There is a famous saying in "Youth":
"Youth is not youth, but state of mind;
Youth is not peach face, dan lips, soft knees, but deep will, magnificent imagination, fiery feelings;
Youth is the deep spring of life flowing. ”
We often find that some people are young but look old; some people are not young, but they look young and full of youth.
And a person's state of mind determines his appearance.
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nature
A person's personality, mentality and emotions can often be revealed in appearance.
There are two of the most useless things in the world, one is anger and the other is complaining.
Many times, the aging and bleakness you show are actually "out of breath".
Forget what should be forgotten, put what should be put. A little less calculating, a little more calm, you are happy with life and face, life will be gentle to you.
The heart is undeterred, the eyebrows are stretched, the eyes are gentle, the face is young, and the person is happy.
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self-discipline
After the age of 30, if you want to live a life of pursuit, you have to pay something, which is the price of exchange.
And fair enough.
Russell said:
"A person's face is the outward expression of a person's value. It hides not only your life, but also the life you are pursuing. ”
The degree of self-discipline of yours is equal to the degree of arrogance of your body.
In your self-discipline, there is your higher pursuit of life.
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independent
The mental outlook of those who grasp the initiative in life and those who constantly destroy the life is different.
On their faces, you can see the vigorous vitality and the confidence that emanates from the bones after the ability is affirmed.
The wind and water of life management, the eyes can not deceive people, their eyes contain enthusiasm for life, and have expectations for tomorrow.
It is the kind of self-confidence and determination that makes people burst with vitality beyond age. Your independence is actually your life force.
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Keep learning
To stay young, one is to posture, and the other is to cultivate.
No matter what age, please maintain a belief in not being old, have enthusiasm for life, continue to learn to enrich your inner, cultivate a hobby of your own, and improve yourself.
Whether it's keeping reading, learning a foreign language, or being exposed to something new.
Only by constantly improving oneself, the spiritual world will be enriched and enriched, the vision will be more open, and the more confident and calmly face the thorns and bumps of life.
"People are always old from the heart at the beginning, wrinkles are related to youth, not to beauty."
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Mental looks
In "Deng Disciple's Lustful Endowment", Song Yu said:
"The son of the subject owner, if you add one point, you will be long, if you subtract one point, you will be short, if you wear powder, you will be too white, and Shi Zhu will be too red..."
What makes people pleasing to the eye may be just the right dress, and what makes people stay for a long time is more because of good conversation and elegant cultivation.
Speak out
Language reflects a person's mental outlook better than a mirror.
In life, there is a ruler in words, measuring the level of mutual emotional intelligence, but measuring the height of one's own human being.
Laughter is good
Jokes are meant to make people happy, not to make people angry.
Laughter and ridicule, a word difference, but in a completely different way of expression, what is hidden is the temperature of being a person.
Do things in a measured manner
Confucius said in the Analects that to be a human being, we must understand the difference between superior and inferior, respect and inferiority, kinship and alienation, and the relationship between near and far.
Truly cultivated people understand that no matter how familiar and close they are, they should not lose their measure as a person.
Only by doing things in a measured manner and giving respect to each other can we give ourselves dignity.
Be virtuous
Confucius said: "Both ability and political integrity, led by virtue." ”
In a lifetime, the most amazing thing is not appearance, but elegant conversation; the most precious thing is not wealth, but rare character.