Naran Rongruo once wrote in the words:
"If life is only like the first sight, what autumn wind and sorrow paint fan."
Waiting for idle changes but the old people's hearts, but the old people's hearts are changeable. ”
Everyone wants to fly with the people they like, live in two places, and live a lifetime.
However, the world is changeable, and people's hearts are even more unpredictable.
Some emotions, after all, cannot withstand the flow of the world and the changes in the world.
But even so, we still have to learn to accept.
After all, feelings are not something that can be maintained by one person.
Once the man gives you the following 2 signals, it means that the fate between you has ended.
Don't contact you anymore
There is a line in the movie "He Actually Doesn't Like You That Much":
"If he suddenly and inexplicably disappears, don't expend enormous energy to solve the 'mystery of the missing man'.
Whether you find all sorts of evidence and excuses to comfort yourself, the only fact is:
He doesn't want to be with you anymore and doesn't have the guts to make it clear to you. ”
In the adult world, many words are not understood, but they know each other's hearts.
Those who no longer actively contact you, those who do not reply to the message or who have to wait a long time to get back to you, find more excuses;
In fact, there is only one truth, that is, no love.
Remember that there is a sentence in "Relief Grocery Store":
"The severance of love between people does not require any specific reason;
Even if there is on the surface, it is likely that the result of the mind has left, and the excuse is only made up afterwards. ”
For if the mind does not leave, when the state of affairs that causes the rupture occurs, someone should try to save it.
If not, it means that the relationship has already broken down.
Feelings are always a matter of two people, if only one person is sewing the gap, while the other person is continuing to tear the gap;
Then, the speed of salvation, it is difficult to catch up with the speed of breaking.
It is best to love one person and be happy with each other, and if you can't, then it is good to be free from each other.
Don't embarrass others, it's more important to let yourself go.
Some people, some love, are not worth the cost of years.
Cold violence
Cold violence is probably the most obvious and irreparable sign of the end of all feelings.
When the other person wants to escape, you can't find anyone at all.
Calls are unanswered, and messages are not answered.
I wanted to solve the problem well, but I didn't have a chance.
This kind of cold treatment can really make people lose control of their emotions.
It's not as calm as other people say.
On the contrary, it will be more depressed and depressed.
There is no way to concentrate on anything.
Always thinking about what went wrong, how a good feeling has become like this.
In fact, you are not wrong, it's just that the person you love doesn't love you anymore.
He wants to be separated from you, and he doesn't want to bear the name of a scumbag.
So I put cold violence on you and try to get you to take the initiative to break up.
For men to think like this, women don't be stupid not to understand.
Men who really love you are reluctant to be cold and violent to you.
After calming down after arguing with you, he will take the initiative to bow his head and admit his mistake to you because he is afraid of losing you.
There will be no cold violence to torture you at all.
Only men who don't love you will be so cruel to you.
In "A Thousand Miles", it is said:
"Life is a train to the grave, there will be many stops on the road, it is difficult for someone to accompany you from beginning to end."
When the person who accompanies you is about to get off the bus, even if you don't give up, you should be grateful and wave goodbye. ”
There will always be love of one kind or another in life.
As it was said in the movie "Love Wireless":
"Love is not something we can actively choose, and it will not develop the way we expect it to."
When a relationship has reached the end and it is time to end, I hope you can slowly learn to stop the loss in time,
Stop dwelling on what has happened and the relationships that have rotted.
We must learn to let go and take out all the worries in our hearts.
Make room for people who truly love you and care about you.
Don't be discouraged by the status quo, and maintain the existing efforts.
You're bound to meet someone who truly loves you and wants to work with you for the rest of your life.