Last month, a shocking tragedy occurred in Vietnam, when a woman who had just given birth to a child hanged her seven-month-old son in a washing machine and hanged herself.
It is reported that the woman has been suffering from postpartum depression after giving birth to the child, and was stopped in time by her family when she had suicidal tendencies before, and only she and the child were at home on the day of the incident, which finally caused this tragedy.
Coincidentally, in recent years, the tragedies of young mothers carrying their children to their lives in mainland China have also abounded, which is simply to the point of "shocking"!
So, what is it that makes these young mothers resolutely embark on a road of no return? Is "postpartum depression" really to blame? Is it enough to cause people to despair of life and prefer to give up their lives? Especially with the life of your own child?!
The answer is clearly no!
The mainland has a large number of women every year, so why is the proportion of "postpartum depression" only a small part and not the vast majority?
The reason is nothing more than that although it is not unrelated to the direct factor of "postpartum", it is more related to the "fundamental crux" of "individual".
Because, first of all, the "depression" that can really be called "depression" is a kind of mental illness, which has a family genetic predisposition, a habitual pessimistic and negative, negative and world-weary person, and his family will certainly have relatives of this temperament.
Therefore, it can only be said that "postpartum" is a major "boost" factor, and the fundamental reason lies in the individual's style and attitude towards things.
Second, why are there so few cases of suicide with children in the older generation, but in today's society with increasing living standards, it is constantly playing out?
Is it that the abundance of material conditions and the satisfaction of various desires make more and more young people "unable to bear tiredness and suffering", and only when they encounter something less pleasant that they give up on themselves and "can't think of it"?
Especially now, young people have experienced the "family planning era", unlike the older generation with many brothers and sisters in the family and the "equal sharing" of parental care, they are all "pampered" only children or second-child members, and from the perspective of their parents alone, they are "reluctant" to let them suffer more.
It is just that the eternal truth of "eating bitterly, being a superior person" will not change with the changes of the times, and the various setbacks that were deliberately "avoided" when I was a child will inevitably become the "bumppo" of the road that cannot be "passed" in adulthood.
Even if it is not "postpartum depression", it may be "deceived depression" (such as suicide after encountering telecommunications fraud), "bankruptcy depression" (suicide after investment failure), "sick depression" (those who can't bear the disease to torture suicide) and so on.
Therefore, do not let "postpartum depression" back "black pot" at any time, although the sharp changes in hormones in the body after childbirth, the physical and mental exhaustion of taking care of the baby can also cause people to be "depressed", but it is not a decisive factor, and the root cause must be "investigated" by itself.
It is often said:
"Life is not satisfactory nine times out of ten."
In the face of various difficulties in life, the real strong will not give up on themselves and be willing to be "led by the nose" by fate, but have the courage to fight and fight back!
"There are always more ways than difficulties", when a certain journey in life is in prison, the first thing to bear should be brave to face up to it, to find ways to "self-salvation", rather than breaking the can at every turn, "surrendering".
The Book of Filial Piety and the Opening Of The Scriptures have clouds:
"The skin of the body, the parents who receive it, do not dare to destroy it, and the beginning of filial piety is also the beginning."
Even unintentional "destruction" is a "fault", not to mention the easy abandonment of life!
Abandoning one's own life is already "unforgivable", along with the life line of one's own flesh and blood, what kind of "unforgivable evil" is it?!
The adult world is not only about singing and laughing, so it is more necessary for everyone to be strong, strong and growing.
Escaping from reality and giving in to reality is the act of cowardice. Whatever the cause, it should not be an excuse for world-weariness, and innocent children should not be reduced to "funerary goods" for the "self-harming behavior" of some adults with poor resistance to stress!
May every "brave" be able to defy difficulties, be fearless, swear not to yield, and boldly say no to "depression"!
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