There has been a saying circulating in the CBA:
South Du Feng North Moko!
They are all among the best basketball players in the history of Chinese basketball.
Although Moko has a hot temper on the field, he is super capable, good at moving without the ball, and is considered to be Wang Zhizhi's successor.
Also because of its high appearance, it is called by fans"
The most handsome Chinese men's basketball player
”。
It seems that Moko's career prospects are very good, but at the age of 32, he made a surprising decision - to retire. That means the CBA is missing one player.
Moko gave up his sports career and chose to return to his family, all of which began with his marriage...
Moko, born in 1982 in Changchun, Jilin Province.
His father, Mo Liangui, was a basketball player who worked as a basketball coach at the Jilin Institute of Physical Education after retiring.
Since he was a child, he liked basketball, and when his father saw that his son was talented in basketball, he began to train him little by little and teach him how to play.
In elementary school, classmates came home from school to write homework, and he went to the sports academy to play basketball with his father.
The 13-year-old Moko, who has outstanding performance in basketball, entered the Shenyang troops men's basketball youth team and started his basketball career.
On the field, he is flexible, has excellent bouncing power, and moves fast, and was found by Yao Ming to enter the national team at the age of 17, and was transferred to the Bayi men's basketball team at the age of 18.
On the basketball court, Moko made a big splash, attracted the attention of the NBA, and issued an invitation to him.
His coach said:
Never mistake people's children, you can let it go at any time
。 Moko refused.
It was this decision that ushered in a short period of beautiful love.
In 2006, Wang Fan was already an excellent athlete, attracting the attention of the Bayi women's basketball team and inviting her to join. Not long after her arrival, she participated in the WCBA.
She is not satisfied with this, her idol is Moko, and she hopes to play on a bigger stage like her idol. To this end, she often practices in the gymnasium.
Once, Moko went to the gymnasium to train and found Wang Fan practicing. He did not leave, but stood by to observe Wang Fan's training.
From time to time, Moko would teach her. Wang Fan was excited to see the idol itself, and he was more excited to teach himself to train, and the mistakes he usually did not make appeared.
Moko told her that she could always find herself if there was anything she didn't understand. As soon as they came and went, the two became familiar and sparked love.
In 2009, Moko planned to propose marriage, hiding from Wang Fan, discussing how to propose marriage with friends of the men's basketball and women's basketball team, hoping to give her a romantic proposal ceremony.
He made an excuse that he had not seen Wang Fan for several days, in fact, he was quietly preparing a surprise. Wang Fan simply thought that he had been busy with training recently.
One day, Moko looked for Wang Fan's teammates and invited her to the basketball court to train, deliberately letting his teammates find trouble.
And Moko watched from the sidelines, waiting for Wang Fan to get angry, he walked up to Wang Fan with flowers, got down on one knee, took out the ring and said:
I love you forever, will you marry me?
Wang Fan was so excited that he could not speak, and nodded with tears in his eyes.
They found a suitable time for both parents to meet, and they were very satisfied with their son-in-law and daughter-in-law.
Wang Fan's parents saw Moko, who liked it more and more, and put the marriage of the two on the agenda.
Due to the competition, Moko and Wang Fan did not have time to hold the wedding ceremony, and the parents of both sides let them collect the certificate first.
They found a good time on September 9th, which meant that Moko and Wang Fan were together for a long time.
On the day of receiving the certificate, Moko assured Wang Fan that after the game, he would definitely give her a grand and romantic wedding ceremony.
Wang Fan had been looking forward to wearing a wedding dress to marry Moko, but unfortunately, she did not wait for this day.
In early 2010, Moko and Wang Fan were preparing for the competition, and the couple rarely saw each other.
When the game is played, the two may not be able to contact each other for two or three days. Even if you are in contact, you are calling to be safe.
After a thousand words, Moko was still injured.
In the bayi double deer match against Zhejiang Wanma, Moko fractured his ribs, and he did not let his teammates tell Wang Fan.
But Wang Fan still knew to tell her:
It's hard to imagine how uncomfortable you are, you don't want me to worry, but I'm happy to share your worries, you hurry up and get better.
His health had not yet improved, but something had happened to Wang Fan.
On January 24, Wang Fan was training with her teammates in the gym, and at first she was in good shape, but the next second, she fainted and fell to the ground.
The coach quickly called her to take her to Beijing 309 Hospital, and after examination, Wang Fan was found to have a disease."
Pulmonary infarction
"The chances of the disease being treated well are very small.
Moko, who was far away, was very happy to receive a call from his wife, and when he heard that the voice was not right, he thought that something bad had happened, and only heard the other end of the phone say:
Wang Fan is gone, you come back soon.
Regardless of his physical reasons, Moko ran out with tears in his eyes and took the car back to Beijing that afternoon.
Coming to the hospital, Wang Fan has entered the intensive care unit. Moko waited anxiously outside the door, and when he saw the doctor, he asked, how is Wang Fan?
The doctor said: The situation is not very optimistic, the family is mentally prepared, trouble the family to sign a notice of critical illness.
Moko broke down, trembled as he took the notice to sign, and cried and begged the doctor,
We must cure Wang Fan.
The doctor could only answer, doing his best.
Wang Fan's parents also rushed to the hospital crying, and Moko saw them pretending to be strong and said:
Mom and Dad, Wang Fan is all right, don't worry.
Moko and his father-in-law and mother-in-law waited anxiously at the door of the operating room, and the doctor came in and out. After several hours, Wang Fan finally came out of the operating room.
Mo ke saw that he ran directly to the hospital bed and looked at Wang Fan, and the tears in his eyes could not be stopped. The in-laws cried even more so much that they had no strength.
Wang Fan's lung infarction is more serious, although it has passed the dangerous period, but also to observe at any time, live in the ICU, there is a person around to take care of it.
Moko took himself and asked his father-in-law and mother-in-law to go back to the hotel to rest.
The daughter is going to die, and if the parents are in the mood to rest, they will stay outside with Wang Fan until the early hours of the morning.
It was only under Moko's persuasion that his father-in-law and mother-in-law agreed to rest:
Mom and Dad, as long as Wang Fan wakes up, I will call you as soon as possible.
He personally sent his father-in-law and mother-in-law to the hotel, settled down, rushed back to the hospital alone, sat in front of his wife's hospital room for one night, and prayed countless times that Wang Fan must wake up.
The next day, my father-in-law and mother-in-law rushed to the hospital early in the morning, and they could go in to see it, but they could only go in alone, and it was only ten minutes.
Although Moko wanted to see Wang Fan immediately, he also gave up this opportunity to his father-in-law and mother-in-law, after all, they had not seen their daughter for a long time.
The next time, Moko put on his protective suit and went inside to visit. Before going in, he promised not to cry, but when he saw that Wang Fan had lost weight, the tears fell without a fight.
He reached out and gently stroked her face and said:
I've been, don't be afraid!
Despite this, Wang Fan's condition has not improved and is getting more and more serious.
February 14th is the first Valentine's Day since Moko and Wang Fan got married. Long before, they had been discussing how to celebrate the holiday.
However, Wang Fan entered the ward, but Moko still prepared a Valentine's Day gift for her. Unfortunately, she never saw it again.
The next day, Wang Fan's electrocardiogram had been weakening, and the doctor rushed to operate on her. This time, she slept permanently.
Hearing the news, Moko seemed to fall from the sky, kneeling on the ground and crying, and his father-in-law and mother-in-law almost fainted.
Moko and Wang Fancai were married for 5 months, but they were separated by yin and yang, and he could not accept the facts.
Overnight the head went white.
Moko settled Wang Fan in Beijing, held at the Babaoshan Revolutionary Cemetery, and Zheng Haixia, Chen Nan, Ren Lei and other friends sent the last journey.
Moko held the statue of Wang Fan, shedding tears, each step heavy, and walked to the hall with difficulty.
My father-in-law and mother-in-law were crying into tears, while my friend was beside her to soothe her.
After the funeral, Moko was listless, as if there was no place for him in the world, depressed and drunk all day.
The coach around him wanted him to pick himself up and tell him:
Without Wang Fan, life would go on.
Moko said directly:
Without her, I had no hope of living, and it was better to die.
The coach said:
You still have basketball, have you forgotten your dreams?
Since being with Wang Fan, Moko has put her first, and losing Wang Fan is equivalent to losing the whole world.
Seeing that Moko did not respond, the coach said:
Wang Fan certainly doesn't want to see you like this now, and her parents also need your care.
As soon as he woke up the dreamer, Moko thought that his father-in-law and mother-in-law only had this one daughter, and they must be even more upset than himself.
When Moko saw his father-in-law and mother-in-law, he thought that Wang Fan was even more upset, and his father-in-law and mother-in-law comforted:
Child, you have to live well, but you can't have an accident.
Moko reinvigorated and said:
Well, Mommy and Daddy, I will be your own son from now on.
Since then, Moko has sorted out his mood and transferred his thoughts about Wang Fan to his father-in-law and mother-in-law, so that they can rely on them for an old age.
Every year, Moko accompanies his father-in-law and mother-in-law to visit Wang Fan and tell her:
You are at ease over there, and I have me taking care of our parents over here, you can rest assured.
He shouldered the responsibility of caring for his father-in-law and mother-in-law, giving them a salary every month.
At first, both of them would refuse, and Moco was relieved to be able to see them. But Moko had to give, and they could only accept it.
Usually, when Moko is fine, he will run to his father-in-law's mother-in-law's house, clean them up, and chat with them.
He also personally made a video of Wang Fan's usual training, as well as a video of the competition, clipped to a piece to give to his father-in-law and mother-in-law, if he wanted his daughter, he would take it out to see.
When his father-in-law and mother-in-law were sick, Moko would push everything away and take good care of them with his side.
His father-in-law and mother-in-law have also regarded him as their own son, and every time they come to the house, they eat and drink well and serve him.
When he was busy, his father-in-law and mother-in-law did not see him for several days, and they missed Moko very much and would call him to talk about home.
At first, my father-in-law and mother-in-law were worried that it would delay his work. Later, Moko told them that if they missed him, or if there was something wrong, they could just call him.
But when he saw his father-in-law and mother-in-law, Moko still thought of the time he spent with Wang Fan. After I go back, I have to be sad for several days.
His physical fitness has declined, and since Wang Fan fell ill, he has gradually left the basketball game and returned to the game.
When his father-in-law and mother-in-law found out, they tried to help him out of the predicament.
One day in 2012, Moko went to visit his father-in-law and mother-in-law as usual, and after eating, he was busy in the kitchen when he was called by his father-in-law and mother-in-law.
The mother-in-law said in a heavy voice:
Wang Fan has also been gone for almost a year, and you can't be so decadent all the time, you should start a new life.
Moko says:
I didn't want to start a new life, and I couldn't let go of Wang Fan in my heart.
The mother-in-law said:
If there is the right person, agree, don't miss it, I and your dad are supportive.
After he went back, the team members began to introduce him to the object, and he was quite angry and said: I don't look for an object, don't delay the girl.
But his teammates told him he must meet and make a decision after seeing them. Moko agreed by default.
After being introduced, Moko met the swimmer Zhou Yafei. The first time they met, they told her that he still had a wife in his heart.
Zhou Yafei said:
We're not going to get married, let's be friends first.
Later, Zhou Yafei often chatted with Moko and had difficulties in asking him for help.
One after the other, they became acquainted, went with nature, and went to attend the wedding of their friend Zhang Qingpeng.
At the wedding, Moko took to the stage as a friend to send blessings to the couple.
After finishing the matter, he invited Zhou Yafei to the stage, took the bouquet in the bride's hand, took out the prepared ring, and knelt down on one knee to propose.
Zhou Yafei was very surprised, covered her mouth and shed tears, and agreed to his marriage proposal.
In the same year, in October, Moko and Zhou Yafei held a wedding in their hometown, and also went to the woman's hometown to hold a wedding banquet.
Wang Fan's parents saw their son-in-law, met the beautiful happiness again, sent blessings, and were very happy.
Zhou Yafei and Moko have one condition for marriage,
He continued to support his father-in-law and mother-in-law.
Zhou Yafei is very supportive of his decision and is willing to work with him to raise Wang Fan's parents.
In 2014, Moko announced his retirement, stayed as a coach, and had a son and a daughter with Zhou Yafei. Have a happy and happy family, and do not forget Wang Fan's parents.
He led Zhou Yafei to see his former father-in-law and mother-in-law, and was very satisfied with the little girl, telling them to be together.
And Zhou Yafei also treated Wang Fan's parents as parents.
Usually, when Moko was busy, he couldn't visit his former father-in-law and mother-in-law, and Zhou Yafei would visit him for him and buy a lot of things for the two old people.
Sometimes, Moko and Zhou Yafei would take the children to visit together, and let the children call their grandparents and play with them.
The old man was very happy with the children, and he was very reluctant to leave the family before leaving.
Although the old family likes their family, they will also tell you to be busy, not to use it so often, I and your father are in good health, can support themselves.
Moko said yes, but he still had to visit and give gifts every New Year's Day.
Although Moko can't be with Wang Fan and has a new family, he loves her in another way.
Moko has a deep affection for Wang Fan and his father-in-law and mother-in-law, and such a son-in-law is rare to see, because he has love and love for this family.
We can live in this beautiful world because our parents have raised us, and our fathers-in-law and mother-in-law are also parents, and we should be filial piety.
Parents love and love, parents respect and respect.