Zhang Xiaoxian said in "Later I Learned to Love Myself": "No matter how many people you have loved, no matter how painful or happy you love, in the end, you have not learned how to fall in love, but how to love yourself." ”
Every woman looks forward to encountering a love that is white to old, but in fact, people's hearts will always change, and if they are not trusted, women will also take out their own "thin feelings" to treat each other.
And the truly desperate woman does not choose to directly break off contact with this man, but to vividly reflect "mourning is greater than heart death" in life.
A woman who genuinely wants to give up a relationship doesn't necessarily have to break the bond.
There are many times when the disconnection is left to each other's hopes, she hopes that you can find, to redeem, and even hope that your departure can make you have regrets in your heart and keep her shadow.
And the woman who quietly says goodbye to you from the bottom of her heart is really going to leave you. They tend to choose other ways, for example, the following three.
Neither sad nor joyful
Women are emotional animals, if her heart contains you, then your words and deeds will affect her mood, affect her sadness and joy.
If she no longer loves you, then your sadness and joy naturally cannot affect her emotions.
Leaves don't turn yellow every day, and people's hearts don't get cooler by a day. When you let her down again and again, despair arises from the bottom of your heart, then don't blame her for being cruel.
At this point, she will subconsciously avoid you, do not want you to be near her, and she will not respond to any action you make.
Every woman hopes that men can hold up a gentle world for themselves, but when this man continues to bring storms to a woman's life, women will become more and more independent and quieter.
When a man's mood swings can no longer touch a woman's heart, it means that the woman has no concern for him. At this time, she most wants to spend her time on herself, and the one she wants to please most is herself.
Not noisy or noisy
When a woman really lets go, nothing you do has anything to do with her. She won't ask of you anymore, and she won't force the past anymore, stressing how much she has paid for you.
Everyone who can't put it down is always too attached to the past, thinking about how you once had so much beauty, why you have now come to the current situation.
And when a woman, in the face of all your behaviors that violate the love between you, is no longer noisy, it can be seen that the disappointment in her heart has evolved into despair.
She has seen through you and the relationship, and she knows that even if she makes a big fuss, it will not help. What comes back is just a moment of peace and disguise, not your heart.
In this way, there will be no more waves in a woman's heart. When you slowly consume the only enthusiasm she has for you, the intersection between you is only indifference.
Those stories that we once thought would never be finished have already written a sad ending, and those who thought they would never leave have long given up the hope of continuing after being heartbroken.
Don't listen
When a woman is heartbroken by you, she will subconsciously draw a line with you in her heart. The most direct way to express it is to ignore all your concerns.
In her heart, you are just an unrelated passerby, and she is indifferent to everything about you, because these things have nothing to do with her.
When a woman loves you, she will treat you as the whole of life and you as the whole world. And when she surrounds you all day and you hurt her without fear, she will eventually learn to let go.
A woman's gentle consideration will give to the person who deserves it, and when you have become a thing of the past in her heart, she will not look in the direction you are.
Feelings can not withstand consumption, when there is an unbridgeable gap between two people, can not see the future, women naturally silently let go.
When a woman no longer cares about your affairs, no longer cares about your news, and no longer looks in your direction, then she has already returned your previous feelings to the sea of people.
A woman who has been hurt by feelings, her heart is indifferent, she will not go to luxury, nor will she look back.
Zhang Ailing said: "If a person is not free, it is because he does not want to be free, if a person cannot leave, it is because he does not want to go away, and if a person has too many excuses for you, it is because he does not want to care." ”
Li Moxuan in "Divine Eagle Hero" was tired by a man all his life, and was expelled from the division for Lu Zhanyuan, and finally, he was disappointed by Lu Zhanyuan, and he was still willing to die in the sea of fire for this man.
Li Moxuan touched himself with this self-sacrificing way, but he never touched this man.
Truly intelligent women know how to "desperately love".
They don't always pin their feelings on the man who hurt them, and at the moment of letting go, they also let go of their own humility.
When a woman is not sad or happy when she faces you, not noisy, not listening or asking. There is no doubt that you have broken her heart and are irretrievable.
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[Wen | Wei Wei'an: the pen has temperature, for the voice of emotion, an atypical writer who loves words, invites you to perceive life together]