The same is the pursuit of girls, some boys can easily chase after their favorite girls, and some boys have repeatedly lost battles, repeatedly lost battles, and finally come up with a result of chasing girls who feel tired. Why is this happening?
In fact, a boy chases a girl repeatedly fails, feeling very tired, basically these 3 reasons:
First, the reason why chasing girls feels tired
1, and girls do not match high
Everyone has a heart for beauty, which leads to many boys only choosing beautiful and excellent girls to pursue.
Chasing such a girl, the energy and money paid is relatively high, after all, a good girl must attract more than just you a boy. Therefore, in such a fierce competition, it is easy to be eliminated if you are not careful, in such a tense situation, how can you not be tired?
2, too good for girls
This kind of behavior mostly happens to boys who are too deeply trapped, thinking that as long as they continue to be good to girls, they can exchange the favor of the goddess, and even pay their dignity for the girls they like. For example, the girl you like explicitly rejects you, and you still desperately try to be nice to her and give gifts like crazy. He turned himself into a person without dignity, just to ask her for an affirmation. The twisted melon is not sweet, and what you get in the end is not love! And it will only tire you out.
3, the mentality is not passed
Mentality is not enough, it is difficult to succeed in doing anything, when encountering problems, it is always negative and pessimistic, you can find excuses to shirk absolutely not put into practice, no pursuit, no ideals, life is a pool of stagnant water. Can such a person not feel tired of such a laborious and even thankless thing as chasing girls?
So how to chase girls so that they are not so tired?
Second, how to chase girls will not be so tired
1, find a girl who is worth the same as yourself
Since ancient love, pay attention to a door-to-door pair, if you don't want to chase girls feel so tired, then the gap between yourself and the girls you want to chase must not be too large, at least it is the kind that feels very compatible. If you really want to chase higher than yourself, then don't chase too much higher, choose the kind of person who can achieve her value with a little effort.
2, think more about the feelings of girls
As a boy, before chasing a girl, you must understand that you are chasing a girl, a woman with independent thoughts, a serious female mind, sensitive to the surrounding environment, and the most important inner feelings, in the essence of the difference between you and you, so in the process of getting along with girls, you must consider things more from each other's point of view, and consider each other's thoughts and feelings.
You can't always think about things from your own point of view, you have to consider things from the girl's point of view, make decisions based on each other's feelings, let the other party always be in a comfortable, natural, and happy state, let her as a woman get the good feelings you want in your heart, and you can easily chase her.
3, do not pay so much attention to results
Many boys will completely follow the marriage partner when pursuing girls, so that although it is true, it is easy to expose the sense of need and purpose of girls, because chasing girls is too close to her pressure, and a girl will feel upset when the pressure is great.
For example, every morning and evening and "check the household registration" type of information bombardment, inviting girls at every turn will bring pressure to girls, and they are also laborious and unflattering.
Want to pursue girls, to maintain a certain sense of rhythm, to have a relaxed, chase girls do not be greedy and greedy, because too early exposure of their sense of need, too much exposure of their purpose, will make you lose the initiative and control of this relationship, it is impossible to grasp this relationship, can only be decided by the girl, become very passive.
The process of getting along with girls must be gradual, take it slowly, and the moisturizer will slowly penetrate silently. If she also has a good feeling for you, then hit the iron while it is hot and make up her mind.