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Liking a person is a reasonless short-sightedness, a blatant preference, and a subconscious spoiling.
Maybe he is usually a relatively cold person, but he is gentle and meticulous to you, protects you, spoils you, and only prefers you.
You are the first choice, the exception, the only one who will come to you with earthly tenderness.
You can trust him with confidence because he will be your patron for the rest of your life; you can trust yourself completely to him because he will not fail you.
With him, whenever and wherever he is, he will put you first, give you a sense of security, and reassure you.
Women must understand that the man who has you in his heart will put you in one position at these three times.
01 When arguing, put you first
A relationship, not all sweet.
Two people have been together for a long time, even if the feelings are good, there will inevitably be conflicts.
It is normal for love to be noisy, but his attitude when he quarrels is how much he loves you.
After all, to see if a person has you in his heart, you can't see how good he usually is to you, but to see how much he lets you when he argues with you. ”
If he speaks ill of you as soon as he quarrels, vents his emotions without restraint, and hurts you at all costs, then he does not have you in his heart.
People who have you in their hearts will let you do everything, care about your feelings, and always put you first.
He is reluctant to make you sad and sad, so he will always be soft at the first time when you quarrel, coaxing you, hoping that you can be happy.
Love is not a game, the person who loves you will not argue with you about right or wrong, fight to win or lose, but will put you first in the time of quarrel, coax you, let you.
02 When you are busy, put you first
Being in a relationship with someone who doesn't have you in his heart always makes you wait, wait for him to be busy, wait for him to have time, wait for him to be free.
Later, I waited for disappointment, waited for regret and turned around.
But in fact, the man who has you in his heart will not let you wait, no matter how busy he is, he will also put you first.
As Fu Seoul once said:
"Idleness, idleness, love are all idle, if there is still love in the busy, it is probably true love." 」
When you think about it, it is.
If a man, always looking for you to spend time when he is bored, but ignores you when you need it, under the pretext of being busy, then he does not actually love you.
People who have you in their hearts will always put you first, even if they are busy, they will put you first in everything.
For him, you are the first choice, the exception, the unique preference.
03When attending social events, put you first
A particularly envious sentence:
"I want to talk about an open love affair, parents agree, relatives know, friends blessed love, if you can, only love you." 」
Indeed, a man who has you in his heart will put you first wherever he is.
He will take you to his circle of friends, be generous and introduce you to others, let everyone know that you exist, and let you integrate into his circle of life.
Every time you socialize with him, you don't feel awkward or unnatural. Because he cares about your feelings all the time and puts you first.
He will introduce his best friend to you and share with you the minutiae of his life.
There is no concealment, everything will think of you, everywhere for you to consider, with friends to bring you, family and friends respect you, always put you first, in fact, there is your best performance in the heart.
Love is the first choice, is the preference, and is the only one.
When arguing, putting you first, that's a kind of pampering; when you're busy, putting you first, that's a kind of caring; when you're at a social event, putting you first, that's an affirmation.
If you've also met someone who treats you like this as a first choice and exception, cherish it because he really loves you.
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