Hello everyone, I am The Ghost Master Brother.
Recently, in the tree hole, I received several messages.
"After the internship, I moved out to live, so comfortable, I don't have to face my disliked roommates every day."
"Kao Kao reluctantly went ashore, and in the process he saw a selfish friend."
"I'm counting down every day and how many days I have left to graduate and leave them."
I don't know how many people have ever had similar ideas, but it's interesting that interpersonal interactions in college are sometimes like making things up, with good luck meeting confidants and bad luck putting up with each other for a few years.
Interpersonal relationships, dormitory relationships, and class relationships in colleges are arguably the most asked questions in recent years.
Some people, if it weren't for the coincidence of being assigned to the same dormitory, the same class, might not really want to know them.
@XIN：
Four years of college, four years of depression.
I was like an outlier in the dormitory, only I was afraid of skipping class, only I was not so athletic, and I was the only one who was an outsider.
They felt that I was out of place, and I tried to fit in with them, but my life and study habits were different and uncomfortable.
In addition to taking notes before the final exam, everyone will remember me more when taking the key points, and usually go to supper and rarely call me together.
I had been thinking for a long time whether there was something wrong with me that I couldn't find a good friend in the dormitory.
This confusion came to the day of graduation, and I did not solve it.
Until I found that someone deleted my WeChat, I directly withdrew from the dormitory group and deleted the other three people. I was once afraid to go far with them, and in the end I found that they would never appear in my life again.
Instantly comfortable.
@JoyJoy：
You can say that I am in love with the brain, and you can joke that I stuck to my boyfriend all day in college.
It was my early encounter with the person I wanted to marry, and it wasn't my fault.
I love to dress more hotly, and I don't know what this has to do with my character.
But during my college years, even my friends around me would gossip behind my back. I didn't have a choice, because there were 2 girls in the class, we lived with my sister, and when my sister graduated, I was the only one left, me and her.
I was also very concerned at first, learning to meet my boyfriend less, and almost changing the clothes in the closet. In fact, she won't change, it's just that I'm unhappy.
When I graduated, I prepared gifts for her, wanted to ask her to come to my house to play, although there was some unhappiness, and I also hoped to say goodbye happily.
But on the eve of the appointed day, I had everything ready and told me I didn't want to come.
Okay, it gave me an answer.
@can also:
I understand that his family is not well-off, so a lot of things are accountable.
Therefore, when playing, sometimes we will secretly use our own meal card to brush him, when playing ball, we will never be able to ask him to buy water, usually the hot water card is always inserted into our card, his card rarely needs to be recharged.
We took care of his feelings, and when we evaluated the scholarship, it was obvious that another friend had a higher score, and he voluntarily quit saying that he did not need it.
We thought we didn't need to say these things, he would understand.
When he was about to graduate and look for a job, he sighed that he did not have the right clothes, and the formal clothes of the people in our dormitory did not fit him, so we also paid for a set for him.
When a few of us were still anxious about the work, we did not forget to recommend some positions to him, and as a result, he successfully entered the job, we asked him if he could help hand over his resume, but he did not hand it in, lied to us and said that he gave, and the leader could not see it.
If I hadn't submitted my resume and interviewed it later, I wouldn't have known I was fooled.
I understand that he may be afraid that we will take his chances, but if it is selfish to treat friends, it is better not to be friends.
@Yan Temple:
When my friend fell out of love and said that he wanted to find someone to accompany me, I and my boyfriend from a different place could not pass the anniversary, and I went to lie on the playground with her and cry for a night.
When I fell out of love, she told me: If he is so good to you, will it be your problem.
Friends, sometimes it's really a luxury.
When you are studying, you may play ball together, go to class together, eat together, or play games together, and you are very good friends.
But when you're not happy with each other and want someone you trust most to accept your emotions, they may back off.
You may wonder if something is wrong with you.
Is it not that you are not good enough to run a good relationship.
And rarely think about it, in fact, this friendship can not stand the test at all.
I used to care about the evaluation of the people around me, envying others to be able to play together, and I was like a maverick.
Yeah, I have a problem with myself so I can't fit in.
But it must be my own fault.
You have given sincerity, but what others have given you is not necessarily a sincere response.
Then these relationships, whether they are maintained or not, may or may not be.
Lonely?
Lonely.
Pity?
What a pity.
But do you feel bad about yourself?
It's very uncomfortable.
If you leave this circle, some people really make themselves uncomfortable, let yourself go.
It's like someone likes to be boisterous and someone likes tranquility. Some people like cats and cats, and some people can't accept small animals.
Acquaintance, maybe fate.
But these fates are really enough for a while.
Delete each other after graduation, I don't really want to know you.
It's just inevitable, in some time and space, that they are arranged to meet.
Therefore, I tried to be as restrained as possible, and the river water did not violate the well water.
Or maybe the well floods by accident, and the river pretends to be magnanimous.
But people who are themselves two worlds do not have to be strong, unless you come to the world of the river, or don't live here.
Perhaps, sometimes, admitting that you don't want to be friends with some people is also a kind of relief for yourself.
- End -
Ghost Talent Junshi Brother
Sometimes domineering and sometimes cute.
Once longed to grow up overnight and chase the stars and the moon
Only then did I feel that the gentle world was in the student time
Spend a long time with you in college
@Ghost Talent Junshi Brother