called love.
Feelings without trust are actually an empty shell, and the wind blows down. Only by trusting each other and facing problems together can such feelings stand the test.
You know, in the relationship will encounter a variety of problems, if you do not use enough trust, you will always hurt the feelings because of some small things, resulting in the final heart is consumed.
Everyone's trust is limited, and once it hurts, it decreases once. Therefore, if you truly love someone, you will choose to believe unconditionally.
Be as inclusive as possible
True love is probably to hope that the other party is happy and happy. Sometimes, I would rather wrong myself than let the other party be sad.
Then the person who truly loves you will try to accommodate you as much as possible, tolerate you, and make you happy.
Two people get along together, even if the feelings are good, there will be contradictions and disputes, there is nothing wrong with quarrels, but blindly calculating will hurt feelings.
For the person who really loves you, he will give in, will be willing to make concessions, compromises, and will not think too much.
In fact, many times, from the other party's attitude towards you, it is enough to see a person's intentions.
Lovers are more about putting you in their hearts, protecting you thoroughly, and will never let others hurt you, and they will not hurt you.
So, the person who has a problem and loves you will be the one who makes the concession. Because he is more afraid of losing you than he is.
Down to the details
It is said that good love will be implemented into the details, and true love is always implemented in the small things of dressing, eating, counting money, and sleeping.
Then the person who loves you will also implement love into the details, which will make you feel loved in the details of life.
Often great love, just look at the small things of life, the more attention to details, care about the details of people, in fact, are really from the heart to love you people.
Because he loves you, he will take care of you as much as possible, consider all kinds of small things, and use his own way and attitude to make you feel his sincerity.
In order to truly make a person feel love, in fact, it does not need to be a complicated skill, nor does it need to be blindly flattered, but only needs to be done with heart and paid.
In the details of life, pay more attention and leave more heart, the more the other party can feel your sincerity.
summary:
There are many ways to express love, but true love does not need to be flowery, but more to feel with the heart.
In fact, as long as you use your heart, you can feel a person's heart, love and no love are in the details.
The person who truly loves you has always been the one who knows how to be inclusive, willing to trust, and cares about details.