Love is a magical thing that can make a brave person timid, and it will also make a timid person brave.
The biggest expectation of love in our lives is that in our lifetime, we can meet a person who is the only fit with us.
Of course, this is also a state of fate, I am fortunate to have it, and I have lost my life.
However, if we meet such a person, we will definitely do everything in our power to seize this fate.
Because we don't know the next time we meet someone who feels the same way, we don't know when it will be.
Therefore, no matter what kind of situation it is, fate comes to us, we will seize the opportunity and will do our best to let the people who are compatible with us stay by our side.
Such motivations, whether men or women, are much the same.
In a relationship between the sexes, if a man wants to develop a relationship with you, he will send these 3 "signals".
It will become sticky in the way you chat
When a man wants to develop a relationship with a woman, the first thing that will be reflected will be the clinginess in the way of chatting.
Different from the delicate instinct of women's natural feelings, men will be very clumsy in the matter of verbal expression of their hearts because of rational thinking.
So, when we're with men, we may encounter situations like this – "Eat, what are you doing?", "There's a good movie, do you want to watch it with me this weekend?" And so on.
Sometimes we feel that the messages sent by men have no meaning at all, no romance at all, and even seem a little wooden.
But don't dislike them, or hate them, their clumsy tongue can only reflect the deepest feelings in this most ordinary way of chatting.
Wang Xiaobo wrote in his love letter to Li Yinhe: "I have now developed a habit of saying a few words to others every three or two days. ”
Language is a bridge between each other's emotions, and many interpersonal relationships are established because of a "hello" and then constantly sublimated.
So, when a rational man suddenly one day becomes clingy in the way they chat, that's the signal that they want to develop a relationship with you.
It will release the emotions for you in action
Li Dabao in the TV series "Ordinary Years" liked Duoduo when he first saw her.
Duo Duo is an actor in the drama troupe, with long hair and shawl, a beautiful posture, a beautiful face, and a special temperament, while Li Dabao is just an ordinary worker.
Li Dabao likes each other, but he knows that he is so ordinary, and there is nothing outstanding about him, how can he make such a beautiful flower like himself?
However, love has magic, even if you know that it is impossible, you must try hard, just to leave no regrets.
Therefore, Li Dabao knew that Duo Duo was afraid of the dark, and sent her to and from work every day, as long as Duo Duo was weak, he killed the big rooster at home to make up for Duo Duo.
Li Dabao is a rough man, he will not say anything sweet love words, but he knows that he will not express it in his mouth, he can only express it in action.
When a man likes a woman, maybe he won't say anything, and even a "I like you" will be fragmented and spit out.
But the feelings that are hidden deep in the heart and are not overflowing with words will drive them to express their emotions in action.
It will reveal clumsiness in words and deeds
When we don't have people in our hearts who we care about, we will feel that we have nothing to do anyway, and we won't care if anyone will dislike themselves because of their words and deeds.
And when we begin to have people we care about in our hearts, we will feel that our words and deeds should be paid attention to.
If it is because of their own abruptness that the other party does not care about themselves, it is inevitable that some gains will not be worth the loss.
So, if we see a man who usually grins a lot, but suddenly there is a person who makes his big grin converge, but instead has some shy, embarrassed daughter family posture.
Don't doubt, he must have had someone he liked, that's why he was so careful.
Marx said: "It seems to me that true love is manifested in the implicit, modest and even shy attitude of the lover towards his idol, rather than in the casual expression of enthusiasm and premature intimacy." ”
In fact, love is like this.
Cautious, clumsy, and men's way of thinking is rational, they are not as bold as girls in expressing their feelings.
Therefore, we must learn to grasp these clues, if we are also interested in each other, when we receive the signal from the other party, we must give back.
Isn't having a love affair that pleases you the best thing in the world?