In 2019, wuhua county rescue station in Guangdong Province.
A strange woman with almost shaved hair stood timidly at the door of the aid station
From her demeanor, it can be seen that her mental state is not too normal, she does not even remember her own name, but she remembers the name of her brother.
The staff of the aid station lamented that they really had a deep affection between them, but the sister could clearly remember the information of the younger brother in such a state.
This woman is
Tuesday Gou's sister, Zhou Dongnu, has been lost for 10 years
When she left, her mental state was not too good, and it is still the same, and I don't know how much suffering she suffered outside in this state.
Watching the sister come back, the younger brother wept with joy, and the scene of the two embracing and crying also touched the volunteers, and their hearts were very warm and satisfied.
The sister came back, but the younger brother found that the sister's identity documents were all gone, and even the hukou was cancelled, which was a big problem for the younger brother who was not highly educated.
After that, the younger brother took his sister to run around and handle household registration related matters for the sister.
Unexpectedly, it involved thorny issues such as divorce certificates, and the processing process was extremely complicated, but fortunately, the volunteers helped him wholeheartedly.
Why did my sister get lost? Did the younger brother successfully restore his household registration for his sister?
How to go after the sister who is not in a bad mental condition?
Long 10 years of waiting
The younger brother said that the sister was lost in 2009 in Dalang Town, Dongguan, Guangdong Province.
At that time, he was working in the factory, he was a worker master, he had a dormitory, his sister came to the factory to play with him, he gave his dormitory to his sister to live, and then he went to find other workers to live in the men's dormitory.
My sister was very happy to stay here for a few days, and they went to many places together.
In fact, their sisters and brothers have a very good relationship since childhood.
The reason why the younger brother is willing to wait for his sister and guard his sister is also because he has always remembered his sister's help and care for himself when he was a child.
But when he was asked to go to the dormitory a few days later to look for his sister, he found that he couldn't find anyone, and he went to all the places nearby without his sister, and he realized that her sister might have gone missing.
Because my sister's state was not too good at that time,
He has been thinking about his eldest daughter since he divorced his ex-husband
But the court ruled that the eldest daughter lived with his father, so at the end of these years he missed his daughter very much and wanted to see her very much.
Because of this, knowing that his brother was extremely flustered after his sister was lost, he knew that his sister's mental condition was not good, and he did not dare to think about what terrible situations his sister would encounter after going out like this.
The younger brother was the last person to see his sister, and he felt that if her sister could remember herself, she would be able to return to the place where she had gone to find him.
So he stayed in Dalang Town waiting for his sister
At the same time, he has been privately inquiring about the whereabouts of his sister.
"He has a cell phone and knows my number, but he hasn't contacted me and I can't contact him."
This was the strangest thing for my brother, who had a cell phone when she left, but hadn't made a phone call in all these years.
The good situation is that the sister's mobile phone is lost and broken, I dare not imagine, all these years he is alone in search of his sister, there is an old father in the family, his eldest brother has a big son to take care of, so the task of finding his sister falls on his shoulders.
He would every time he looked for his sister.
First go to the nearby places where there are tramps, look at them one by one, confirm one by one, and also ask them if they have seen their sisters. But so many years have come to naught.
He also went to the police at the Dalang police station, but he never got the news.
10 years is a long time, long enough to wear away a person's hopes, but the younger brother has never given up looking for his sister, he has been waiting for his sister in Dalang Town, if the sister has not come back, he is willing to wait for a lifetime.
He is in his 40s and is still single.
Huang Tian paid off, and after a full 10 years, in 2019, he finally got the news of his sister.
Because he had asked everyone around him about his sister over the years, his friends and colleagues around him knew that he had a sister who had gone missing, and this time it was also a friend who showed up at the volunteer and heard the news, and then quickly told him.
After the wuhua county aid station in Guangdong Province found the sister, it posted the sister's information on the Internet, and then the volunteers in Ji'an City saw the information and contacted them.
After that, volunteers from the two places jointly established a working group, and the news heard by my brother's colleagues was released by volunteers in Ji'an City.
When the younger brother met his sister at the aid station, a heart that had been hanging for 10 years finally sank, and it was not in vain that his 10 years of persistence were not wasted.
Immediately after checking in at the aid station,
He took his sister back to his hometown of Jishui County, Ji'an City.
The younger brother's family was very poor, and there was their old father, who was too old to do too much labor.
The money he earned from his own part-time work was only enough for himself to survive, and in the 10 years of looking for his sister, he was even more frugal and spent all his money on the blade, and now that he has found his sister, all the efforts for him are worth it.
Sister who was abused domestically
When the reporter interviewed his brother, he once asked him why his sister went missing 10 years ago.
The memory did not seem to be very pleasant, and his brother's eyebrows were wrinkled when he recalled, and he sighed softly and said his guess.
He believes that his sister's current point is because of the previous failed marriage, and her mental condition was still normal before the divorce, but after the divorce, her sister's mental condition became bad because she missed her daughter too much.
The younger brother confessed that if the sister's marriage at that time had not failed so much, she would not have been like this today, and the sister before marriage was gentle and considerate, cheerful and smiling. A series of upheavals occurred after marriage.
"Her ex-husband abused her domestically and often beat her, she never told me, and later I found out about it myself and only learned about it after asking."
At that time, the sister and ex-husband already had a daughter, the sister is a more traditional person, she believes that with children should stick to the family, so even if the ex-husband is violent, she did not say that she wanted to divorce.
And she's doing her best to take care of the family, to take care of the kids.
But her quest for perfection still did not allow the family to continue, and her husband's attitude towards her remained unchanged.
After this situation lasted for a while, the younger brother found that his sister was still often abused by his brother-in-law, so he solemnly told his sister his thoughts, and he hoped that her sister could consider herself and divorce her husband at the time.
The younger brother is a responsible person, he told his sister that if there is any need for help after the divorce, you can come to him, and he will unconditionally support and help his sister.
There is such a considerate and responsible brother, the sister is very touched, and it is precisely because of such a strong backing that the sister bravely stepped out of the step of divorce.
"At that time, I didn't interfere too much in their family affairs, I just told my sister about the divorce in a suggestive tone.
Divorce is a voluntary choice between the spouses. ”
After the divorce, the sister did not win custody of her daughter, and the daughter lived with his father.
Since then, her sister's state has changed, she misses her daughter very much, and she is always depressed even when she is with her brother.
Later, her sister went outside to work again, and she met a man from Jiangsu in the factory, and after the two lived together, they gave birth to a son, but this did not seem to offset the sister's miss for her daughter.
After that, her sister's state became worse and worse, and finally she became taciturn, did not like to talk or laugh, and always hid her heart in her heart, but she could not digest it herself, so she became what she is now.
This went on for several years, that is, when she went to Guangdong to play with her brother, she went out alone and never came back.
The younger brother suspected that it might be because the sister did not have any identity documents with her at the time, so there was no way to go out and come back, and she may not be in a very sober state at that time.
The Road to Salvation
After finding his sister, his brother cherished it very much, he followed his sister almost inseparably, afraid of the scene of 10 years ago, he did not want to lose his sister again.
Every time he went out to work, he would tell his old father not to do anything, and find his sister-in-law and let her take care of his sister-in-law.
Nevertheless, once there was a near change, that time he had something to go out, he was ready to buy some clothes, shoes and socks and other necessities of life for his sister, he also instructed his old father and sister-in-law, but when he returned home, he suddenly could not find his sister.
His heart was panicked, his heart fluttered and jumped out, he quickly ran out to look for it, and finally fortunately his sister returned, it turned out that she was out to play.
Since then, he has been more careful, and although her sister is not in a good state, she can clearly remember her brother's name and recognize him, so she is more obedient to this brother.
After basically settling down, the younger brother was busy restoring the household registration of the sister, because the sister's ID card and other documents were lost, and even the household registration was cancelled.
He went to the place where the household registration was administered to inquire, and the answer was that he needed to provide his sister's divorce certificate.
Because at that time, when my sister married, the hukou was moved with the marriage, and to re-apply for the hukou in the mother's family, it was necessary to provide a divorce certificate.
The younger brother hurried to find the former brother-in-law, but the former brother-in-law actually lost the divorce certificate, and the explanation he gave was that he had remarried, and his current wife had lost everything before.
There was no way, he could only go to various departments to ask how to apply for a divorce certificate, his education level was not high, he did not know where to go to ask, after inquiring, he went to the Civil Affairs Bureau and the court, but did not ask the results.
Fortunately, when the local volunteers came back and forth to see the follow-up, they found this problem and took the initiative to help their brother, and they went together
The Jishui court finally successfully applied for divorce documents.
The reporter found that when handling these things, he had never seen his family other than his brother come out, and the younger brother explained that his eldest brother was not easy, and there were seven or eight people in a large family.
And the eldest brother's daughter was born intellectually abnormal, which made their lives even more difficult.
When the eldest brother was interviewed, he also sincerely said that his ability was not enough, I am afraid he could not help much, all he could do was to help at dinner, and the rest was not enough.
Although their family is not rich, this unity and mutual help between them is still touching. None of them gave up helping Zhou Dongnu because of her abnormal mental state and inability to work.
After preparing the divorce certificate, the reporters, volunteers and their brother came to the Pangu police station in Jishui County.
The police at the police station warmly received the reporter and his entourage.
He said that there was no such thing as pushing and blocking as his brother said
, has been helping them through the program, but not yet down.
Because the police explained that at that time, it may have been when the ID card was changed from the first generation to the second generation, and Zhou Dongnu was urged to change the ID card many times, but there was no reply, and the local village cadres reported that they were missing, so later there was a situation where the hukou was cancelled.
"So what materials are needed now?" The reporter asked.
The police said that now they only need Zhou Dongnu herself or her family to write an application, they will hand it over to the county public security bureau, and after approval, they can replace her second-generation ID card.
After the problem of identity card and hukou was solved, his brother's heart finally settled, and he was ready to apply for a minimum guarantee for his sister, because his personal income was not enough to take care of their family.
He came to the village committee to inquire about the relevant situation of handling the minimum guarantee, and the village party secretary warmly received them and said that he would try his best to help them, because the situation of Zhou Dongnu was relatively clear in their village.
But now that the application for the first year of 2020 has passed, they need to wait for the second year.
The younger brother expressed his gratitude to the village party secretary, and then took his sister home.
The younger brother knew his sister's current state because he missed his daughter too much, so he called his niece's daughter with the mentality of trying it out and told her mother about her mother's current situation.
To his surprise, his niece is very sensible, and she says that she will take care of her mother with her uncle.
She did not dislike her mother at all, and immediately called 1500 yuan for her uncle to use first.
Later, she took the initiative to contact her uncle, saying that she would come over during the summer vacation, and then they would take their mother to the hospital for treatment.
The daughter that my sister misses also cares about her, and if my sister knows, she will be very moved.
When the reporter left that day,
The younger brother rode his sister on a tricycle and drove to the hospital again, and he was ready to take his sister to the hospital for injection treatment first, because he could not let his sister continue to be in this state
No matter how difficult it is, he will find a way to cure his sister.
The speed at which spring leaves is 15 miles north every day, and most people probably won't know that the cherry blossoms only bloom for ten days, and the spring breeze only blows for half a month, but the affection that is engraved in the blood is endless and eternal.
It is the luck of the sister to have such a brother, and such a sister is not the dependence of the younger brother's soul, I hope that the sister's mental state can get better, and I also hope that the younger brother's family is happy and life is smooth.