The sense of freshness and stimulation between people will gradually weaken after exploring each other, the relationship tends to be flat, and when the sense of freshness and stimulation disappears, people's vision will pay attention to more practical places.
In fact, in the relationship, when you remove the disguise, the contradiction of the relationship will quietly arise, the smartest point of people is the disguise, and the most stupid point is also the disguise.
When people begin to face the real self, the real other party, the real relationship, the tests that need to be met become more, and the most important test at this time is the comfort of the relationship in the hearts of both parties.
This determines whether the two parties are suitable and what the nature of the relationship is in the minds of both parties.
Of course, this is the observation point and the actual point of view from an objective point of view, for many people, in fact, it is more important to see the conditions and the degree of like, but for the following constellation, what they require is objective comfort.
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Libra has always been called a diamond-level member of the Appearance Association, but perhaps many people will misunderstand the Libra crowd because of this.
Libra is indeed a physical appearance association. But the key point is not the appearance, but the breath and feeling behind the appearance.
It can be understood that if a person is very handsome, or very beautiful, but Libra does not feel good when approaching him, Libra will also comb away from this person.
Most of the people libra chooses are people who can exude a kind and peaceful atmosphere, but one thing must be made clear, because Libra believes in this peaceful atmosphere, it is easy to be disguised as peace and break its own balance.
This thing often happens after marriage, and it is generally more difficult for Libra to lose its balance in love.
The peaceful breath we are talking about now is the atmosphere, the atmosphere is the key factor in getting along with comfort, Libra is with people because of the breath, and 99% of the reasons for breaking up with people are still because of the breath.
This is a detail point, for example, we will talk about the situation of the breakup, Libra breaks up or is broken, the special situation is the other party breaks up, or the other party out of G, split T.
Well in general, when a Libra breaks up and you go and ask him why, he will tell you that it is inappropriate because it is uncomfortable.
Discomfort refers to the inability to get along.
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In the matter of feelings, no zodiac sign is more "objective" than the wind sign, and their focus is always on the relationship, not on the other person, and the same is true for Gemini and Aquarius.
Libra can be said to be the most balanced one in the wind elephant, balance is the advantage of Libra, but it is also a deficiency, it is precisely because it pays too much attention to the balance of the self, so it is difficult to make a decisive decision when making a choice, and they need to delay the entanglement when making a decision.
Procrastination and entanglement are actually feeling the feelings that the relationship or event brings to themselves, and they make decisions based on this.
Because the cognition and feeling of the relationship in the relationship are more objective, their calculation results of various things in the relationship also tend to be objective.
It's just that in terms of feeling this thing, they can't be objective, because the basis is their subjective feelings.
This is a common logic of wind signs, we make an extension, for example, a person is very good to Libra, pay for him are active, big and small, Libra can remember this good.
Then Libra returns to the other party is equally good, but if the other party is too good to Libra, Libra will be uncomfortable, because he has lost the balance in his heart, that is to say, he also needs to pay equal goodness, and his own heart can be balanced.
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This concept is undoubtedly uncomfortable for Libra, because this kind of thing is of a compulsive nature, that is, he does not think that he needs to pay that way, or do the same thing.
Then on the opposite side is also the case, a person is not good for Libra, Libra naturally will not be good to him, how you are to Libra, Libra is how to you, this is very fair, there is no need to talk about any emotional logic or reasoning.
Whether it is positive or negative, Libra is in the development and process of subjective feeling relationships, too thick is not good, too light is not good.
What Libra needs is the comfort of this equilibrium, without which Libra will not be accustomed to the relationship, and without habit, the mind will not be stable.
So when you are in contact with Libra, talk less about the problem of love or not, no matter how you talk about it, how to do it, Libra needs to feel subjectively by yourself, you are too thick, too light.
The question you have to consider is whether he is comfortable, in a comfortable environment of Libra, whether it is emotions or temper will be a state of peace and stability, except for the negative Libra.
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So you can also be objective in terms of feeling whether the atmosphere is comfortable or not, because the feedback that Libra gives you is exactly how he feels about the relationship at present.
Libra people need this nutrient too much in their feelings, two people have come and gone, emotional material payment is not more and no less, so that there is no compulsion, no guilt, no resentment, and naturally can develop the relationship steadily.
In fact, many people say that Libra is indifferent based on their characteristics.
I don't owe you, you don't owe me, I owe you I feel guilty, my heart is uneasy, you owe me, I am equally uneasy in my heart.
This is a kind of rational blessing of thinking, lack of emotional blessing, so many people who get along with Libra will feel that they are indifferent to themselves.
But we do have to admit and accept that this concept is part of Libra's values, and Libra will be uneasy when it touches this point.
And if you can handle the atmosphere of the relationship and adjust the comfort of getting along, you will find that Libra's inclusiveness is very strong, as long as you let him have perception in advance, you often tolerate him.
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