29 years old, an age that inherits the past and the future.
To the left, it is the untraceable twenty-year-old; to the right, it is the heavy "thirty and standing".
What kind of mentality should we use to welcome the age of thirty? Has it reached the worldly standard of thirty-year-old success? How do you deal with peer pressure? How to accept that you are an ordinary person and achieve self-consistency?
Today we invited a few twenty-nine-year-olds to hear what they had to say:
"You're ______
"You're ____ years old, you can't..."
"You're almost __________
Age shame, also known as "ageism," has always existed implicitly or explicitly, both men and women. As you grow older, you come up with a standard timeline for success and a timeline for elimination.
Failure to meet the success criteria in time and getting closer and closer to the elimination time will make this anxiety worse. The 35-year-old crisis in the workplace, the 30-year-old crisis in the marriage market, the admiration for white and thin, girlishness...
However, no one does not get old. In the face of "thirty and standing", they strive to find self-consistency and reconcile with anxiety.
I hope you can also find it, and I hope the world is a little friendly to getting old
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