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01. Preface
Life is like a thick book, I thought it would take a long time to read it. However, when I looked at it, I found that the number of pages was running out, and whether I wanted to or not, I had to continue to turn page by page.
Time is the easiest thing in the world to consume, and in the blink of an eye, it has reached the twilight of its twilight years.
When I was young, I didn't have time to choose my favorite lifestyle, and in order to live, I had to run around. People are getting old, time is slowing down, and they can choose their favorite lifestyle.
Don't have to be sad, and don't always live in negative thoughts, but learn to use your time to enrich yourself in your old age and get more happiness.
The French writer Montaigne said: "If I can experience life again, I am willing to repeat my life, because I never regret my past, nor worry about my future." ”
No matter at what stage of life, maintain a new heart, look down on everything, live calmly, and let yourself have a regret-free life.
When people are old, they learn to "three indisputable", treat themselves well, and live in the present.
02, do not fight with friends for face, everything is looked down upon
When people are old, don't fight with others to win or lose, look down on everything, and don't have to live too calculatingly.
When people are old, they should give up some stubbornness and stop living so stubbornly. Everything is calm, calm down, learn to let go, learn to do subtraction.
In this vast red dust, the things we care about will actually be like clouds of smoke, no matter how hard we try to grasp it, it will eventually dissipate.
When people are old, don't waste time on winning or losing, but should make their lives calmer and simpler, and let themselves feel more happiness.
There are two sides to everything, the east corner is lost, and the mulberry elm is harvested.
The price that everyone has paid will eventually gain something on the other side. Don't care too much about the gains and losses. Get along with people, don't have to fight too much for face.
In life, everyone stands in a different position, has different feelings, and will definitely have different views on something. Do not fight to win or lose, everything is looked down upon, you can harvest more friendship.
Get along with people, don't have to envy others, and don't have to fight for so-called face. You envy others, in fact, you live in the envy of others.
03, do not compete with your family to win or lose, control your emotions
People are old, adjust their mentality. Learn to control your emotions and you will find that life is endlessly enjoyable.
When people are old, they should cherish the company of their families. Home, not a reasonable place, at any time, do not compete with your family to win or lose.
Being alive in life and having the privilege of becoming a family is a great blessing and fate. People live a lifetime, cherish the time spent together as a family.
Don't argue loudly with your family over anything. Don't get hurt by the quarrel, let the family that is close to each other have a gap between them from now on.
Born lonely, only relatives can bring warmth and care to everyone, let people forget loneliness, and feel that there are people accompanying them on the road of life.
Nothing is more important than family unity. Home and harmony, in order to be happy.
If a family encounters conflicts and contradictions, it is necessary to solve each other's problems in an appropriate way and do not have to win or lose.
When people are old, they can not accept defeat on the road of struggle, but don't argue with their families anymore.
Learn to control your emotions and cherish your time with your family. Because, the fate between the family is only in this life, and they will not see each other again in the next life.
When people get old, adjust their mentality, get along gently with their families, and let each other harvest more happiness.
04, do not fight with the lover "mouth", get along harmoniously
Young couples come together for a long time, which is a kind of happiness, but also a blessing.
If you say that when you are young, you have endless quarrels with your partner, there are too many incomprehensions between each other, you always see the shortcomings of each other, and you will complain to each other.
However, when people are old, they know that it is such a person who does not abandon his side and accompanies you through the long four seasons.
No matter the wind and rain, the lover has never let go, has never been afraid, has never turned away.
No matter how many grievances she has suffered, no matter how many bad encounters she has suffered in life, no matter how many times she has quarreled with each other.
When the children grow up, they have traveled far away, and they have a new life of their own, only their own partners, who are still with them all the time.
When people are old, stop arguing with their lovers, no matter what kind of things they encounter, relax their hearts and get along harmoniously.
In their old age, people grow vegetables with their lovers, chat together, and take a walk.
In the "Little Window Memoirs", it is written: "Do not be frightened, watch the flowers blossom and fall before the court; go to stay unintentional, and look at the clouds in the sky." ”
When people are old, it is a blessing to be able to be with their lovers and have such an idyllic life.
People always feel lonely when they are old, and there may be many people in life who come and go, and only their partners are left at the end. Cherish the time with your lover, even if the white hair is green, the teeth are loose, the legs and feet are not flexible, please treat the lover well and cherish the fate between each other.
05. Summary
When people get old, they learn to "three indisputable", live easy-going, and will live happier.
Milton wrote in Paradise Lost: "Learn to live in the simplest way possible, and don't let complex thoughts ruin the sweetness of life." ”
When people get old, they learn not to argue and make their lives more peaceful and happy. Don't let the people around you who love you get hurt, you will get more care and understanding.
Get along with people, don't be emotional, just don't say anything, hurt your family and children, and make your friends chill.
In everything, learn to look down, learn to let go. It is your own, and no one else can take it. It is not your own, and it is futile to fight and grab it.
People are old, live calmly, do not compare, do not worldly, do not consume their own positive energy, and actively face their own lives.
Adjust your mindset, live in the moment, and live every minute and every second of the moment with a different meaning.
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Author: Xia Mo, a cutting-edge emotional tutor, a psychologist, a popular emotional writer with more than 1 billion people on the Internet, a happy woman manager, who has focused on emotions, gender, and mother-in-law and daughter-in-law for more than ten years.