On October 30, 2022, in the ninth round of the regular season of the China Men's Professional League, two teams, one black and one white, were fiercely pitted, wearing black jerseys for the powerful Liaoning team and white for the young Sichuan team, and finally the Liaoning men's basketball team defeated the Sichuan men's basketball team 102-85.
Liaoning men's basketball has always attracted public attention, in addition to star players such as Guo Allen, Liaoning team coach Yang Ming also quickly broke the circle because of "mainly responsible for coaching".
Speaking of appearance, Sichuan team coach Moke, who stood opposite Yang Ming, was also a rare fresh meat handsome guy in the hearts of fans. Born in a basketball family, 2.10 meters tall, high nose and big eyes. Although he showed a rather fiery temper on the field and was not good at words in private, such a strong sense of contrast made it difficult for many fans to resist its charm.
In the eyes of fans, in addition to playing and appearance, Moko's greater charm lies in his affection.
He once had a short marriage, and then held hands with "Asian butterfly queen" Zhou Yafei and had a son and a daughter, in both marriages, Moko showed his responsibility and responsibility as a man, becoming a man as tall as his height.
Youth companion
At the end of December 2009, the CBA league was in full swing. The Bayi men's basketball team, which once had a brilliant record, is now in decline, but the players still play their military colors, fight hard without giving up, and finally won a battle against defeat into victory.
It's just that the house leak happened to rain overnight, and this hard-won victory made the Bayi men's basketball team break another big general, and the main Moko broke two ribs, and it took at least 4-6 weeks of injuries.
Moko himself was anxious, wanting to be a tough guy who insisted on playing and was blocked by his teammates and coaches, and this time the injury was indeed more serious, and every time he breathed, talked, and coughed, there was pain.
The ribs are no better than the limbs, and they must be recuperated, and in desperation, Moko had to stay in Ningbo to recuperate, but in exchange, he told his buddies to "never tell Xiong Xiong".
Three months ago, on September 9, 2009, on an auspicious day that symbolizes a long time, Moko and his "bearing" Wang Fan received a license to marry.
Moke's father Mo Liangui is a famous player in Chinese basketball, his mother is a Jilin women's basketball player, and his sister Molly was also a national player in Chinese women's basketball.
Before Wang Fan, Moke had also talked about several girls, but only Wang Fan gave him the idea to settle down.
Compared with Moko, who has long been famous, his bride Wang Fan is just a budding female player of the Bayi team. She is very beautiful and beautiful, considerate and kind, and treats basketball like an obsession, two people together, there are endless words, endless fun.
Moko wanted to spend the rest of his life with this wonderful girl, so he planned an interesting marriage proposal on the sidelines, deliberately making Wang Fan angry, before kneeling down and handing over flowers, promising to protect her well.
Newlywed Yaner, but the bride and groom do not have time to enjoy this rare sweet time, Moko wants to play CBA, Wang Fan also has to prepare for WCBA game training, the small couple separated from the two places can only call once every few days, explain that each other pays attention to safety, and then devote themselves to intense game training.
As professional basketball players, they are used to this kind of scene of gathering less and leaving more, but this league is still different from the past.
Not only are they two of them, but they both have a strong motivation to support them: when the league is over, they will have a romantic wedding, and the bride and groom will put on their basketball suits and wedding dresses and walk hand in hand into their newly renovated home.
Moko was injured in Ningbo, his teammates were still struggling on the court, and he could only lie in a hotel to recuperate, which was quite unpleasant.
How nice it would be if my wife could be around at this time! But thinking that Wang Fan was still training in Beijing, Moko didn't want to affect his wife's state and decided to hide it first.
After a few days, Wang Fan finally learned the news of her husband's serious injury from the news, and she was distressed and unable to rush over to take care of it, so she had to tell Moke to cultivate well, and after speaking, he threw himself into the training game.
Not only did Moke hide the news of his injury from his wife, but Wang Fan also often fell ill without telling her husband.
They are all soldiers, all athletes, and they are used to injuries and not worrying their families. Wang Fan ran to the hospital for three days and two days to get exhausted, and Moko also advised her not to be reckless, and if she couldn't insist, she would rest.
But Wang Fan still loves basketball, they are getting married and will have children in the future, this may be her last league participation, she does not want to miss it.
The days of recuperation are longer than usual every day, almost a month, Moko's injury has gradually improved, and after a while he can play with his teammates, and after a while, he can meet with Wang Fan and walk into the palace of marriage together, thinking of his wife and the upcoming wedding, his long-depressed mood has opened up a lot.
The love is shallow
At four o'clock in the afternoon on January 24, 2010, the tall and athletic girls of the Bayi women's basketball team were doing pre-game training,、。 They were about to play against the Beijing women's basketball team in the WCBA league, only some stretching, and before they started to exercise vigorously, suddenly a figure in the team fell...
On the afternoon of January 24, Moke, who was still recovering from injuries in Ningbo, received a call from his teammates, saying that his wife Wang Fan had been transported to a coma during training, and his condition was somewhat serious, and he had been sent to Beijing 309 Hospital for treatment.
Moke, who had not yet recovered his ribs, immediately rushed back to Beijing that afternoon, and as soon as he arrived at the hospital, he learned that Wang Fan had entered the emergency room, and his teammates told Moke that at the beginning of the afternoon training, Wang Fan fainted without warning, and after intense rescue, Wang Fan woke up for a while.
The team took her to Hospital 309 for examination, where she went to the bathroom, where she passed out completely and was then pushed into the intensive care unit.
Looking at his unconscious new wife, Moko suddenly burst into tears, and the pain of breaking two ribs was far less than the heartache of watching his lover struggle on the edge of life and death.
Moke anxiously waited in the hospital for the news of Wang Fan's wake-up, but the diagnosed pulmonary infarction made the situation quite unoptimistic, and soon Wang Fan's parents came from Tangshan to accompany their daughter, and Moke's parents also came from Shenyang to see their unconscious daughter-in-law.
The family waited outside the ward, but Wang Fan never woke up. Wang Fan's heartbeat and breathing stopped for a time, but under the doctor's dedicated treatment, he eased up, and the team invited many expert consultations, and more than ten days of intense rescue finally stabilized his condition.
Due to the arrangement requirements of the intensive care unit, Moko can only come to the ward to accompany his comatose wife for 30 minutes a day, and he will come to the hospital in advance every afternoon, first thinking alone outside the ward for a while, and then go in in protective clothing and sit beside Wang Fan to talk to her.
Tell her about the funny things that happened between them, about their upcoming wedding, about their future life plans, about how they all looked gray after a long time, but his wife didn't even shake her eyelashes.
"Outside the door of the ICU, watching my house bear there, anxiously waiting for news that she is getting better little by little! I can feel her strength and she will let us see her perseverance again!
Every time I could visit, uncontrollable tears welled up, and if I thought about it outside the door, when I arrived at her side, it turned into distress and tears! Every day there is good news, this is my good daughter-in-law, this is my bear!
I've always believed that she can get through this because our wedding ceremony hasn't taken place yet, all the preparations are waiting for the holiday at the end of this league, she hasn't put on her wedding dress, she hasn't put on a diamond ring, and she will be a mom in the future...
I'm pretty sure she won't give up easily, because she said she's going to annoy me for the rest of my life! Xiongxiong, my husband is waiting for you! Mom and Dad are waiting for you! Everyone is waiting for you! ”
A few days after Wang Fan's condition stabilized, Moko could even return to the team to compete, during which he posted a blog post with a truly touching text, and the photo showed a hand with a ring on its ring finger.
Although he and his parents are ready for Wang Fan to become a vegetative person, he is still waiting for his new wife to wake up, he wants to see her beautiful appearance when she wears the wedding dress, and he wants to put a brilliant diamond ring on her with his own hands.
"There are many, many things for both of us to do, because life will get better and better in the future, she will not have to train anymore, she will not have to compete anymore, and she can be a good wife and mother."
"Her parents and my parents are all ready for her to become vegetative, but I didn't expect..." However, in less than two weeks, Wang Fan's situation took a sharp turn for the worse, "I saw her heartbeat on the monitor weaken little by little, and then little by little... Then...... I was crazy..."
It was the most torturous and painful Valentine's Day Moko had ever spent, and his wife Wang Fan was in danger, but he had no choice but to wait.
Perhaps Wang Fan also sensed the deep affection of her husband at the moment of life and death, she persevered strong until the last moment, accompanied Moko to spend the last Valentine's Day, and Wang Fan died at 19:00 on February 15, 2010. At Wang Fan's funeral, Moko presented a touching and profound salutation: "Bear, love you without regret!" ”
Everything was best arranged
Wang Fan left, the new house they had time to move into in the future was empty, and Moke's heart was also empty. He put all his energy into the game, and usually became more and more silent, looking at the increasingly emaciated Moko, his family and teammates were very distressed.
Half a year after Wang Fan's death, Moke suddenly received a call from his friend Du Feng, saying that his mother-in-law, Coach Yao Ying, was going to invite Moke to dinner, and asked him if he remembered Zhou Yafei he met during the Doha Olympics.
Zhou Yafei's famous Moke must know that he has broken quite a few world records, Asian records and national records, known as the "Asian Butterfly Queen", and is also their comrade-in-arms of the Bayi team, Du Feng's mother-in-law Yao Ying's proud protégé.
To know is to know, but to say that you know, it is really not counted. At the 2006 Asian Games in Doha, coach Yao Ying came to Moko and asked him if he had a girlfriend, ready to match Zhou Yafei, who was like a daughter, with his favorite basketball player Moko.
At that time, Moko already had a girlfriend, so he said that he could give a contact information, Zhou Yafei followed Coach Yao Ying to take a look, and felt that the boy was tall and handsome, but when he heard that he had a girlfriend, he said directly: "A girlfriend also wants me to call, don't give it." ”
After learning that Moke's new wife died, Coach Yao Ying asked his son-in-law Du Feng again, Zhou Yafei has no boyfriend, Moke is now alone, can he match again.
Zhou Yafei was also impressed by Moke: "My coach, Coach Yao Ying, she likes him (Moke) very much, she once said that there are only two handsome Chinese men's basketball teams, one is Moke and the other is Du Feng. Du Feng has become her own son-in-law. I have been with the coach for ten years, and she also treats me like a daughter, which is equivalent to saying the eldest daughter and the second daughter. In the summer of 2010, coach Yao Ying asked her son-in-law Du Feng to contact Moke, and then saved a game, and we met. ”
Zhou Yafei was born in a happy and harmonious big family, from childhood to adulthood, ten fingers do not touch the spring water of the sun, all the elders are quite fond of her, so she has created a sunny and optimistic, windy and hot personality. Not only is he competitive on the field, but he can't wait too long in emotional matters.
In Coach Yao Ying's bureau, Zhou Yafei took the initiative to ask Moke for his phone, and then took the initiative to call him out for dinner, people said that women chased men with a veil, but Zhou Yafei's several invitations were rejected by Moke.
The two are indeed opposite in personality, and Moko also said: "Because collective projects pay attention to collective cooperation." Take basketball, in order to play the comprehensive strength of five people, the embodiment of the team's strength is often determined by the weakest person and the person who is short. As for her project, she has to work very hard to overcome difficulties. ”
Moko had few words, and he was so tired after a day of training that he couldn't open his mouth, and the pain of his wife's death had not eased, so the whole person was still immersed in a melancholy mood. Zhou Yafei was like a little sun, accompanying Moke when he was extremely tired, and didn't care if Moko responded or not, twittering and talking, but seeing Moke's relaxed smile, she knew that she was doing the right thing.
At a friend's wedding in 2012, Moke proposed to Zhou Yafei in surprise, which made his friends shout: "Young Master Mo can make such a move, that really shocked me." ”
After the bride threw the bouquet, Moko walked up to the stage and said: "Please my fiancée, in a simple word, girl, marry me, I can't wait, I will love you for the rest of my life." ”
Zhou Yafei said that Moko is not a romantic person, and even the relationship is provoked by friends, but the marriage proposal is unforgettable for her life. For Moke, Zhou Yafei also changed, she didn't know where the kitchen knife she was pampered by her family was before, and later she could fill a table before entertaining Moke's teammates; Mo Shao, who also has ten fingers that do not dip into the spring water of the sun, also obediently brushed the bowl after eating.
On May 16, 2022, Zhou Yafei posted four pictures on her personal social account, she was wearing a white veil, Moko was wearing a white shirt and black trousers, and the couple hugged each other, looking very sweet, this is a commemorative photo of their tenth wedding anniversary.
In the past ten years, Moko has become a coach from a player, from the sudden loss of his wife to a husband to a father, Zhou Yafei has been inseparable from him, and brought two little angels to his life, the eldest daughter is eight years old, the younger son is waist-high, and the family is harmonious and beautiful.
Zhou Yafei is very generous and kind, since the two got married, Moke will drive to Tangshan to visit Wang Fan's parents in his free time, Zhou Yafei is very supportive and will prepare small gifts for Wang Fan's parents.
But every time the old man graciously invited her to go with Moko, Zhou Yafei would politely refuse, not because of care, but because he didn't want the old man to touch the deepest pain in his heart when he saw her.
Moko once said in an interview: "I hope that my son and daughters can be like Jia Ling's mother said in "Hello, Li Huanying", don't force it, it will be very tired, just be happy, let it be, everything is the best arrangement. ”
This sentence also seems to be what Moko wants to say to his two wives separately. For Wang Fan, how he hoped that she would not be so forceful and not so tired. But force majeure, Si people are over, Zhou Yafei has become his best arrangement.