While being kind to others, it is also about respecting yourself
ON1
Disrespect for people is, first of all, disrespect for oneself
One day before dinner, I went to the intersection restaurant to buy cold dishes. There weren't many people in the hotel, and the hostess was cleaning up the table, so I stood and waited for a moment.
When she was done, I said to buy a cold dish, and the hostess responded coldly: "Wait a minute!" ”
I waited for a while to see that she finally came over, so I picked out a few dishes.
Because I had bought it at her house a long time ago, I wasn't sure if the price had changed today, so I asked her if it was still the original price.
But when I asked about it for the fifth time, the hostess reluctantly answered.
After paying, I left sadly with a cold dish. Since then, whenever I wanted to buy cold vegetables, the attitude of the hostess would remind me not to go.
Later, I found that many people mentioned the boss lady, and everyone unanimously commented badly. After a long time, her business was deserted.
In life, we can always see such a phenomenon: those shops with prosperous business are always gentle and polite. And those businesses who have a dismal business have a cold and unfriendly attitude.
There is a saying that disrespect for people is first of all disrespect for oneself.
Life is not easy, every family has a difficult scripture, everyone has a difficult song.
Don't laugh at others, respect others, and be kind to others.
No matter how beautiful people are, there are sour and cold pains behind them, and no matter how happy people are, they also have helpless difficulties in their hearts.
Thirty years of Hedong, thirty years of Hexi, be kind to others.
On the road of life, we must learn to be kind to others, and we must also know how to be kind to ourselves.
Being kind to others can make life go further; being kind to yourself can make life nourished.
No matter who you treat well, in fact, it is warmth that flows, it is love that is delayed, and in the end, it is giving to others and benefiting itself.
In good times, think about being kind to others.
To be submissive is to show peace to others; to be self-sufficient, to show humility to others; to be happy, to show others to be calm.
Treating people with a peaceful attitude can not only make yourself feel happy, but also make others feel comfortable. On the contrary, it makes both sides feel bad, affecting both emotions and losing trust.
ON2
My attitude hurt my friend deeply
This brings me to mind one thing.
I was at home until my job was stable. The mood is also not very good, like a person to think wildly.
Once, a friend asked me how my job had been lately, and I told her that she was unemployed.
Friends immediately said that their company just happened to have a vacancy, if you need it, you can help me contact.
Although I verbally agreed, I never went to the interview, let alone the idea of going out to work again.
Later, she introduced me to several jobs, and the conditions of treatment were good in all aspects, but I still refused.
Once a friend came to see me and advised me to go out while I was young. But I didn't listen to the advice at all, and I looked very impatient.
My attitude deeply hurt my friend, and since then, she has slowly faded from me.
ON3
The more cultivated a person is, the more he knows how to be kind to others
The more cultivated people are, the more they know how to get along with people, and the more they can bring people ease and pleasure.
It's comfortable to get along, and it's actually hard to get along, which seems simple. It may seem easy for you to make people happy, but it is hard to do.
But anyone who can make others feel happy, their life will be wonderful.
Because they know how to respect others and make others comfortable, they will naturally get the respect of others.
Once you get along, your connections open and many friends are willing to get along with you.
They will bring you information on all aspects and will advise you on your affairs.
It's hard for you to succeed or not, and in the end it's a great wisdom to make others happy.
When I one day encountered the same attitude of others, I realized that being kind to others is the greatest respect for myself.
Treating others with an indifferent attitude will hurt each other's feelings, and at the same time, it will also keep each other away.
Treating others with a peaceful attitude will enhance each other's feelings and also bring each other closer.
The more cultivated a person is, the more he knows how to be kind to others. While being kind to others, it is also about respecting yourself.
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