Uncle Lover's Introduction:
Some people say that to love a person is to tolerate her and understand her, because if you love a person, you should love everything about her, not because she becomes what you like, you love her, but because of her own appearance, you are moved. But when a man chooses a woman, he can't just think about love, even if you love a woman very much, you should have your own principles and bottom line. No matter how much you love her, you should not tolerate her three shortcomings, otherwise it will bring you fatal harm.
Addicted to gambling
Sometimes falling in love with a person is completely unaware, and even if you don't know what to love the other person, you are inexplicably attracted to a certain feature of the other person, and then you can't leave. Maybe this is love, but love should not be blind, because only the love that has a happy ending belongs to you is brilliant, otherwise it is just a flash in the pan and there is no happy ending.
In love, men themselves do have more reason than women, so you should have your own bottom line. Even if you love each other, but if the other party has some shortcomings that violate your bottom line, you should stop it in time, and sometimes stopping the loss in time is also a kind of respect for love.
Just like there are some women who show signs of addiction to gambling, no matter how much you dissuade them, there is no way to correct it. Even if such a woman may have a lot of shining points to attract you, but indulging in gambling is enough to make you leave. You need to know that this is not a small flaw, once this flaw is amplified and exploded, it will become a fatal injury to you and even pull you into the water.
Indulge yourself
Love should be beautiful, whether it is the initial stage of the budding of love, or the intermediate stage of love blossoming, or the most beautiful stage of love results, in any stage, you should simply, without scruples to love, once a feeling loses the bottom line, this love will no longer be simple.
The understanding and tolerance in love is actually very beautiful, but many people do not cherish this understanding and tolerance. Men should not blindly tolerate in love, there are some things that can be tolerated, but there are some things that cannot be indulged.
If a woman is very self-indulgent in front of you, then it is not recommended that you dig your heart and lungs. Because there is probably no result, and even if there is, it is not a good ending. If a woman always indulges herself in life, does not study hard and does not pursue self-improvement, visits the bar today, visits the night club tomorrow, even if she shines elsewhere, you should also curb her feelings in time. Otherwise you will pay a heavy price for it.
There is no respect for the elder
The original intention of loving someone is very beautiful, but the process is not easy. Men, no matter how much you love a woman, you should investigate before deciding whether or not to continue.
Not all love will have a happy ending, and not all people deserve to be loved by you. Love should be conditional, and this condition does not refer to what the other person has, but whether the other party has violated your principles or bottom line. If a woman has a big grin and looks very good, this is her advantage that makes you move. But she is disrespectful, talking and treating people very rudely, if it is such a woman, her disrespect is enough to make you stop the loss in time. Because you have to know that a woman has no respect, in fact, her personality itself is flawed.
Uncle Epilogue:
Love is inclusive, but there is a bottom line to this tolerance. Once a woman violates the bottom line of the above three principles, then men should carefully consider where they love to stay. Some shortcomings are harmless, but some shortcomings can bring fatal damage to people and make you unable to turn over for a long time, so men should be decisive and brave when making choices.